Ngoba uyazikhaphela? Umbuzo onempendulo okusobala. Ngokusho kwabanye, empilweni yabashadikazi wayezobakhohlisa ukungazethembi. Kwabanye, umkhohlisi wephula ukwethenjwa ngumlingani noma umlingani ngokuthula ukufuna injabulo kokungavunyelwe nasekuhambeni "okuphambene nemithetho". Ekugcineni, ukukhaphela othandweni kungaba yindlela yokuveza konke izinkinga zanqwabelana futhi azikaze zibhekane nazo ngaphakathi kobudlelwano. Kulabo abakholelwa ekufundweni kwezinkanyezi, ke, abanye Izimpawu ze-Zodiac babezovele babe ngokwemvelo kuthambekele ekukhohliseni… Ubukwazi lokho?
Noma kunjalo, ukukhaphela akukhona othandweni kuphela. Kuyenzeka futhi ku- ubungani noma lapho a umqondo, 'umqondo noma onkulunkulu izibambiso okwakufungiswa kuye ukuthembeka. Kwezinye izimo, size sikhulume ngakho ukuzikhaphela. Kulula ukuqonda ukuthi lesi sihloko sibucayi kanjani ikakhulukazi futhi eminyakeni edlule ababhali abaningi babhale ikhasi ngalinye ekhasini ngakho. Ngakho-ke, siqoqe amabinzana amahle kakhulu, adumile futhi ahlekisa kakhulu ngokukhaphela, ezigqamisa izici ezahlukahlukene.
Izingcaphuno ezinhle kakhulu zokuthi ukukhaphela kuyini
Uma bekufanele siyichaze, singawuchaza kanjani umqondo wokukhaphela? Abanye ababhali banikeze eyodwa incazelo eqondile nengazanyazanyiswa, kanti abanye bamlahla ngokuthi obunye bobubi obedlulele besintu.
Ukuphinga yinhlangano, ithuba lokuphunyuka.
URoberto Gervaso
Ukukhaphela. Kusukela esemncane, ubaba nothisha basitshela ukuthi kuyinto embi kakhulu ongayicabanga. Kodwa kuyini lokhu kungcatshwa? Ukukhaphela kusho ukushiya irenki. Ukukhaphela kusho ukushiya irenki uye kokungaziwa.
Milan Kundera
Isilingo sokugcina ukukhashelwa okubi kakhulu: ukwenza okulungile ngesizathu esingalungile.
UThomas Stearns Eliot
Ukukhaphela kwangempela akukhona ukuba nomunye umuntu, kodwa ukuba ngomunye umuntu.
Anonimo
Kimina, into ebi kakhulu ngokufa ukukhaphela.
Malcolm X
Ukuvuma akusikho ukukhaphela. Akunandaba ukuthi uthini noma awusho, okubalulekile yimizwa. Uma bengangenza ngingabe ngisakuthanda… lokho bekungaba ukukopela.
George Orwell
Yilabo kuphela abaqotho kubo uqobo abangaba qotho kwabanye.
U-Erich Fromm
Umkhohlisi weqiniso yilowo okuthanda ngengxenyana yakhe kuphela futhi uphika konke okunye.
UFabrizio Caramagna
Ukukhaphela kuyisikhali salabo abangenayo enye indlela yokuxoxisana.
U-Agnes Monaco
Ukukhaphela. Khokhela ukwethenjwa okwenzile.
Ambrose Bierce
Ama-aphorism ngokukhaphela othandweni
Sishilo ukuthi ukukhaphela kuxhunyaniswa ngokushesha kanjaniukuthanda ukungathembeki. Kulesi sigaba siqoqe imishwana echaza kakhulu mayelana lapho ekopela ebudlelwaneni.
Uthando alusoze lwafa ukufa kwemvelo. Iyafa ngoba asazi ukuthi sigcwalisa kanjani umthombo wayo. Ufa ngenxa yokungaboni kanye namaphutha kanye nokukhashelwa. Ufa ngokugula nangamanxeba, ubulawa ukukhathala, ukugqoka noma ukuba buthuntu.
Anaïs Nin
Akukho okukhashelwayo, umkhapheli, olungile nomubi, kukhona uthando lusaqhubeka nomuzi uze ubhidlike.
U-Erri de Luca
Uma othile ekukhohlisa kanye, kuyiphutha lakhe; uma umuntu ekukhohlisa kabili kuyiphutha lakho.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Kwesinye isikhathi kubonisa ukukhashelwa okubi kakhulu kowesifazane omthandayo ukumbamba ezandleni zakho esikhundleni somunye umuntu.
U-Arthur Schnitzler
UZygmunt Bauman
Ubudlelwano akuwona umdlalo, ukukhaphela akulona uthando, ukumamatheka akujabulisi futhi ukuthethelela akukukhohlwa.
Anonimo
Ngangivame ukukhangisa ukwethembeka kwami futhi angicabangi ukuthi kukhona umuntu oyedwa engangimthanda engingazange ngimkhaphele ekugcineni.
Albert Camus
Ukukhaphela kubulala kuphela izithandwa esezife. Labo abangabulali kwesinye isikhathi baba abangafi.
UMassimo Gramellini
Ukuphinga ukusetshenziswa kwentando yeningi othandweni.
UHenry Louis Mencken
Lapho othandekayo edlulela ekuzithengiseni kwakhe futhi ephikelela ekukhohlisweni kwakhe, uthando alusamlandeli.
UJacques Lacan
Labo abangathembekile bayabazi ubumnandi bothando; labo abathembekile bayazazi izinhlekelele zalo.
Oscar Wilde
Ukungazethembi ngokweqile kepha ukungabi nomcabango kwenza kube nzima kakhulu kowesilisa ukuthi akholelwe ekungathembekini kowesifazane amthandayo.
U-Arthur Schnitzler
Ukukhaphela kungokothando njengosuku nasebusuku.
Umberto Galimberti
Imishwana ehamba phambili ngokungathembeki phakathi kwendoda nomkayo
Ngaphezu kokuba yinkinga ebucayi, ukukhaphela nakho kungenye ye- izihloko ezizithandayo zosomahlaya, abalingisi nokuningi ukuyithola imidwebo ehlekisayo nama-parodies. Kakhulu ukungathembeki phakathi kwendoda futhi unkosikazi uhlale enikeza imibono eminingi kubabhali bakanamuhla nabesikhathi esedlule.
Ukukhuluma ngokufeba: Ngokushesha ngabona ukuthi kwakungaseyimi ngedwa ohlanganyela ukwethembeka kowakwami.
U-Eugene Labiche
Kukhona abesifazane abangathembekile kangangoba bathola injabulo ngokukhohlisa izithandwa zabo nabayeni babo.
UGeorges Clemenceau
Umshado awupheli ngenxa yokungathembeki wedwa: lokho kuyizimpawu zokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle.
Kusuka ku-movie UHarry, lo nguSally
Amadoda athanda kakhulu, ikakhulukazi lapho ekopela amakhosikazi.
Marilyn Monroe
Ngemuva kwayo yonke indoda ephumelelayo kukhona owesifazane futhi ngemuva kwakhe, ngumkakhe.
Groucho Marx
Abesilisa nabesifazane abalali bodwa, kepha ngezinkumbulo, ukuzisola, amathemba ezinyunyana ezizayo. Iziphingi zethu zingaphakathi; ziqinisa isizungu sethu.
UGeorge Steiner
Kowesilisa umqondo wokwethembeka okuphelele kowesifazane ukuthi "uhlale ucabanga ngaye" - noma ngabe uqabula omunye.
UHelen Rowland
Labo abangakwazi ukubala babe bathathu bayifunda emshadweni.
Inkantolo yaseGeorges
Izilinganiso mayelana nokukhaphela ebunganeni
Uma ukukhashelwa kombhangqwana kungabonakala ngendlela ehlekisayo futhi ehlekisayo, lowo ebunganeni uhlala elahlwa. Empeleni, phakathi kwabangane abahlukahlukene abangasoze balahleka imfuneko ebalulekile okuyi ukwethembeka.
Kulula ukuthethelela isitha kunokuxolela umngani.
William Blake
Ukube bekufanele ngikhethe phakathi kokukhaphela izwe lami nokukhaphela umngani wami, ngiyethemba nginesibindi sokukhaphela izwe lami.
EM Forster
Le nganekwane ifundisa ukuthi labo abakhaphela ubungani, noma bekwazi ukubalekela impindiselo yezisulu, ngenxa yokungabi namandla kwalaba abagcina, ngeke bakwazi ukweqa isijeziso sasezulwini.
I-Aesop
Kuyihlazo kakhulu ukuqaphela abangane bakho kunokukhohliswa yibo.
UFrançois de La Rochefoucauld
Empilweni yonke kukhona ubungane esingenakubukhaphela.
Kusuka ku-movie Umgijimi weKite
Amabinzana amahle kakhulu futhi athinta inhliziyo ngemiphumela yokukhaphela
Iyini imiphumela yokukhaphela? Ayikho indlela yokubuyisela ibhalansi phakathi kokhapheli nomuntu okhashelwe? Nakhu ababhali abakhulu abacabanga ngakho.
Kungenzeka ukulungisa ubudlelwano nalabo abangathembekanga, kepha kufana nokulungisa isudi ephukile: umaki uhlala ungacimeki.
Emmanuel Breda
Angithukuthele ngoba ungiqambele amanga, ngithukuthele ngoba kusukela manje angisakukholwa.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Udlame nokukhaphela kuyizikhali ezisika nhlangothi zombili: zilimaza labo abazisebenzisa kakhulu kunalabo abahlupheka ngazo.
U-Emily Bronte
Angicasukile ngoba ungikhaphele, kodwa ngoba angisakwethembi!
Jim Morrison
Ama-aphorism ngokuthi kungani ezikhohlisa
Njengoba sishilo ekuqaleni, akukaze kube khona isizathu esisodwa ngemuva kokukhashelwa. Abaningi baye bazama ziveze izizathu ezahlukahlukene futhi nazi izinkulumo ezidume kakhulu ngale ndaba.
Eminyakeni engamashumi amabili umuntu ukopela ukuzijabulisa, amashumi amathathu ukuzethemba, amashumi amane ngesithukuthezi, amashumi amahlanu e-Peter Pan complex, amashumi ayisithupha ngenhlanhla nangamashumi ayisikhombisa ngesimangaliso.
Anonimo
Labo abafuna ukukhaphela ngemvelo bayakhaphela. Labo abafuna ukukhaphela ngoba bezizwa benganakiwe kufanele bakhaphele. Noma ngubani ofuna ukukhaphela ngenxa yesithukuthezi kufanele akhaphele. Noma ngubani ofuna ukukhaphela ngenjabulo, makakhaphele. Noma ngubani ofuna ukukhaphela ekukhanyeni, khaphela. Noma ngubani ofuna ukukhaphela kumkhuba, khaphela. Noma ngubani ofuna ukukhaphela ngamasilethi uyakhaphela… Amakhosi… Kepha ngiyaphinda ngiyaphinda ngiyaphinda futhi: othanda akakhapheli.
Mina
Uzikhaphela kaningi ngenxa yobuthakathaka kunesifiso sangamabomu sokukhaphela.
UFrançois De La Rochefoucauld
Imishwana enhle kakhulu nehlabayo mayelana nokukhaphela
Ekugcineni, asikwazi ukwehluleka ukuphothula ngesigaba esinikezelwe ngokuphelele ku- ama-puns futhi amahlaya angenanhlonipho ngokwengeziwe ngokuhlubuka nokuphinga.
Abantu abasha bangathanda ukwethembeka, futhi abakwazi; abadala bangathanda ukungathembeki, futhi abakwazi.
Oscar Wilde
I-TRIANGLE: isibalo sejometri esivame ukwenza umshado ujabulise.
Anonimo
Ngokwezibalo kuvele ukuthi ama-50% amaNtaliyane ayathandana. Uyazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini lokho? Okungukuthi, uma kungewena, kungumkakho!
UDaniele Luttazzi
AbaseTasmani, okwakungaziwa ukuphinga phakathi kwabo, manje sebengabantu abangasekho.
UWilliam Somerset Maugham
Ngaya ekhaya ngathola umngani wami omkhulu uFrank embhedeni nomkami. Ngathi kuye: “Frank, kufanele! Kodwa wena?".
UBilly crystal
Owesifazane, jabulani empilweni yenu njengezithandani, kufanele. Phila ubumbene futhi ugcwaliseke nsuku zonke zempilo yakho. Qiniseka ukuthi uthola indoda ekwazi ukupheka. Qiniseka ukuthi uthola indoda ehola kakhulu. Qiniseka ukuthi uthola owesilisa okuzijabulisa ngokuphelele. Futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, mfazi, qiniseka ukuthi la madoda amathathu awahlangani.
UFlavio Oreglio
Izimpondo zifana nezicathulo: wonke umuntu empilweni yakhe ube nokulingana okungenani okukodwa.
Anonimo
Ukungasebenzi ocansini kuyingozi, kuveza izimpondo.
Woody Allen
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