Ngisho nabamanqikanqika kakhulu ukulandela amasiko ngandlela thize banqotshwa omunye wemilingo yothando abazi kakhulu ukuthinta inhliziyo: sikhuluma ngesipho sothando.indandatho yomshado. Uma kukhulunywa ngalolu hlobo lobucwebe, kuyathakazelisa ukulandelela umlando walo. Ake sithole imininingwane ndawonye emigqeni elandelayo.
Umlando wendandatho yokuthembisana
le izindandatho zokuzibandakanya azizange zibe nencazelo eziphawulayo namuhla. Ukuqonda lokhu, khumbula nje ukuthi, al isikhathi samaVisigoth, yayimelela isibopho esibophezelayo kakhulu kunalesi samanje, esangempela inkontileka engaqedwa. Ngaleso sikhathi, njengesimemezelo esibalulekile sothando, baphendukela esiphweni se-apula kowesifazane osemusha owayefuna ukunqoba inhliziyo yakhe.
Isimo sashintsha kakhulu endaweni 1477. Unyaka osanda kushiwo ungathathwa njengomthombo wamanzi wangempela. Isizathu? Eqinisweni, ukukhetha UMaximilian I waseHabsburg, uMbusi Ongcwele WaseRoma kusukela ngo-1493 kwaze kwaba sekufeni kwakhe ngo-1519, ka nikela ngedayimane kuMary waseBurgundy njengesithembiso esisemthethweni somshado.
Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, ilebula yangaphambi komshado yashintsha unomphela: hhayi kuphela isiko lokunikeza indandatho - cishe njalo idayimane le-solitaire - lasakazeka, kodwa futhi nenkolelo yokuthi kuzoletha amashwa ukuthenga indandatho yokuthembisana kanye nezangempela e Ngisikhathi esifanayo.
Uma i-1477 ibhekwa njengekhasi lokuqala le- umlando wanamuhla wendandatho yokuthembisana, uhambo lwangempela ngabe seluqale ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ngokusho kwemibono ehlukene, owokuqala ukunikela izindandatho njengophawu lothando bekungaba abaseGibhithe lasendulo. Isiko laliyobe selitholwa amaGreki futhi kamuva ngo AmaRoma. Ukusukela enkathini yale mpucuko yokugcina kukhona nobufakazi obuhlukahlukene. Phakathi kwalokhu, lezo ezihlobene izindandatho ezimbili ezinikelwe ngamadoda kubakoti bakusasa. Esokuqala kwakuyigolide futhi kwakufanele sigqokwe uma kunemicimbi yomphakathi. I okwesibili, yenziwe ngensimbi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kwakuwukubukisa ngezimo zasekhaya.
AmaRoma asendulo nawo anikeza isiko lokufaka indandatho yokuthembisana - futhi kamuva ukholo - emunweni wendandatho. Babengabokuqala ukucabanga ukuthi kulo munwe oshiwo ngenhla kwadlula umthambo oholela ngqo enhliziyweni, isitho esihlotshaniswa nothando emhlabeni wonke.
Imodeli eye yathatha amakhulu eminyaka
Theiringi enikelwe nguMaximilian waseHabsburg kumlobokazi wakhe wesikhathi esizayo uye wafinyelela ngokoqobo emakhulwini eminyaka. Ukukhombisa lokhu, kungenzeka ukungabaza ukukhetha kwesakhiwo sesakhiwo esifana neso Tiffany okuyinto, ngaphezu kwalokho emakhulwini amane eminyaka ngemva komshado wasebukhosini, inqume ukuyiphakamisa futhi, ngokusobala ilandela ukuhunyushwa kabusha, njengengxenye yeqoqo layo.
Idayimane ... nokunye
La umlando wendandatho yokuthembisana waqala nge diamante, impahla yemvelo enzima kunawo wonke. Ngenxa yokunemba kufanele kuphawulwe ukuthi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, baye baba yisithonjana esihlukile ubucwebe bangaphambi komshado owenziwe ngamanye amatshe.
Ukuthatha igxathu elikhulu eliya phambili ngesikhathi uma liqhathaniswa nenkathi yoMbuso Ongcwele WaseRoma, umuntu ngeke ehluleke ukukusho I-10,5 carat emerald enikelwe nguRanieri waseMonaco kuGrace Kelly ongasoze amkhohlwa ngobudlelwano babo ngo-1955.
Yini ongayisho, esikhundleni salokho, ngesafire ekhethwe ngu UWilliam waseNgilandi ngesiphakamiso sikaKate Middleton? Ukuthi uma kukhulunywa ngamatshe ayigugu afaka isithembiso sothando, sekukhona indawo yokuqamba nokwenza kube ngokwakho.
Amafreyimu
Uma, njengoba sekushiwo kakade, i- intaba ye-solitaire bekungokokuqala ukungena emlandweni, emakhulwini eminyaka abanye bathole udumo ngenxa yobuhle babo. Lezi zihlanganisa uhlaka olusethwe ngama-brilliants pave kanye namadayimane e-baguette wendandatho uJoe di Maggio wayinikela kuMarylin Monroe ngaphambi komshado wabo omfushane kakhulu owawugujwa ngo-1954.
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