Kukhona I ukwesaba okunobungane, okusisiza senze kangcono, futhi eyodwa isitha, okusikhubazayo nokusenza sithathe izinqumo ezingalungile.
Ukuguqula isitha sakho usenze umngani akusikho ukudlala kwengane futhi i-athikili eku-inthanethi kungenzeka kungabi yinduku yemilingo okungenzeka ubuyifuna, kepha ngifuna ukuhlanganyela nawe imicabango ethile.
Usukulungele? Umgwaqo.
1. Ulayini wokwesaba
Ukuzivocavoca kuqukethe dweba umugqa bese ubeka uZero kolunye uhlangothi ne-100 kolunye.
Kuhle. Ngaphansi kwesihloko 100 bhala ukwesaba kwakho okukhulu. Uma kungenzeka kwenzeke kungaba yinhlekelele embi impela. Isibonelo: ukulahlekelwa yiwo wonke amalungu omndeni wami kanye nomsebenzi wami ngasikhathi sinye. Lokhu kungaba yinhlekelele enkulu kimi.
Manje cabanga ngento ekukhathazayo bese uyibeka kulesi sikali esinezinombolo.
Lokho wukuthi, maqondana nokwesaba kwakho okungu-100, ukubeka kanjani okukuhluphayo? Isibonelo ukuthi leli khasimende alikukhokhi? Noma ukuthi uke walwa nomkakho futhi udinga ukuthola indlela yokubuyisa ubudlelwano? Noma ukuthi awuqondi ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani isoftware ye-e-invoicing kanye nensizakalo yamakhasimende kukwenza ulinde izinsuku ukukunikeza impendulo oyifunayo?
Njengomthetho, lokhu kuvivinya kusisiza ukuthi sinikeze isisindo esifanelekile kulokho okusikhathazayo. Akukona okokunakekela ukunciphisa ubuhlungu bakho noma imizwa yakho, kepha kumayelana nokuyibuka ngaphakathi kwepanorama enemininingwane eminingi. Okusho ukuthi, kusetshenziselwa ukuyiqinisa kabusha, ukuyibeka endaweni efanele, ukuthola ukuthula okukhulu ngakho-ke sikwazi ukusonga imikhono yethu ukubhekana naleyo nkinga ethile.
2. Bala umthelela wenkinga
Okunye ukuzivocavoca okuthakazelisayo yilokho abale umthelela wesimo lokho kuyakukhathaza.
Ngiphakamisa umdlalo we-5, noma zibuze: le nto izongikhathaza kuze kube nini? Izinsuku ezi-5? Izinyanga ezi-5? Noma iminyaka engu-5? Noma okungcono namanje, ezinsukwini ezi-5 le nto izoba namuphi umthelela kimi nasempilweni yami? Futhi ezinyangeni ezi-5? Futhi eminyakeni emi-5?
Isizathu salokhu kuvivinya - nalapha - ukwenza umongo ngokwenzekayo kuwe namuhla kulayini ozayo. Hlala wazi ukuthi sithambekele ekuqhakambiseni umthelela wezinto ezithile ezikhathazayo, futhi ukukubeka esimweni sokubuka isikhathi kusisiza ukuthi sibe nenhloso ethe xaxa ngokuthi singakhathazeka kangakanani ngesimo futhi siqonde ukuthi ngabe inkinga ingeyangempela noma cha.
3. 80-20
Umbono wesithathu ukuphikisana nokuthambekela okuvamile lapho unaka khona i-100, usabalalisa okungama-80 ekufukameleni nasekucabangeni ngenkinga, kanye nama-20 kuzisombululo ezingaba khona.
Ukusatshalaliswa okuhle kuphambene: U-20% ukuhlangabezana nenkinga, okungafanele yenqatshwe kepha ibhekane futhi yamukelwe, kepha i-80% esikhundleni salokho kufanele ikhonjiswe ekubhekiseni ikhasi, ngase ukuxazulula isimo, ekuzuzeni amakhono okusobala ukuthi akudingeki ukuthi siwathathe kuze kube manje, ukuze siqonde kangcono okwenzekayo kithina futhi ngalokho sikhuphule ulwazi lwethu. U-Ergo: funda, funda, ucabangisise, uxoxe, uzame.
Bathandekayo, ukukhathalela kungcono kunokukhathazeka.
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L'articolo Ukubhekana nokwesaba: kungani ukunakekela kubaluleke kakhulu kunokukhathazeka kubonakala kungowokuqala Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseMilan.
