ubale lotha ndi luso zovuta zimene zimaphatikizapo kugwirizanitsa Kupereka ndi kulandira. Timapereka chikondi. Timanyengerera. Timadzipereka tokha. Timagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yathu. Tinabisa malingaliro athu. Timayesetsa. Ndipo ife akuyembekeza kulandira chimodzimodzi kubwerera.
Chiyembekezo cha kubwezeranaku chimakhazikika pakukhulupirira mtundu wachilungamo. Tikukhulupirira kuti, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, zonse zomwe tapereka zibwezeredwa kwa ife. Tili otsimikiza kuti chilengedwe chonse mwanjira inayake chimasunga zakale zomwe zimalemba ntchito zathu zabwino ndipo, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, zidzayang'anira kutibwezera kwa ife.
Koma malingaliro ogulitsirana amangobweretsa kukhumudwitsidwa ndikukhumudwitsidwa chifukwa moyo ndi wopanda chilungamo, chilengedwe sichisunga mbiri ndipo anthu samatibwezera zomwe timawapatsa.
Mfundo zazikulu zimene zili mindset kupeza ndalama
Anthu ambiri Subconsciously kukhala mindset ndalama. Mtundu wa maganizo ndi mfundo ziwiri zofunika:
1. Gwiritsani ndikupeleka ndi ubale. Munthu woganiza moyenera amaganizira kwambiri zomwe alandire kuposa momwe ubale wawo uliri. Iye amapereka chikondi chifukwa iye amafuna chikondi. Iye amathandiza ena chifukwa iye amafuna kuti ena kuti amuthandize. Amalimbikira chifukwa iye chiyembekeza sadzasiya iye yekha. Sinthani ubalewo kuti ukhale ngati "akaunti yazogulitsa" komwe amangoyikira chidwi, chisamaliro ndi nthawi chifukwa akuyembekeza kuti adzalandiranso chimodzimodzi.
2. kusankha zofuna zanu pa anthu ena. Ngakhale anthu amalingaliro amachitidwe angawoneke kukhala osweka kwambiri, odzipereka komanso osadzikonda, cholinga chawo chachikulu ndichakuti "amalonda". Amakhazikitsa maubale akuyembekeza kuti ena akwaniritsa zosowa zawo ndikuti, ngati kuli kotheka, amakhala pampando wakumbuyo kuti aziwapatsa patsogolo. Njira yawo imakhala yodzikonda chifukwa amayesa kugwiritsa ntchito ena ngati zidutswa za chess zomwe amatha kuyenda momwe angafunire.
Anthu awa amakhulupirira kuti kuthandiza ndi kukonda ndi mtundu wa cheke chopanda kanthu chomwe ena ayenera kukhala okonzeka kulipira nthawi iliyonse. Malingaliro awo ogwirira ntchito amawalepheretsa kuti amvetsetse kuti thandizo ndi chikondi sizomwe zimangotengera malonda komanso kuti amapatsidwa popanda kufunsa kapena kuyembekezera kubwezeredwa chilichonse.
Msampha wa mindset kupeza ndalama
Vuto lalikulu pamalingaliro azogulitsa ndikuti munthuyo amayang'anira ubale ndi zabwino zomwe angapeze. Onani maubwenzi apakati monga kusinthana komwe mungapindule nawo, nthawi zambiri pamalingaliro. Komabe, sangayembekezere kuzindikira zolinga zake zoyipa popeza malingaliro ogwirira ntchito adakhazikika kwambiri kotero kuti amakhulupirira kuti ndichabwino komanso chodziwikiratu.
M'malo mwake, awa ndi anthu omwe amalephera kukwaniritsa zosowa zawo ndikuyesera kuwakhutitsa kudzera mwa ena. Iwo amadana kusungulumwa ndi kuyang'ana kwa munthu kusunga kampani iwo. Sakonda Aliyense zokwanira ena ndipo akufunafuna munthu amene amawakonda. Sazindikiranso kuti winayo amakhalanso ndi zofunikira zake, zosowa zake komanso zolinga zake m'moyo, zomwe sizimagwirizana nthawi zonse ndi zake.
M'kupita kwanthawi, malingaliro ogulitsira amayamba kupangitsa anthuwa kufunsa mopambanitsa. Ndi akatswiri pakupangitsa ena kumva kuwawa ngati sangapeze zomwe akufuna pogwiritsa ntchito njira zingapo zoyeserera.
M'malo mwake, kunena za munthu yemwe ali ndi malingaliro amtunduwu kumakhala kosokoneza komanso kokhumudwitsa. Zomwe timakhala nazo nthawi zambiri zimatha kutipangitsa kukayikira kuwolowa manja, kudzipereka ndi kudzipereka. Komabe, kusakhulupirika kumeneku kungatipangitsenso kudzimva olakwa, ngati kuti ndife osayamika, pambuyo pa "zonse zomwe atichitira".
Kunena zowona, chomwe chimachitika ndikuti anthu awa "amatigwira" mu maukonde awo. Ngakhale sitidziwa bwino nthawi zonse, munjira ina timazindikira kuti tikukhala ndi ngongole zaubwenzi zomwe tidzayenera kulipira kwambiri.
Musayembekezere kuti alandire chomwe mumapereka, kupereka muli
Njira ina yamaganizidwe azogulitsa ndikulingalira mozama. Tikakhala ndi malingaliro atcheru timatha kudziyika tokha munzake, m'malo motengera kudzikonda. Tileke kumanga ena ndi mangawa ubwenzi chosinthana ndi kukondela wathu. Tikudziwa kuti palibe amene amapangitsa ife chilichonse.
Timayamba kumvetsetsa kuti ngakhale sitilandira chilichonse chomwe timapereka, timapereka zomwe tili, ndizofunika kwambiri. Choncho tiyeni amasiya akuyang'ana kwa chikondi ndi perekani chikondi. Ife tileke kufunafuna kampani ndi kupereka kampani. Tasiya kufunafuna chithandizo ndikupereka chithandizo.
Malingaliro atcheru amathandiza winayo chifukwa chochitikacho chimapangitsa kuti chisangalatse, osati chifukwa chimayembekezera kulandira kena kake. Tiyeni tiime "malonda" Ubale ndi ochuluka chifundo. Kenako titha kukondwerera ngati mphatso yayikulu manja aliwonse achikondi, kudzipereka kulikonse komanso kudzipereka kulikonse.
Pakhomo Tulukani mumalingaliro ogulitsana: musayembekezere kulandira zomwe mupereka, perekani zomwe muli idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.
