Isikhathi esithile manje besilokhu sizwa ngabo yonke indawo, labo obekufanele babhekane nalezi "zidalwa" bakwenzile ukucabanga okucacile nokunembile ukuthi bangobani, ukuthi balunge kangakanani ukuzihlanganisa nabantu abajwayelekile futhi bazibonakalise ama-philanthropists, abazinikele kakhulu enkolweni, abagcwele izinhloso ezinhle empeleni baphikisana nalokho abakwaziyo ukukukhombisa ngaphandle nabesilisa noma abesifazane ukuthi abanandaba akunjalo njengoba nabo bebulala ngokulinganayo futhi beyingozi.
Bayakwazi ukungena ngokungena kunoma iyiphi imvelo futhi lapho imvelo ikulungele ukubanikeza ukudla kunokuziphatha okondlayo nokuziphatha okunonya kokubusa okushintshiwe nokuphikisana, kulapho benikela ngakho konke okusemandleni abo! Umgomo ucacile, ukuba namandla nempumelelo yokwanelisa imizwa yokuqala, nganoma iyiphi imali futhi ngaphandle kokungabaza.
Ukuzikhukhumeza kwabo nezindlela zabo zokwenza izinto kusuka ebuntwini obungenanoma iluphi uhlobo lozwela nesimo sengqondo futhi lokhu kubavumela ukuthi babe nezinzuzo ezinkulu kunabanye nomphakathi; njengabantu abangathembekile kulula kakhulu kubo ukukhuphukela phezulu empumelelweni ezindaweni lapho kusetshenziswa khona amandla ngakho-ke sihlala sibabona ukuthi babambe izindima ezibaluleke kakhulu emphakathini.
Umhlaba wezepolitiki ungumbhede oshisayo ophelele wokukhombisa ukuzikhukhumeza nokukhohlisa kwabo, ubuciko obubhekiswe kuleli cala hhayi kubantu (njengoba kwenzeka ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwabantu lapho besebenzelana nabo) kepha ekubuseni kwabantu bonke. lokhu kubanikeza umuzwa omkhulu wamandla ophindaphinda ukuzidela kwabo okukhulu.
Impilo yalezi zibalo ihlala ifana kuwo wonke umuntu, ngokususelwa kuzithako ezifanayo ezilula kepha ezibalulekile: isihloko esilawulwayo (isisulu), isihloko esivelele (zona).
Ukuqaphelisisa nge-protagonism ngaphandle kwayo bezizntula injongo yokuphila.
Ngaphandle kwemizamo yabo emikhulu yokukhombisa isithombe esihle, abazideli, abazinikele ekuxazululeni izinkinga zabanye, kepha-ke, kufanele banciphise konke ukukhubazeka okufanayo okubasindisa ngesikhathi (kuyisikhathi nje).
Yini ubuthakathaka bokuzibona? Bayafana nababulali ababulalayo abasheshe babanjwe: ukuqagela nokuzikhukhumeza (bazizwa bengaphezu kwayo yonke into nawo wonke umuntu), ukunqoba imikhawulo (imithetho isebenza kuwo wonke umuntu kodwa hhayi kubo), inselelo (bakholelwa ukuthi bahlakaniphe kakhulu ababhekene naye).
Inkinga yangempela ivela lapho sibathola benhloko yohulumeni noma bebambe iqhaza elibalulekile ekusindeni kwabantu uqobo! Mhlawumbe ngezikhathi ezinzima njengaleyo lapho umlingiswa ophambili eyi- "coronavirus" manje ekhonjwa ngegama nesibongo "covid-19" lapho laba bantu, esikhundleni sokuba yingxenye yesixazululo, baba yingxenye yenkinga.
Abantu "ababulala" abathi, bethathwe yimizwelo yabo engaphenduki ehluleka ukweqa engozini yokutholakala (njengoba kuchaziwe ngenhla), babeka phambili isifiso sabo sokuphikisa ngokusebenzisa zonke iziteshi zokuxhumana ukukhombisa "ukuzidla" kwabo, ukuxhaphaza uquqaba ukuthanda kwabo futhi, esikhundleni sokusebenzisa izindima zabo zamandla ukusiza, basebenzisa isimo esibucayi njengethuba lenzuzo nokuqondisa ngqo noma okungaqondile okuqondene nabo, besondeza kakhulu izinkathazo, ukwesaba nokuphelelwa yithemba kubantu futhi, njengoba umlando usifundisa , ukubuyisa izingxabano zomphakathi eziyingozi kakhulu.
Kunoma iyiphi indima lesi sibalo esibi sibonwa, noma ngabe kuyindima yomuntu siqu ekhonjwe kumlingani, oshade naye, umngane, umzali, osebenza naye noma umqashi noma oyisibalo esisebenza ngendima ebalulekile emphakathini njengombusi, uhlala engumfanekiso isibalo sakho konke esimele incazelo ye- "negative".
Kusuka kule ncazelo, imiphumela engahle ivele kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano nalezi zibalo iqondakala kahle, cabanga nje ukuthi isimilo okuyisona esivamile sabanikazi bama-narcissist "ukukhaphela", ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi kunoma yikuphi ukungathembeki okulindelwe ngazo zonke izindlela. noma ngubani obeke noma yiluphi uhlobo lwethemba kubo; sikhumbula imbuka edume kunabo bonke emlandweni wesintu owathi ngokumanga wagweba intambo uMuntu ayethole kuye konke ukwethenjwa nokulunga okuphelele, emnikela ezandleni zalabo ababezombethela.
"Ukukhaphela" kungukuhlanganiswa kwabo bonke ububi besintu futhi lokhu kuhlanganiswa kungatholakala ezicini eziyinhloko zama-narcissists okungenzeka ukuthi kubangelwe kubaphathi basendulo nabamanje.
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