Xa usiba "likhoboka"

Izaqhwithi ezimbini zikaHarvey zabetha i-US ngexesha elifutshane. Lowo waseTexas wabangela ukufa kwabantu abangama-89 kunye ne-70 yezigidigidi kumonakalo ekupheleni kuka-Agasti. Enye iNkanyamba uHarvey ngumvelisi wefilimu oneminyaka engama-65 ubudala UHarvey Weinstein, owangena eHollywood etyhila ityala labasetyhini abaninzi abathi ngesiquphe bamtyhola ngesinyanzeliso sesincwaso, emva kokufunda inqaku lika-Okthobha 5 elibhalelwe iNew York Times nguJodi Kantor noMegan Twohey.

Ke emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabini ukusuka kwizibakala, abadlali UAshley Judd e URose McGowanU-Weinstein wamangalela iSexual Harassment. Ngaphezu kwabasetyhini abangama-50 babalandela. Ngoku UHarvey Weinstein Ewe unjalo Ukutshutshiswa kweziyobisi Nella Ikliniki yaseMeadows Wickenbug (Arizona) nge $ 37 ngenyanga.

Ewe, kuba likhoboka lesini Kufana nazo zonke iziyobisi - into engadibaniyo nomnqweno, nokuba yile nto ibonakalisa ngendlela ekhathazayo nengcolileyo.

Ngamafutshane, umlutha wesini awunyanzelekanga ukuba ube ungumhlukumezi kwaye ayisiyiyo ihagu ukuba likhoboka lesini. Kukho ukunyanzelwa xa kukho uxanduva lwe-pathological lokufuna ukukhuthaza nokwazi iziphumo eziyingozi. Umntu akazonwabisi (njengokungcakaza okunyanzelekileyo, umzekelo). Ulikhoboka kuye, njengesiyobisi. Pha imvucomania Ubufazi kunye ubuhlanga Indoda iwele kule meko. Uhlobo lokuphakanyiswa kweempembelelo zesini ezikhokelela kuphando oluqhubekayo lwamaqabane amatsha (ngaphandle kokonwaba), kodwa enyanisweni isebenza ukunciphisa isiphithiphithi sangaphakathi se-psychic. Yintsholongwane kwaye iphazamisa kakhulu ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Umdlali odlalayo okanye "umfazi olula" akanalo ngqo esi sifo. Intetho yabo iya kukhetha itshintshele kumaxabiso abo, apho ubuchwephesha bengqondo bungathathi ndawo.

Ukunyangwa ngokwesondo kunokunyanga. Kwakhona e-Itali. Ekupheleni IZiko leSan Nicola, kufutshane naseSenigallia, apho bachaza khona ukuba “ezona zinto zibangela ukuba umntu abe likhoboka lesini, ubukhulu becala, zezinye ezibangela ezinye iziyobisi, nokuba zizinto okanye ukungcakaza. Rhoqo, banokukhangelwa kwi-traumas ezamehlela ngexesha lobuntwana okanye kubomi bakutshanje besihloko, izehlo ezibangela iimeko ezinzima zoxinzelelo okanye zokudakumba, "ezibuyiswayo" ngoxhatshazo ngokwesini ". Baphinde baphilise iziyobisi. Okanye kwi Siipac waseBolzano, apho bachaza khona ukuba “eyona nto ifunyanwa ngabantu abagula ngokwesondo yile yendoda iphakathi kweminyaka engama-30 nengama-40, edla ngokutshata, enediploma yesidanga okanye isidanga. Kwi Inani elipheleleyo leziyobisi zesini e-Italiya, malunga nesigidi esinye nesiqingatha sabantuyena Iipesenti ezingama-70-80 ngamadoda, ama-20-30 eepesenti ngabasetyhini". ESiipac baphilisa uninzi lweziyobisi ezingama-22, kubandakanya umlutha weSelfie ("selfie" umlutha) kunye neziyobisi kwilungu (i-tanorexia).

Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kukuziphatha okunyanzelekileyo okuphazamisa ubomi bemihla ngemihla kubangela uxinzelelo olukhulu kusapho, kubahlobo nakwindawo yomsebenzi. Iphawulwa ngokulandela ngokungagungqiyo ukwaneliseka ngokwesondo ngaphandle kweziphumo okanye ukhuseleko lomntu. Kuqikelelwa ukuba i-6 ukuya kwi-8 yeepesenti (i-16-21,5 yezigidi) yabemi baseMelika likhoboka lesini. Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kuhlala kuthelekiswa nezinye iintlobo zokulutha. Kubalulekile ukuba uyazi ukuba ayikho akukho ndlela yokuziphatha ichaza ukuba likhoboka lesini, Eyaziwa ngokuba nefuthe elinamandla kwiingcinga zomntu, iimvakalelo, impilo yomzimba, kunye nokuziphatha kunye nokusebenza kwabo okusisiseko. Umlutha uqhubela phambili ngokuqhubekayo kwizigaba ngexesha apho umlutha wesondo uqhubeka ukhutshwa kubahlobo, usapho kunye nehlabathi lokwenyani. Ekugqibeleni, umjikelo wokulutha uphela ngeziphumo ezibi, ezinje ngokwasemthethweni, kwezemali kunye / okanye ukubandezeleka.

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Akukho luhlobo lunye lonyango olubonakalisiweyo lusebenza ngakumbi kunolunye. Rhoqo, indlela yonyango isetyenziswa ekusebenzeni nomntu onomlutha ngokwesondo. Olunye unyango lwamayeza ngengqondo lunokuba luncedo ekunciphiseni ukuqhuba ngesondo okanye ekunciphiseni iingcinga zangaphakathi. La mayeza anokuvumela umntu ukuba athathele ingqalelo iziphumo ngaphambi kokuqhuba ngesondo okanye isenzo. Ukongeza kunyango, phantse kuhlala kubandakanya unyango rhoqo okanye iingcebiso.

Ngokophando lwakutsha nje, oluqhutywa nguGqr. UFranco Avenia, uMongameli weI-AIRS, Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo e-Italiya yi-5,8%. Emadodeni yi-10% kwaye kwabasetyhini yi-2%. THE Amaxabiso aphezulu afunyenwe ku-36 ukuya ku-50 weminyaka ku-6,8%.Iqela lobudala elisemngciphekweni wokuba likhoboka lelona lisuka kwi-18 liye kuma-35, ngomndilili we-10,8%, owehle uye kwi-5-6% ukusuka kuma-35 kuye kwangaphezulu kwama-50. idiploma yesikolo (i-9,9%), kwaye yehla yaya kwi-4,7% kubafundi abaphumeleleyo. KwiUmntu ongatshatanga ukhona ngakumbi (8%) ngakumbi abo betshatileyo (Iipesenti ezingama-23 zahlulwe zangumhlolokazi) xa kuthelekiswa nabangatshatanga (7%). Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kuchazwe ngakumbi eMantla (39%) kunakwiziko (32,5%) okanye eMzantsi (31,5%)

Ziliqela Abantu abadumileyo- kwindawo kaHarvey Weinstein-bathethile - asazi ukuba kulungile okanye ngokuchanekileyo -yokuba okanye ubuselikhoboka lesini. Kanye West, Scott Disick, John Mayer, Lindsay Iohan, Denise Welch, Spencer Matthews, Calum Best, Charlie Sheen, Colin Farrell, Luisa Zissman, Jodie Marsh, David Duchowny (X-Files) noMichael Duglas abathi ngo-1992 balahla iziyobisi ngokwesondo kwi Ikliniki yaseSierra eTucson. Nangona kunjalo, akukho mfazi owakhe waxela ukuhlukunyezwa ngaba bantu, anikwe amandla amakhulu e-Hollywood kunye namandla. Kodwa uyazi - akukho mntu uthanda iinkanyamba kwaye uHarvey akakho ngaphandle.

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