Ngegama ubungqingili namuhla sisho isigaba esithile sabantu abazimemezelayo bakhangwa abalingani abahlakaniphile. Okwabo ucansi luqala ebuchosheniempeleni, ubuhlakani yiso kanye isigwedlo esivutha zonke izinkanuko zobulili ezikuzo futhi ezihambisa injabulo! Uma lo mbono ukugcona futhi futhi uma uthanda ukuzinikela emfundisweni nasekuzijwayezeni, bukela ividiyo bese uthola izinombolo nezibalo zocansi lwanamuhla!
Lapho konke kuqala ekuqondeni kwengqondo.
Imvamisa, ucansi luyimbuzo yamakhemikhali. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi kungaba umbuzo wezibalo noma isiLatin! Okwe ubungqingili okuyiqiniso kuphela I-lever ekwazi ukuvutha isifiso kungukuhlakanipha komuntu ophambi kwabo. Esikhundleni sokubheka imisipha, ubujamo obu-sexy noma i-magnetic gaze, bakhetha ukugxila ku-IQ yakho. Kwa ukuthambekela kwezocansi kunezinhlobonhlobo nezinhlobonhlobo. Igama elithi "ubungqingili" libhekisela kulabo abathandwa ingqondo futhi bakholelwa ukuthi i- ukuheha njalo udlula ebuchosheni. Lokhu kuthambekela kusekelwa yizifundo eziningana zesayensi, imibono eminingi empeleni ifunda ngezocansi futhi ikholelwa ukuthi i-orgasm ihlala idlula nayo isuka ingqondo. Ukuqonda kwengqondo empeleni kuyakwazi ukudala ukusondelana phakathi kwabantu ababili. THE ubungqingili bangaphezu kokucabanga kwakho, bakhona yonke indawo: kukhona ngisho neqembu le-facebook elizinikele kulokhu kuthambekela kwezocansi. Imibhangqwana nayo iya ngokuya ithandwa ubungqingili, ngababili babafundi abathi, ngaphezu komzimba, nabo baphathe ukwazisa izinzwa, bafinyelele ku-symbiosis ngokuphelele nokusondelana okungokomzimba nokwengqondo ngasikhathi sinye. empeleni kubo ingqondo isenkabeni yakho konke ukucabanga futhi yilokho okuhambisa i desiderio: isici somzimba sesesibili, konke kuza kamuva! Ubuhle bale ndlela yokuthola ucansi nothando ukuthi umuntu okuheha ngengqondo kunzima ukumiselela, ukuqonda kwengqondo okwenziwe kanjalo kunzima ukuphindaphinda. Kuthiwani uma izithandani ubungqingili ingabe babethembekile ngokwengeziwe?
Ukukhohliswa kobuchopho: iwindi lomhlaba wabantu abathandana nabobulili obufanayo
Kwabanye abantu, ukuya ocansini akuyona nje eyemvelo: kwabanye besifazane nabesilisa ingcweti yokuqonda iyisisekelo. I- ucansi kungaba nentshisekelo noma ithenda, engalawulwa noma ephumuzayo futhi ebucayi. Kunoma ikuphi, ubulili buhlala buxhumene nesifiso namandla okukhohlisa okwazi ukukhipha injabulo evame ukukhuluma kusukela ingqondo. Emhlabeni we ubungqingili ukuyenga e intelligence zihlala zixhunyiwe ngisho nangesikhathi esizayo: konke kuqala ebuchosheni. Ngokuyinhloko, uma bethi bayathola ubuhlakani obedlulele, mhlawumbe baqinisile, awucabangi? Kukhona uhlobo lokukhohlisa, olusondele kakhulu kulokho esikubiza ngokuthi i-charisma, engaxhumene nje nesici somzimba kepha kunezakhiwo ze ulimi futhi izimo zempucuko. Ake sixoxe ngakho ubuhlakani bezocansi: kungumngcele omusha wokuheha ngokocansi!
Noma ungazivezi ukuthi ungowamanje we ubungqingili mhlawumbe uzobe uthathekile ngalolu hlobo kuhlobene kakhulu namasiko nobuhlakani. Kufana nokuthi ngenkathi usemncane kakhulu lapho uzizwa ukhangwa uthisha wefilosofi namakhono akhe okufundisa! Ukuthandana nobuhlakani bendoda noma besifazane akusho ukungasazisi isimilo sabo noma ukubukeka kwabo, kepha kusho ukuthi kusuka ebuchosheni lapho kukhishwa khona imizwa yokuqala yokukhohlisa, eholela kuthakalo nokuheha. Futhi ubungqingili bezwa uthando ekuqaleni kokubona, bamane bakhangwa ubuchopho hhayi ama-biceps ensimbi noma izinqe zemabula! INGABE indlela yomuntu yokucabanga, ikhono lakhe lokukhulumisana ngokukhaliphile nangokukhalipha futhi ahluke kubo bonke abanye ukuze enze i-sapiosexual ilahlekelwe yingqondo yakhe! Amagama ayizikhali ezingcono kakhulu zokuyenga ongqingili: ngokuqinisekile ukudla kwe-aphrodiasic nakho kuwusizo oluvumelekile!
Ngabe ubulili obufana nobesilisa nabesifazane bufunani ebudlelwaneni?
Ukuvalwa kweqhwa nakho kube nomthelela ekusakazekeni kwe-orient sapiosexual ngoba inikeze imibhangqwana nabantu bebonke amathuba ambalwa okuphazamiseka kanye nethuba elikhulu lokuxoxisana nokuqhathanisa. Izindlela zokuqhathanisa ebudlelwaneni obunye ziye zavivinywa: isikhathi esiningi sokwazana ngendlela eqaphelayo, kwesinye isikhathi nangezindleko zeindlela yezocansi. Ngakho-ke ukulala ocansini kuhamba kanjani ebudlelwaneni? Uma ubudlelwano balezi zithandani buzalwa ngobuhlakani buqinile futhi buyakwazi ukusinda ngisho nasesigabeni sesibili, leso okuthi ngemuva kokuthandana, ukukhanga ngokomzimba kuvame ukubhekana nenselelo. Kepha umuntu angahehwa ngumqondo ngaphandle kokuzama desiderio okomzimba? Mhlawumbe hhayi, owesilisa ocansini uyajabula intelligence, ithola umlingani okhulile, ohlakaniphile futhi onomusa ongenakuphikiswa. Isici somzimba sisemuva nje! Uma bobabili abalingani benokuthambekela ubungqingili ubudlelwano bungahlala isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokuthinteka ngokungakhangi komzimba. Vele, ngaphakathi kwesithandani kunezilinganiso eziningi ezisengozini, abantu bayakhula futhi bayashintsha futhi benze bonke ubuhlobo busebenze kuyadingeka ukuthi abaningi ahlukahlukene izakhi hamba ngokuvumelana okuphelele!
Umthombo we-athikili U-Alfeminile
