Bangane abathandekayo, kulesi sihloko ngifuna ukukutshela ngencwadi ebhalwe nguJay Shetty enesihloko esithi "Think Like a Monk". Umbhali, empeleni, wayeyindela okwathi, ngenxa yedijithali, wakwazi ukukhulisa umsebenzi wakhe: ukusabalalisa ukuhlakanipha emhlabeni jikelele.
Amaphodikasti akhe, amavidiyo akhe ku-YouTube kanye nezifundo zakhe zevidiyo engizithengile futhi ngabonisana nazo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, zingivule ingqondo yami ngezindikimba eziningi ezishuthwe kule ncwadi ngendlela ephumelela kakhulu nekholisayo.
Ukuthola izinto ezi-3 engigoduka nazo kule ncwadi kuwumsebenzi wokunciphisa uma kuqhathaniswa nokunotha kwalokho okuqukethwe kuyo, kodwa ngizama futhi ngiqale ngokushesha ngeyokuqala ethi:
1. Zitholele iDharma yakho
"I-Dharma" igama engangingakaze ngizwe ngaphambili futhi esingalifanisa nelethu "umsebenzi".
Ifomula eholela ku-Dharma inikezwa: uthando + amandla + usizo. Okungukuthi: lapho umuntu ekwazi ukuthola ukuthambekela kwakhe kwemvelo, okungukuthi, izinto ezinhle kuzo futhi aziveza phezulu, futhi anqume ukuzisebenzisa ukuze akhonze abanye, khona-ke uphila i-Dharma yakhe.
Okuyinto enhle kakhulu, ngoba impilo ephilwa ngendlela ehambisana ne-Dharma yomuntu inenjongo futhi iyanelisa kuyena nakwabanye.
2. Izinhlobo ezi-3 zobudlelwano
Enye inkomba engenze ngacabanga yileyo ethathela enkondlweni kaJean Dominique Martin, efundeka kanje "Abantu beza empilweni yakho ngesizathu, isizini, noma impilo yakho yonke".
Kusho ukuthi umuntu angangena empilweni yakho njengoshintsho olwamukelekile, okungukuthi, njengolusha stagione. Kulesi simo, uma okwamanje ikunika amandla amasha, ifaka ugesi futhi ikujabulise, ngesikhathi esithile, njengazo zonke izinkathi zonyaka, iyaphela.
Omunye umuntu angase eze empilweni yakho esikhundleni sakhe isizathu. Mhlawumbe kukusiza ukuthi ukhule esikhathini esinzima kakhulu, noma kukukhiphe esigabeni sempilo ukuze ufinyelele esisha. Futhi ngemva kwalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho, indima yayo ebalulekile ekuphileni kwakho incipha futhi idlulele ngemuva.
Bese kuba khona abantu bomunye vita, okungukuthi, labo abaseduze kwakho ezikhathini ezinhle nezimbi, bakuthanda ngisho nalapho ungabaniki lutho.
Kuyasiza ukwazi ukuthi akubona bonke ubudlelwano obenziwa ukuthi buhlale phakade, kodwa ngamunye ungaba nenjongo ehlukile futhi ebaluleke ngokulinganayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, nawe ungaba umngane wesizini njalo, njalo ngesizathu esithile, noma wempilo yabantu abahlukene ngezikhathi ezahlukene.
Futhi hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngaphezu kwalokho, indima oyidlalayo empilweni yomuntu iyafana naleyo edlalwa ngumuntu empilweni yakho.
3. Cabanga njengendela: zibeke enkonzweni
Umusho wokugcina omuhle kakhulu engifuna ukwabelana ngawo kule ncwadi yilowo uJay awufunde kwenye yezindela zakhe, uGauranga Das, owathi "Tshala izihlahla noma ungahlelile ukuhlala emthunzini wazo".
Futhi ibinzana elethula elinye lamahhashi empi kaJay Shetty, okungukuthi iqiniso lokuthi injongo ephakeme kakhulu empilweni hlala enkonzweni.
Uma uzibeka emsebenzini wabanye awusenaso isikhathi sokukhononda nokugxeka, ukwesaba kwakho kuyanyamalala futhi umuzwa wakho wokubonga nombono wokuphila impilo enenjongo uyakhula.
Ukusebenzela abanye kusho ukushiya indawo ihlanzekile kunendlela oyithole ngayo, abantu bejabule kakhulu kunendlela obathole ngayo, umhlaba ungcono kunendlela owayithola ngayo.
Cabanga njengendela, incwadi engathatha isikhathi eside ukuyiqeda, kodwa hhayi ngoba inzima, kodwa ngoba ngifuna ukuqiniseka ukuthi ngiziqonda zonke izinto ezilotshwe kuyo futhi ngicabange ngayo ngokuzola okufanele.
Kungakhathalekile ukuthi uyini umsebenzi wakho, ngiphakamisa ukuthi uwubheke njengokufunda ukuze ungeze ohlwini lwakho lwezinto ozozenza.
Futhi uma usuyifundile, ungazise kumazwana angezansi ukuthi ibibukeka kanjani nokuthi ikushiye ini.
Ngikubona njalo ekubuyekezweni okulandelayo futhi ngikukhumbuza iqembu le-Facebook elithi "Izincwadi Zengqondo" uma ufuna ezinye iziphakamiso neziqhathaniso emkhakheni "wokufunda okuhle kwengqondo nenhliziyo".
UKUXHUMANA OKUSEBENZAYO:
- Ukuthenga incwadi kaJay Shetty, "Cabanga Njengendela. Qeqesha ingqondo yakho ukuze uthole ukuthula kwengqondo, ulungise okwedlule futhi ulungiselele ikusasa ", chofoza lapha kusixhumanisi: https://amzn.to/2Sfcs3C
- Joyina iqembu lami le-Facebook elithi "Izincwadi Zomqondo" lapho sishintshana khona ngamathiphu, okuvelayo kanye nokubuyekezwa kwe-Psychology nezincwadi zokuzikhulisa komuntu siqu: http://bit.ly/2tpdFaX
- Bhalisela isifundo sami samahhala sokukhula komuntu lapha: http://bit.ly/Crescita
L'articolo Cabanga Njengendela - Izincwadi Zengqondo kubonakala kungowokuqala Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseMilan.
