Umhlaka 25 Novemba wusuku lokulwa nokuhlukunyezwa kwabesifazane. Sikhuluma ngakho noPatrizia Stefani ngokusebenzisa abaculi bePatty's Art Gallery

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ULwesithathu 25 November è Usuku Lomhlaba Wonke Lokuqedwa Kodlame Olubhekiswe Kwabesifazane, ukuphindaphinda lokhu, okwasungulwa yi-General Assembly yeZizwe Ezihlangene ngesinqumo esingu-54/134 sangoDisemba 17, 1999. Ngakho-ke sifuna ukukhumbula namuhla, kanye nazo zonke ezinye izinsuku zonyaka, lolu suku olubalulekile ukuze lonke udlame ekugcineni lungancishiswa. 

Ngakho-ke sithathe isinqumo sokuqwashisa abafundi ngale ndaba ebucayi ngokuxoxisana nomnikazi wegalari owaziwayo UPatrizia Stefani ngubani ozositshela ngakho ngemisebenzi yabaculi bakhe Igalari yobuciko kaPatty, igalari ehlonishwayo eku-inthanethi yobuciko besimanje - www.hokulu.it. Ngemuva kwengxoxo.   

NgoLwesithathu umhla zingama-25 kuLwezi wuSuku Lomhlaba Wonke Lokuqedwa Kokuhlukumeza Abesifazane. Igalari Yakho Yobuciko Yesimanje, i Igalari yobuciko kaPatty, inika isikhala kubaculi abayishumi nanye (nabaculi abayishumi nesishiyagalombili)… ucabanga ukuthi yini enye yezinto ezivelele kakhulu ekusungulweni kwabesifazane abangabobulili? Ukucaca kobuciko besifazane ngokungangabazeki kungukusesha kwangaphakathi nothando, intshisekelo eqinile futhi kaningi futhi nesifiso sokuvikelwa abesifazane abasidlulisa ngokuningiliziwe. Kunoma ikuphi, ngokusebenzisa isithombe, i-fulcrum yesethulo ngasinye ngaso sonke isikhathi ingumuzwa. Imisebenzi ikakhulu ivela ekuthambekeni okujulile, okukhululayo; ziyizenzo zomzimba, imizwa ye-chromatic kuyo yonke imibala ebomvu ebomvu, ngemibala ehlukahlukene ephuzi nomnyama ngaphezu kwakho konke.

UManuela Andreoli, Anna Actis Caporale, Silvia Castelli aka Silarma, Maria Beatrice Coppi, Gioia Lolli, Giulia Quaranta Provenzano owaziwa nangokuthi yi-GQP, uLaura Ruggiero, uClaudia Salvadori, uCaterina Spatafora, uCarla Tomatis noma uCarlà, uSimona Zecca. Ngamunye walaba badwebi, abathwebuli bezithombe, abaqophi bemifanekiso ubonakala ngama-accents amakwe kahle futhi acacisiwe: ungasitshela kafushane ngomunye wabo? Impela! Ngithola lo mbuzo uhlekisa kakhulu futhi impendulo iyashesha. UMANUELA ANDREOLI uwuphawu lokuqwashisa kwangaphakathi. I-ANNA ACTIS CAPORALE iyachaza, iyintatheli eyiqiniso. USILVIA CASTELLI uthintekile futhi uhamba ngokuzifunela, ngokungafani nomhlaba wangaphandle, uyacabanga. UMARIA BEATRICE COPPI uzwakalisa ubufazi, ubuhle kanye nomusa yize ekhiqiza imabula nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinto zokwakha - ngisho nezimbi kakhulu. UGIOIA LOLLI umele uthando kanye nenkululeko. IGIULIA QUARANTA PROVENZANO ikhombisa ukuhlaziywa, iya ngqo encazelweni engaphakathi futhi ikhombe kulokho okuso sonke isimo. I-LAURA RUGGERO isebenza ngokomoya, futhi ayikaze ibe banal kepha ifuna ngempela ukuthola umphefumulo waleyo ndaba. I-CLAUDIA SALVADORI ibonakala ngokuveza okucacile okwenziwe kowesifazane okhuliswe kuzo zonke izici zayo eziningi, kusuka ebuhleni obunobuhle kuya enkanukweni, kusuka ebuthakathakeni kuya emandleni. UCATERINA SPATAFORA ungikhumbuza isitebele somculo esiyiqiniso, esigcwele imizwa emihle. UCARLA TOMATIS ungumcwaningi ongakhathali futhi ukwenza ngokusebenzisa inqubo, uhlala ezama imibala nezinto zokwakha. ISIMONA ZECCA ingumdwebi wokubuka, wemininingwane engeke ihunyushwe kalula ngoba ihlukile, ingeyakhe futhi ijule kumuntu ngamunye futhi ingokoqobo ngokweqile.

U-Amy Winehouse, u-Audrey Hepburn, uMarilyn Monroe, uMina Anna Maria Mazzini, uSharbat Gula, uSophia Loren abadwetshwe nguSimona Zecca bonke bangabesifazane abaziqhakambisile naphezu kwakho konke kanye nawo wonke umuntu. Kanjani - futhi kungenzeka - ukuba namuhla babe ngamadodakazi, amakhosikazi, abangane, omama, abasebenzi kanye nabaculi abangazinikeli ngokunakekelwa nokunakekelwa komunye lowo ikakhulukazi emakhulwini eminyaka adlule nakwezinye izindawo ezingokwendawo ikakhulukazi abavotelwa kuzo? Abesifazane abamele uSimona Zecca bonke banokuzazisa okuqinile, bangabesifazane abakhombise ngokuzimisela ukuthi banesimilo futhi bayazi ukuthi bangajikijela kanjani ngisho nasezimweni ezinzima nezinempikiswano, bevela ngalezo zimfanelo nezimpawu abanikezwe zona yimvelo. Akulula ukuba ngowesifazane ophelele: indodakazi, umama, unkosikazi, umlingani, uchwepheshe ... ngiyaqiniseka, nokho, ukuthi sonke siyazama ukunikela ngokusemandleni ethu. Abesifazane baseSimona bayisibonelo salokhu, asebephenduke izithonjana, bekhombisa inkani nobuhlakani obubavumela ukuthi bazikhulule futhi banqobe isikhundla esifanele senhlalo. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngandlela thile (njenge-intuition and practicality) abesifazane badlule umhlaba wesilisa, kodwa ngiyazi ngokufanayo ukuthi indlela eya emalungelweni alinganayo isesekude ukuba ihambe.

USilvia Castelli ubonakala edweba abesifazane njengabakhangayo njengoba, ngokusho kwamanye ama-clichés, umlondolozi wesifazane weziko lasekhaya akananqondo; abesifazane abangasabi ukwenza futhi babe yilokho abazizwa ngakho, ngaphandle kokucasha ngenxa yokwesaba noma yisiphi isahlulelo. Izikhathi eziningi, noma kunjalo, amalungu esifazane acishe ahlanjalazwa ngokukhanga kwawo, njengokungathi ukuba muhle nokugqamisa ubuhle bomuntu kwakuyiphutha, kwakuyimbangela yodlame. Ucabangani ngakho? Uma ucabanga ukuthi indoda enodlame, njengoba ngicabanga, umuntu ogulayo enjalo, kufanele alashwe noma avalelwe ... Lokho kusho ukuthi, owesifazane kumele ngaso sonke isikhathi akhululeke abe yilo uqobo. 

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Imidwebo Eva, Amaconsi amanzi, I-Reflex nguClaudia Salvadori wethula ngokulinganayo owesifazane ovusa inkanuko futhi oqinile, ozethembayo: lezi zimpawu zokuqina nokwethembela kumuntu wokuqala zivame ukubangelwa abesilisa ngenkathi owesifazana enikezwe umsebenzi wokuthi abe mnandi futhi azithobe. Ngabe unombono wokuthi ukwahlukaniswa okubaluleke kakhulu okuxhunyaniswe nobulili nobulili kuvumelekile okuthi, ukusho okunye, abesifazane kanjalo kufanele bonke babe nothando sengathi umusa uyincazelo yobulili ukukhomba ubulili.ukusho, ukunciphisa, uma unamandla ungungqingili, uma uzwela uyisitabane)? Ukuthi owesifazane ukuba ngowesifazane kumele abe mnene futhi azithobe, owesilisa ukuba abe yindoda kumele azibonakalise enamandla futhi enamandla iziqinisekiso ezenzekayo ukuzwa njengoba imicabango yalolu hlobo isavamile. Kodwa-ke, namuhla owesifazane uguqukile futhi uyazi ukuthi angaba mnandi kanjani futhi azithobe kepha nokho, lapho kudingeka, anqume ngokusobala futhi anqume. Angikholwa kokujwayelekile, i-priori.

U-Anna Actis Caporale ungowesifazane osebenze emkhakheni wezamabhange, kepha akakaze ayeke izinkanuko zakhe, okuyihambo, ezemivubukulo, ukuthwebula izithombe nokudweba. Ngokombono wakho, kungenzeka kanjani ukubuyisana, ngaphandle kokuba kube khona ukungezwani okulimazayo nokukhathalisayo, umphefumulo ophawuleka kakhulu kwezomnotho nakwezentengiselwano nalowo wobuciko nowokucabanga? U-Anna Actis Caporale ubelokhu ezinikele ekufuneni ukwazi, efuna ulwazi futhi ekuhambeni kwakhe ubuye wakucacisa ukuzwela kwakhe. Emidwebweni yakhe kuvela ukuyekethisa okulungile nobudlelwano obusondelene kakhulu phakathi kwempilo yakhe yansuku zonke, phakathi kwempilo yangempela emelwe ngesakhiwo esithile nokulinganisela kanye nezwe lakhe elingaphakathi lezinkondlo. Kuzo u-Anna uhlala kukho konke ukuphelela kwakhe nanjengowesifazane.

Ngabe ukhona umuntu wesifazane okhuthazeke ngaye empilweni yakho yansuku zonke neyokusebenza, futhi ngasiphi isizathu? Isimilo sami nakanjani sasibunjwe yimfundo eyayifundiswa ngumama, owesifazane oqinile futhi ozimisele kakhulu.                                                                                  

Yimuphi umculi wesifazane womlando omthanda kakhulu futhi kungani, ngasiphi isizathu? Baningi abesifazane engingabala kubo njengezibonelo zempilo, amandla nokuzimisela… uCoco Chanel, uMargherita Hack futhi ngaphandle kwesithunzi sokungabaza uFrida Kahlo. Ngamunye wabo ukwazile ukuxhaphaza, ngekhono lokukhalipha nenkani, amathalente abo kanye nezimo zabo yize bebhekene nobunzima obukhulu kakhulu abake babhekana nabo - beshiya uphawu olungacimeki emlandweni. 

Yisiphi isifiso ofisa ukusenza kwabesifazane namuhla futhi njalo? Isifiso engisenzayo kwabesifazane banamuhla ukuzama njalo ukunikeza izwi ngaphakathi kwabo, ukuthi babe yibo njalo. Ngifisa ukuthi bazi futhi bakwazi ukulahla ukwesaba, befuna futhi bathole ubuntu babo obukhulu ku-Fr.ensiero nokukhuluma.

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