Lapho umthanda oshade naye, kwenzeka ukuthi ube nesifiso esinamandla sokuhlanganyela yonke into naye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuze kuzuze izithandani, ukuvumela umuntu wethu "aphefumule" ngaphandle kokumncisha umoya, kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi ungabelana kanjani naye ngezinto ezithile hhayi yonke into. Siyakugwema ukwenza umuntu abambe iqhaza kuzo zonke izenzo noma izinqumo zethu, ngoba kufanele sikhumbule ukuthi umlingani wethu akayena umngane wethu omkhulu esisho konke kuye. Nawa amathiphu ezintweni ongazisho kumlingani wakho, ngokuphila okunokuthula nokude ndawonye.
1. Ungalokothi uveze amaphasiwedi ayimfihlo ekheli lakho le-imeyili kanye namaphrofayili enethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu, ukugwema izingxoxo ezingadingekile, kwesinye isikhathi ukuphawula okuvela kumngani kwanele ukwenza umlingani wakho abe nomona.
2. Ungathembeki ngokuphelele ngalokho okucabangayo ngomndeni wakhe nabangane, uma kukhona isimo sengqondo salaba bantu ongasithandi, ungamtsheli, ngoba mhlawumbe ngokuzayo, imicabango yakho ingahle ibe njengebhomu lewashi
3. Akumelwe neze umtshele izimfihlo zabangane bakho, okokuqala ngoba akanabo ubulungiswa kubo futhi okwesibili ngoba uma umfana wakho ehlebela othile okuthile, uzibeka engcupheni yokuphelelwa ukwethenjwa ubungani.
4. Ungadaluli inani lezigemegeme zakho. Kuyisihloko sengxoxo esivame ukuvela phakathi kwabalingani kodwa kungcono ukushintsha isihloko noma unikeze impendulo engacacile.
5. Musa ukutshela ama-anecdotes ngezakho. Nakulokhu futhi, ukuphawula okuhle kungaba nomphumela ohlukile. Futhi khumbula ukuthi ungenzi ukuqhathanisa nomlingani wakho wamanje.
6. Umbono wakho ngomama wakhe. Ubudlelwano nomamezala kungenzeka noma bungabi nzima, kepha akufanele neze ubeke umlingani wakho esimweni sokukhetha phakathi kukanina nawe, umphumela ngeke ube mnandi.
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