IZIBHAMU ZEMIZWELO
Ama-vampire weqiniso ahlala futhi enekhono empilweni yethu. Bahamba bengaphazanyisiwe bezifihle njengabantu abalungile, abaqotho, abanikeza izeluleko ezinhle. Empeleni zingumgogodla wokunganaki kanye nebhadi futhi singakuqonda ngoba selokhu baba yingxenye yempilo yethu alikho elihle, amashwa alandelanayo. Ngokushesha babonakala bengabantu abanothando. Asenza sikholelwe ukuthi ahlukile futhi abalulekile kunoma ngubani futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ngathi nasebukhoneni bethu, ohambweni lwethu, ekukhuleni kwethu okwathi ngokusho kwabo kuze kube yileso sikhathi kwaba ukwehluleka.
Bazisebenzisa ngokuhlakanipha izinkolelo zenkolo ngazo zonke izindlela. Kubukeka sengathi abekho abapristi nabapristikazi kodwa empeleni bangabantu abakopelayo abakhulekeli bamahlelo. Baqala ukukhumbula ukuthi bazizwa futhi babona izinto ezimbi ezizulazula ezimpilweni zethu. Eqinisweni ukuphela "kwesifo" yibo! Bayazi futhi basebenzise izindlela zokuxhumana ngokuhlakanipha futhi bazisebenzisele ukuphatha ngokukhohlisa nokubamba ukwethenjwa kepha bese benza okuphambene nalokho abakushumayelayo.
Bayakhipha
izindaba ezinhle nemifanekiso zifana namaswidi anobuthi, zigumbuqela incazelo yazo futhi zizisebenzisela izinhloso zazo ukuphatha nokulawula izimpilo zabanye. Ukugxila kwabo kukuthokozela ukuphatha okugcwele kwesisulu okungene eqoqweni labo elikhulu. Bamemezela imiqondo yezindinganiso ezinhle zenhlalo futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngamasu anobuhlakani banakwa kakhulu. Bayazi ukuthi bangakhombisa kanjani ukuthi bagcwele imizwa kepha banamanga, njalo futhi kunoma yisiphi isimo.
Bazenzisi
ukuzalwa nokukhwabanisa okuningi kunemali engamaphepha ethi "monopoly", kunjalo ngokukhululeka okukhulu. Baqamba amanga phambi kobufakazi obugcwele futhi nangezinto okungekho muntu ongazicabanga ngokuqamba amanga njengoba kungalethi nzuzo. Bayakujabulela ukukwenza, kubanikeza injabulo engokomzimba yokuba nokulawula okuphelele ku-interlocutor. Ukube bekunama-Olimpiki we "balla" ngabe banqoba abasubathi ngaphandle kwezimbangi nangaphandle kokusebenzisa izidakamizwa!
Abaqambimanga
ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Kusukela ebuntwaneni baphila iqiniso labo elifanayo ngokuvumelana okuphelele kwamandla onke. Bazizwa bephakeme kunanoma ngubani, bakholelwa ukuthi banezimfanelo ezihlukile futhi akuyona into engavamile ukubezwa beklabalasa ngokubhula nokwazisa okunikezwa izinhlangano eziphakeme. Lezi zinkolelo zibenza bahlushwe futhi bangagculiseki ngoba bazizwa bengaqondakali ngendlela abebengathanda ngayo. Abamtholi umlingani ezingeni labo. Kubo umhlaba ugcwele izimo eziwubuwula ezihlukumezayo ezizobhekana nezenzo zabo zokukhohlisa, ukukopela kwabo okunekhono. Bayabona futhi bakholelwa ukuthi abanye bangama-parasites okufanele aqedwe futhi kulaba yisisulu esifanayo esifanelwe ukujeziswa nokulungiswa ngokuhlukunyezwa kwabo okuwusizo nokuhlanzayo.
Kungenzeka kakhulu
ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi inunu ifunda le ndatshana futhi ibona lezi zimfanelo ngubani owazi ukuthi yini ulwazi lwakhe ngaphandle kwakhe! Impela anazi, anibonani, anikwazi! Ngoba ama-vampire awakhombisi isithombe sawo ngezibuko!
Can
ukuba ngamadoda kepha nabesifazane. Bangabantu abathi ezinsukwini zokuqala baziveze empilweni yethu njengabantu abanothando. Zisenza sikholwe futhi sithokoze ngenjabulo ngenhlanhla ebesinayo yokuhlangana nabo, iphupho lempilo yethu. Bavela kithi ngokufihla amadoda, amakhosikazi, abalingani, abangane, amasoka, abazali, osebenza nabo noma abaqashi.
Bayazana ngoba basebenza kakhulu empilweni, benza inkulungwane ngehora, zigcwele izintshisekelo ezenza sikholelwe ukuthi bazalwe bengasekho kodwa bese bethola ukuthi abafezi lutho!
Ziyamboza
izindima zokubaluleka nokubaluleka emphakathini. Imvamisa banemisebenzi enesithombe esiphumelelayo okungafani neze ne "me" yabo yangempela efihlwe kahle futhi eyakhiwe eminyakeni eminingi yokusebenza ngokucophelela.
Eqinisweni, masinyane siyabona ukuthi kukhona okungasikholisi. Banohlangothi olumnyama esingaluboni ngempilo eyonakele. Ukunqotshwa intaba yezinkinga nobunzima obukhulu kuyo yonke imikhakha. Ngokushesha siqala ukuqonda ukuthi abanazo iziqu zokunikeza iseluleko esincane kunoma ngubani! Kepha isikhathi sesihambile manje umonakalo uyaqhubeka. Bashumayela kahle kepha baklwebha kabi kakhulu futhi kubo kuvunyelwe ukwenza okuphambene nalokho abakushumayelayo nabakuphoqayo! Futhi ungaqiniseka ukuthi bayakwenza futhi basazoqhubeka ukukwenza ngemuva kwethu.
Bazimisele ukukhombisa ukuthi bayamesaba uNkulunkulu.Benza kahle emisebenzini yokuzidela komphakathi, bahlala bekulungele ukusiza abanye noma ukunikeza usizo. Konke kuklanyelwe etafuleni ukuthola ukuzethemba futhi kwehlisa unogada kulabo abavuka emandleni abo okulutha futhi bazizwe ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Ukusebenza njalo ukuphonsa intuthu emehlweni ngoba bayazi ukuthi ngaphandle kwemizamo yabo emikhulu kuyisikhathi nje kodwa kungekudala noma nini bazodalulwa.
Bayasokola
kuze kufike emandleni omzimba nangokwengqondo okweqile ukwenza umbono omuhle ngawe uqobo. Banakekela yonke imininingwane futhi bayamangala ngezenzo zabo ezeqisayo nezihlukile, ngokuziphatha kwabo kwasekuqaleni okusukela ocansini uma bengabalingani abasha nezimanga ezethusayo nezibukwayo.
Ngokuqina okunjalo bazakhela isithombe sabo emphakathini obonakala uhlanzekile futhi ucocekile njengeshidi elimhlophe kepha empeleni lokhu kugezwa ngokuqhubekayo ukuze kususwe amabala egazi lisisulu esisemsebenzini abasenze saba namandla.
Idumela abazakhele lona eminyakeni edlule futhi elibenza bakwazi ukudlala ebumnyameni bengaphazanyiswa futhi bethukuthele befuna imiphefumulo esetshenziswa njengokudla. Lapho kutholakala bayathuthumela ngomcabango wokuthi isisulu sizobadalula futhi sonakalise idumela labo lamanga. Kungakho zivele zinyamalale ngokungazelelwe isikhathi esifushane noma eside ukuzolisa amanzi ... Kepha ungakhohliswa, ziyabuya, zihlala zibuya noma sekuphele iminyaka engamashumi amabili zizobheka ukuthi sihamba kanjani bese sizama ukubuyisela izinto emuva ezinyaweni zabo. Ngoba kubo siyinto yokudlala yabo abangazijabulisa ngayo lapho bezizwa bethanda, akukho okunye!
Ama-Vampires
abondla ngozwela lwethu, uthando lwethu, ukuzwela kwethu, ingokomoya lethu, izindinganiso zethu zokuziphatha, impumelelo yethu yobungcweti, ebanciphisa futhi bazinikeze udumo. Singazi, bamunca amandla ethu abalulekile abebengenawo ngokwemvelo nabangeke bakwazi ukuwafakazela ngaphandle kokulingisa, ukuqamba amanga. Bangabalingisi abazalwa njengezinkanyezi zaseHollywood kepha banezimpilo ezimnyama nezilinganayo. Ngikude ngeminyaka elula ukusuka kumbono abawunika abanye.
Abanayo nhlobo unembeza, isizotha nozwela. Labo abahluphekayo noma abazwelayo bambheka njengomuntu obuthakathaka okufanele ajeziswe futhi ufanelwe ukuhlukunyezwa yingcindezelo yabo eyonakele. Lapho isisulu sesithululwe impilo yaso, bamshiya besezinhlungwini badlulele kwesilandelayo okumanje bese bevele bethandana emthunzini isikhathi esithile.
Bangabathengisi abangathandeki nabaqoqi bobudlelwano obuningi futhi obufanayo futhi bakhonza izithombe zokuziphatha okuxekethile ngaphandle kwemithetho kanye nezinyathelo zokuphepha lapho-ke, njengakwezingoma ezimnandi kakhulu, baya ebhawa bayoziqhayisa nabangane (abafana nabo) ngezenzo zabo ezimbi noma uma kwenzeka ye-vampire yesifazane babandakanya abangani. ngokuhleka okukhulu ngemuva kwezimvu ezisemsebenzini.
Basifaka ubuthi kancane ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngomhlaba wabo okhohlisayo nonamanga, ngesifihla-buso sabo abazosigqoka impilo yabo yonke.
Abazi ukuthanda
kepha bayazi ukulingisa kahle kepha banake kuphela phezulu. Banobuhlakani bokwakha ubuze nokuzihlukanisa nxazonke zezisulu zabo ukuze baqale inqubo yokuncika emoyeni. Baqala ukusikisela ukuthi bonke ubungani abulungile, bunokuthile okungekuhle noma izihlobo ngokwazo zikwenza itulo ngakho-ke ukuvikelwa kwabo kubalulekile njengoba kwenza ama-mafia lapho ecela imali yokuvikela. Ukwamukela umdlalo wabo kusho ukukhokha kakhulu, kakhulu!
Benza bakholwe ukuthi lolu sizo lubalulekile futhi luyigugu, luvela enhliziyweni futhi kufanele ubonge ngalo futhi kule ndlela bakha "isikweletu" secala (esinye isihloko esizobhekana naso) kwi-hyper yabo eqhubekayo neyobubele ukuqapha okwenziwe egameni likhulu (lamanga) Uthando nokulunga okuphelele.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuvusa umuzwa wokungafaneleki, ukuzethemba okuphansi okwenza intandokazi ibe yi-zombie ekulawuleni futhi ilawulwe ngamandla e-vampire. Bangabakhohlisi ababizwa futhi abahle kakhulu ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo, abaqondisi abangochwepheshe bokulawula okukholisayo. Ukusuka lapha ukukhuphuka okungathandeki nokuhlala njalo kokucekelwa phansi kwengqondo kuyabangelwa, kudala ubuze nesizungu ngeziqongo ezingokomzwelo zokukhuphuka nokwehla. Lokhu kuholela ngokushesha i-vampire ekucindezelekeni futhi konke kwenzeka ngemuva kwesikhathi esinamandla secebo lokushaya thanda amabhomu.
Ama-vampire
bafihla ngemuva kwabantu abanobuhle, abahle, abahlakaniphile kodwa empeleni izingqondo eziphazamisekile kakhulu ukuthi i-psychology yanamuhla ikhomba ekuziphatheni kokuziphatha kumaphrofayli ama-narcissists aphambene, ama-narcissist we-histrionic, i-bipolar, umngcele.
Bangababulali kwesinye isikhathi abangazazi izifo zabo kepha kwesinye isikhathi bayazi futhi baziqhenye ngakho. Kufanele sizinakekele lezi zilo ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi sisondelene kakhulu nathi futhi ebisibulala kancane kancane iminyaka. Benza udlame olungelona olomzimba kuphela kwesinye isikhathi oluholela ebulelesi obuhlasimulisayo kepha imvamisa futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ngokwengqondo lapho i-vampire kunalokho ingowesifazane ngoba ngiyaphinda ngiyasho ukuthi bangaba ngabesilisa nabesifazane. Ukuzibona kuyadingeka ngoba kusinikeza ithuba lokuthola umkhuhlane osesibambe iminyaka uma sihlala eduze kwesilo. Ulwazi luzosinika amathuluzi okuzivikela kokubi.
Le ndatshana izovula ikholomu yokujulisa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuqwashisa ngalezi zinto ezimbi ezihamba zize zihambe ezindaweni zethu, ezimpilweni zethu neziphanga amandla ethu abalulekile, amathemba ethu, nekusasa lethu.
Siqala ukubabona ukuze bazivikele. Sikumema ukuba uphawule futhi utshele okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho ngezansi futhi ngokungaziwa, ngokwabelana sizosiza ekuphusheni amaphupho kulabo abasesimweni sokungenzi lutho futhi abafa kancane kancane noma abasengozini yokuphila. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, intshisekelo yakho, umbono wakho ungaba usizo kulabo abamenyelwe enqabeni ye-vampire futhi abangasazi ukuthi bangabalekela kanjani, bazisindise.
Umbhali: U-Loris Old
