Ubungani ngokungangabazeki ingenye ye- izipho ezinhle kakhulu esinikwe zona. Sikhetha abangani abazohamba nathi impilo yethu yonke futhi abazokwenza uhambo lwethu lube lukhulu, lucebe futhi lube mnandi.
Kepha asihlali sibona ukuthi sinenhlanhla kangakanani. Eqinisweni, njengoba kwenzeka kaningi, sithatha kalula izinto ezingathathelwa phezulu nhlobo: yingakho kubalulekile ukuzikhumbuza sibaluleke kangakanani isipho sobungani nekheli imishwana yothando nokubonga kubantu esinabo eceleni kwethu.
Singakwenza futhi lokhu ngokuboleka amagama amahle yababhali abadumile nezimbongi zesikhathi esidlule abasinike zona izinkondlo ezimnandi nezingenakulibaleka.
Amavesi amakhulu agcwele ama-pathos ukubungaza obekuhlale kubhekwa omunye wemizwa emihle kakhulu futhi ebaluleke kakhulu, cishe ulingana nothando. Kunjalo, ngoba phela ubungani abuyilutho olunye ngaphandle kokuthi uthando laphakade phakathi kwemiphefumulo yezihlobo futhi ixhunyaniswe nobudlelwano obukhethekile.
Ngakho-ke nayi i- 20 izinkondlo ezinhle kakhulu ngobungani ukubungaza lo muzwa nokunikela amagama agcwele uthando nokuhlonipha abangane esinabo eduze kwethu futhi nsuku zonke abasisiza ukwenza impilo yethu ibe yinhle futhi ibe lula.
Kanye nemigqa nemisho enamandla kakhulu nezinkondlo, kukhona futhi izinkondlo zezingane, njengodumile poesia-imvumelwano enkulisa kaGianni Rodari okusiza ukuqonda kusukela ebuncaneni ukuthi ikhetheke kangakanani le nto ebizwa ngokuthi ubungani.
1. Ubungane, UPam Brown
Enesizungu, ekuguleni, ekudidekeni,
ulwazi olulula lobungane
kwenza sikwazi ukumelana,
noma ngabe umngani akanawo amandla okusisiza.
Kwanele ukuthi ikhona.
Ubungani abuncishiswa ibanga noma isikhathi,
kusukela ekuboshweni noma empini,
ekuhluphekeni noma ekuthuleni.
Kukulezi zinto lapho kuthatha izimpande zawo ezijule kakhulu.
Kungenxa yalezi zinto lapho ichuma….
2. Inkumbulo yomngane, UDavid Maria Turoldo
Ngicabanga ukuthi akukho okunye okusiduduza kangaka,
okuningi njengokukhumbula umngane,
injabulo yokuzethemba kwakhe
noma impumuzo enkulu yokumthululela isifuba kuye
ngokuthula okuphelele:
impela ngoba ungumngani.
Duduza isifiso sokuphinde simbone uma ukude,
ukuyivusa ukuze uyizwe isondele,
cishe ukuzwa izwi lakhe
bese uqhubeka nezingxoxo ezingapheli.
3. Umngani wami, U-Emily Hearn
Umngane wami ufana nokukhonkotha
uzungeze isihlahla,
ungifudumeza njengelanga
ngosuku lwasebusika,
kungiqabula njengamanzi
ntambama kushisa,
izwi lakhe linempilo
ingoma yenyoni entwasahlobo,
ungumngane wami,
nami ngingowakhe.
4. Ndoda, susa okufunayo, Pablo Neruda
Ndoda, susa okufunayo,
cwilisa amehlo akho emakhoneni,
futhi uma ufuna ngizokunika umphefumulo wami wonke
ngezindlela zayo ezimhlophe nezingoma zalo.
5. Ubungane, UJorge Luis Borges
Angikwazi ukukunikeza izixazululo
kuzo zonke izinkinga zokuphila
Anginazo izimpendulo ngokungabaza noma ukwesaba kwakho,
kepha ngiyabalalela futhi ngihlanganyele nabo
Nami angikwazi ukukushintsha okwedlule
noma ikusasa lakho
Kepha uma ngiyidinga ngizoba seduze kwakho
Angikwazi ukukusiza ekuweni,
Ngingakunika isandla sami kuphela
ukuze ikusekele ungawi
Injabulo yakho, impumelelo yakho nokunqoba kwakho
akuzona ezami
Kepha ngijabula ngobuqotho uma ngibona nijabule
Angazihluleli izinqumo ozenzayo empilweni
Ngincika kuwe ukuze ndikushukumise
futhi ngikusize uma ungibuza
Angikwazi ukudweba imikhawulo
ngaphakathi okufanele uthuthe,
Kepha ngingakunika isikhala
kuyadingeka ukukhula
Angikwazi ukukugwema ukuhlupheka kwakho,
lapho ezinye izinhlungu zithinta inhliziyo yakho
Kepha ngingakhala nawe bese ngicosha izingcezu ukuze ngikubuyisele futhi.
Angikwazi ukukutshela ukuthi uyini noma kufanele ube yini
Ngingakufuna kuphela njengoba unjalo
futhi ube umngane wakho.
6. Ubuhle bobungani, Ralph Waldo Emerson
Ubukhazikhazi bobungane
akusona isandla eseluliwe
noma ukumamatheka ngobumnene
noma injabulo yenkampani:
kungukukhuthazwa okungokomoya lapho sithola
ukuthi othile uyakholelwa kithi
futhi uzimisele ukusethemba.
7. Uma ngikwazi ukugcina inhliziyo ingaphuli, U-Emily Dickinson
Uma ngikwazi ukukuvimbela
enhliziyweni yokuphuka
Ngabe angizange ngiphile ize.
Uma ngidambisa izinhlungu zempilo yonke
noma ngizonciphisa ubuhlungu
noma ngizosiza irobhothi eliwile
ukufaka isidleke kabusha
Ngeke ngiphile ize!
Namuhla kusekude ebuntwaneni
kodwa phezulu naphansi kwamagquma
Ngibambe isandla sakhe siqine
lokho kunciphisa wonke amabanga!
Izinyawo zalabo abahamba beya ekhaya
hamba nezimbadada ezilula!
8. Ungayifihli imfihlo yenhliziyo yakho, URabrindranath Tagore
Ungafihli
imfihlo yenhliziyo yakho,
mngani wami!
Ngitshele, yimi kuphela,
ngokuzethemba.
Wena omomotheka ngomusa,
ngitshele kancane,
inhliziyo yami izoyilalela,
hhayi izindlebe zami.
Ubusuku bujulile,
indlu ethule,
izidleke zezinyoni
bathule ebuthongweni.
Ngiveze ngezinyembezi ezingabazayo,
phakathi kokumamatheka kokuthuthumela,
phakathi kobuhlungu nehlazo elimnandi,
imfihlo yenhliziyo yakho.
9. Yiba nomngane, Gyo Fujikawa
Kuhle kakhulu uma ningabangani,
ukudlala ndawonye,
uzizwe ujabulile.
Kumnandi ukukhuluma nomngani wami
ube nezimfihlo eziyinkulungwane ongazitshela
futhi bahleke ndawonye bahleke kakhulu
izizathu zokuhleka azilahlekile.
Vele, kungenzeka kwesinye isikhathi
ukuzithola belwa
futhi ngalezo zikhathi bathi omunye komunye: Sanibonani,
awuseyena umngani wami!
Kepha kungekudala uzoyanga
ngaphandle kwakhe awazi nje ukuthi ungaba kanjani.
Futhi ngijabule futhi ngijabule ngesandla
abangane beqiniso bahamba ndawonye.
10. Bangani, UGianni Rodari
Sisho isaga sezinsuku ezedlule
"Kungcono wedwa kunokuhamba kabi".
Ngazi eyodwa enhle kakhulu:
"Ngenkampani uya kude".
Isaga sithi, ngubani owaziyo ukuthi kungani:
"Noma ngubani owenza yedwa wenzela abathathu".
Kusukela kule ndlebe angizwa:
"Noma ngubani onabangani abayikhulu wenza ikhulu!".
Isaga manje kufanele siguqulwe:
"Labo bodwa abakwazi ukwenza amaphutha!".
Lokhu, ngithi, kungamanga:
"Uma sibaningi, kumnandi!".
11. Umngani, Khalil Gibran
Uyini umngani kuwe,
Kungani kufanele uyifune
Ukubulala isikhathi?
Ngaso sonke isikhathi ibheke ukuze iphile isikhathi.
Empeleni, kufanele igcwalise izidingo zakho,
hhayi ubuze bakho.
Nasebumnandini bobungani
Kukhona ukuhleka,
Futhi sabelana ngezikhathi zenjabulo.
Ngoba ngamazolo
wezinto ezincane
Inhliziyo ithola ukusa kwayo
Futhi iyaziqabula.
12. Ngiyakholelwa kuwe mngani, U-Elena Oshiro
Ngiyakholelwa emomotheka kwakho
vula iwindi kuwe.
Ngiyakholelwa ekubukekeni kwakho,
isibuko sokwethembeka kwakho.
Ngiyakholelwa esandleni sakho,
njalo ulwela ukupha.
Ngiyakholelwa kokwanga kwakho,
ukwamukela okuqotho kwenhliziyo yakho.
Ngiyakholelwa ezwini lakho,
ukubonakaliswa kwalokho okuthandayo nethemba lakho.
Ngiyakholelwa kuwe mngani
ngakho-ke,
ngobugagu bokuthula.
13. Akuyena nami, UCecilia Casanova
Noma yena
nami
sabona
ukuthi ubungani bethu bebugcwele
amajika.
Qondisa
bekungaba ukuhlambalaza.
14. Uthando nobungani, Emily Bronte
Uthando lunjenge-rosacanina,
ubungani buyi-holly.
UHolly onsundu lapho i-rose lihluma
kepha yimuphi kulaba ababili ozoba luhlaza isikhathi eside?
Iruva lasendle limnandi entwasahlobo,
izimbali zawo zakha amakha ehlobo,
kodwa linda ukuthi ubusika buvele futhi
ngubani ongadumisa ubuhle bejikijolo, na?
Delela umqhele oncomekayo wama roses
futhi ugqoke i-holly ecwebezelayo,
ngoba uDisemba othinta isiphongo sakho
usashiya umqhele ohlaza okotshani.
15. Imibuzo ebuzwa kimiWislawa Szymborska
Yini okuqukethwe ukumamatheka
nokuxhawulana?
Ekwamukeleni
awusoze waba kude
njengoba kwesinye isikhathi kukude
indoda ivela kumuntu
lapho linikeza isahlulelo esinobutha
ekuboneni kokuqala?
Njalo isiphetho somuntu
vula njengencwadi
ngifuna imizwa
hhayi ngezinhlamvu zayo,
hhayi ku-edishini?
Ngokuqiniseka konke,
ubamba abanye abantu?
Impendulo yakho evasive,
ongenabuzenzisi,
ihlaya elingenalutho-
uwabalile umonakalo?
Ubungani obungagcwaliseki,
imihlaba efriziwe.
Uyazi ubungani buyahamba
ukuvumelana njengothando?
Kukhona labo abangazange baqhubeke
kulo msebenzi onzima.
Futhi emaphutheni abangane
bekungekho yini iphutha lakho?
Abanye baye bakhononda futhi beluleka.
Zingaki izinyembezi ezichiphayo
ngaphambi kokuba ulethe usizo?
Ukubambisana
yenjabulo yeminyaka eyizinkulungwane-
mhlawumbe ukugejile
umzuzu owodwa
izinyembezi, usizi ebusweni?
Awusoze wavika
ukukhathala kwabanye abantu?
Ingilazi yayiphezu kwetafula
futhi akekho oye wabona,
laze lawa
ngokuthinta okuphazamisekile.
Kepha konke kulula
ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu?
16. Ungahambi phambi kwami, U-Albert Camus
Ungahambi phambi kwami, kungenzeka ngingakulandeli.
Ungahambi ngemuva kwami, angazi ukuthi ngingakuholela kuphi.
Hamba eceleni kwami futhi sizohlala singabangane.
17. Amadoda enzelwe ukuthi aqondakale, UPaul Eluard
Amadoda enzelwe ukuthi aqondwe
ukuqonda omunye nomunye ukuthandana
banabantwana abazoba obaba babantu
banezingane ezingenakhaya elingenakhaya
ozovuselela amakhaya
ngubani ozophinde avuselele amadoda
nemvelo nezwe lakubo
lokho kwabo bonke abantu
lokho kwaso sonke isikhathi.
18. ISonnet 104, UWilliam Shakespeare
Kimi, mngani wami,
awusoze waguga,
Ngiqale nini ukuhlangana nombono wakho,
okunje namhlanje ubuhle bakho buyavela;
ubusika obubandayo obuthathu bunyakazise ukuziqhenya kwamahlobo amathathu ezihlahleni,
iziphethu ezintathu ezinomusa zibunile ekwindla ephuzi engizibonile ngokulandelana kwezinkathi zonyaka,
kuvulwe ezintathu ezinamakha zivutha ngomlilo zangoJuni amathathu selokhu ngakubona uqhakaza, umncane njengamanje.
Kepha ubuhle bufana nethunzi elisesundwini eliqhubekela phambili ngaphandle kokukhombisa ijubane lalo;
ubusha bakho, obubonakala buqinile kimi njalo,
inokunyakaza iso lami elingakuboni:
uma ukwesaba lokhu, yazi, ukulalela okuzayo:
ngaphambi kokufika kwakho ihlobo lobuhle lase lifile.
19. Ngikhula rose elimhlophe, UJosé Martí)
Ngikhula rose elimhlophe
ngoJuni nangoJanuwari
kumngane oqotho
owelula isandla sakhe esingagunci kimi.
Nangenxa yesihluku esingidabulayo
inhliziyo engiphila ngayo,
angihlwanyeli amakhakhasi nobabule;
Ngilima i-rose elimhlophe.
20. Ongaziwa
Angikuthandi kuphela ngalokho oyikho,
kodwa ukuthi ngingubani uma nginawe.
Angikuthandi kuphela ngalokho okwenze kuwe,
kodwa ngalokhu okwenzayo nami.
Ngiyakuthanda ngoba wenze okuningi kunokwenza kwakho
noma yikuphi ukukholwa ukungenza ngibe ngcono,
futhi ngaphezu kwanoma yisiphi isiphetho esenziwe ukungijabulisa.
Ukwenze ngaphandle kokuthinta, ngaphandle kwegama, ngaphandle kokuvuma ngekhanda.
Ukwenze ngokuba nguwe uqobo.
Mhlawumbe, phela, lokhu kusho ukuba ngumngane.
