Kuwo wonke umlando namasiko, izinkolo ezahlukahlukene zanikela ngemikhuba yokuhlawulela izono, ububi kanye necala lomphakathi. Ezikhathini eziningi kwakukhethwa isilwane okwathi, yize sasingazi nhlobo futhi singenacala ngezinkinga zomphakathi, sanikelwa ukuze "sizuze bonke".
Leli siko laziwa njenge impongo futhi kuyisimo esingokwengqondo esingagcini emphakathini kuphela kodwa futhi esidlulela emaqenjini amancane afana nomndeni. Kuhlelo imindeni engasebenzi kahle akuyona into eyejwayelekile ukuthi elinye lamalungu lifake indima yokuba yimbuzi yomsolwa. Uba ngumuntu othwala wonke amaphutha futhi, ngomqondo othile, isisindo sebhalansi lomndeni elibucayi.
Indima ye-Azazeli emndenini
Isu eliqinisekile lokugcina iqembu elihlangene, elilawulwayo nelibukeka ngokufana ukuqoka isitha esivamile. Kuyindlela ebilokhu isetshenziswa ngosopolitiki kodwa futhi yaziswa nasemindenini enobuthi. Kulezi zimo, kukhethwa ilungu eliba yindawo yokugcina ukungeneliseki komndeni, ukukhungatheka nokuba necala.
I-scapegoat emndenini yenza imisebenzi emibili esemqoka, njengoba ivezwe ngabasebenza ngengqondo e-University of Kansas:
• Inciphisa imizwa yomndeni yecala ngomthwalo wakhe wemiphumela engemihle, kumsiza ukuthi agcine isithombe esihle ngaye nangendlela asebenza ngayo.
• Gcina umuzwa wokulawula njengoba imbuzi ye-Azazeli inikezela ngencazelo ecacile yomphumela omubi obekungabonakala sengathi awuchazeki ngaphandle kokuthi umndeni uthathe isibopho esigcwele.
Ngamanye amagama, imbuzi ye-Azazeli idlala indima ebalulekile ekulandiseni okwakhiwa ngumndeni ukuzisula ngokuba yisamukeli sayo yonke imizwa engemihle, izimo zengqondo nokuziphatha umndeni ongakuboni njengokwayo. Impongo iba yithuluzi lokuchaza ukwehluleka komndeni noma izenzo ezimbi, ngenkathi kugcinwa isithombe esihle.
Lo muntu, othathwa njengo izimvu ezimnyama, ivumela umndeni ukuthi ucabange ukuthi iyunithi enempilo futhi esebenza kangcono kunalokho eyiyo. Ukube bekungekho lowo muntu, umndeni ubuyoba ophelele futhi ujabulise.
La umbono we-scapegoat emindenini enobuthi uyachaza nokuthi lo muntu usebenza njengohlobo lwevalvu yokusiza ukunika isikhala izingxabano eziqoqekayo emndenini, ukuze zingabhidliki kubange izingxabano phakathi kwawo wonke amalungu awo ezingaholela ekuziphatheni okunodlame.
Uyikhetha kanjani imbuzi yomsizi emndenini?
Emindenini, akuyona into eyejwayelekile ukuthi ingane ibe yimbuzi yomsolwa. Abanye obaba kanye / noma omama basebenzisa ingane yabo njengembuzi yokukhipha imbuzi ukukhipha ukukhungatheka kwabo futhi babasole ngamaphutha abo. Ilungu elikhethiwe lizoba isitha sokuqala somndeni wonke. Uzoba ngumuntu wonke umuntu akhomba kuye njengoyimbangela yezingxabano zomndeni, noma ngabe esekude ngezinkulungwane zamamayela noma noma engasenabo ubuhlobo nomndeni wakhe.
Kwesinye isikhathi kukhethwa ilungu lomndeni elibuthakathaka noma elibucayi. Lowo muntu mancane amathuba okuthi aphendule emizameni yokusolwa nehlazo, kepha uzobe ezimisele ukuthwala umthwalo emahlombe akhe. Imvamisa, naleyo modeli yokuhlukumezeka iyafaneleka uma kudingeka ukuze "kuqiniswe" lowo muntu.
Kodwa-ke, imvamisa ilungu eliqine kakhulu noma elihlubukayo liyakhethwa ngoba yilona elidala izinkinga eziningi futhi eliphikisana namandla asetshenzisiwe omndeni anobuthi. Kungaba yilungu lomndeni elihlakaniphe kakhulu noma elizimele kakhulu, ngandlela thile, elisongela igunya lomholi. Ngokuvamile futhi bangabantu abanomqondo othuthuke kakhulu wobulungiswa kunamanye amalungu omndeni.
Umndeni umbona "ehlukile", ngakho-ke uqala ukucabanga ukuthi kulimaza yonke into, uyahlubuka futhi akabongi. Ukholelwa ukuthi leli lungu aliluthandi "uthando" aluthola ekhaya, ngakho-ke akalokothi aphuthelwe yithuba lokumgxeka, ukungamamukeli nokumsola.
Imiphumela engokwengqondo yokwenqatshwa necala
Ukukhethwa usemncane njengempongo yomndeni kuvame ukuba nemiphumela yokuphila kwakho konke. Ngakho-ke bangabantu abangazethembi bona noma abanye abantu, abanokuzenyeza futhi abazisolayo ngendlela abanye ababaphatha ngayo, okwenza babe sengozini yokuhlukunyezwa nokuphathwa kabi.
Imvamisa nabo bangabantu abazizwa benenzondo enkulu, ngoba uthando nokuqinisekiswa ngokomzwelo obekufanele bakuthole emndenini kubenqabele. Kulezo zimo, bangaba ngabantu abasabela ngentukuthelo ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu.
Imvamisa futhi baziphatha njengohlobo "lomhlengi" ngoba, ngokungazi, bakholelwa ukuthi bakweleta abanye, ukuze bavame ukuletha izinkinga ezingezona ezabo futhi bakwazi nokuzinikela ekuphishekeleni izinhloso zabanye izindleko zezidingo zabo kanye nezifiso zabo.
Ungayeka kanjani ukuba yimbuzi yomndeni?
Ngeshwa, imbuzi yomsizi ivame ukumelwa yingane engenalo ikhono lokuzikhulula endimeni eyabelwe yona. Kunoma ikuphi, ukuba khona kwembuzi yomsizi emndenini kusho ukuthi kukhona amandla anokungasebenzi okufanele alungiswe.
Akujwayelekile ukuthi "izimvu ezimnyama" zomndeni zikhule ngokwanele ukuba zikwazi ukuzimela ngokushesha ukuphuma kuleyo ndawo enobuthi. Kodwa-ke, ngaphandle kokungenelela kokwelapha noma ngaphandle kokunqamula ngokuphelele izibopho, kunzima ukuyeka ukuba yimbuzi yomndeni.
Inqubo yokuyeka ukuba yimbuzi yomsolwa ayiqali endaweni yomndeni kodwa ngaphakathi komuntu uqobo. Kufanele ususe icala futhi uqonde ukuthi awudingi ukuthwala imithwalo yemfanelo yabanye. Ukwakha ukuzethemba nokugxila ezimfanelweni ezinhle umndeni wakho ongakaze uziveze kuzokunika amandla okubhekana nendawo enobuthi.
Kuyafaneleka futhi ukubeka imingcele nomndeni ngokuwazisa ngokusobala ukuthi ngeke usamukela iqhaza lembuzi yomsolwa.
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