Ubuhlobo Ngokuqinisekileyo yenye ye izipho ezintle esinikwe zona. Sikhetha abahlobo abaza kuhamba nathi kubomi bethu bonke kwaye baya kwenza uhambo lwethu lube lukhulu ngakumbi, lube sisityebi kwaye lube mnandi.
Kodwa asisoloko siyiqonda indlela esinethamsanqa ngayo. Rhoqo kusenzeka, enyanisweni, sithatha kancinci izinto ezingathathelwa phezulu kwaphela: yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba sizikhumbuze sixabiseke kangakanani isipho sobuhlobo nedilesi amabinzana othando kunye nombulelo kubantu esinabo ecaleni kwethu.
Sinokukwenza oku ngokuboleka amagama amnandi yababhali abadumileyo kunye nemibongo yexesha elidlulileyo abasinike yona imibongo emnandi nengalibalekiyo.
Iindinyana ezinamandla zizele ziipatos ukubhiyozela oko bekusoloko kuthathelwa ingqalelo enye yezona mvakalelo zibalaseleyo nezona zibalulekileyo, phantse ngokulingana nothando. Kulungile, kuba ngapha koko, ubuhlobo abuyonto ngaphandle koku uthando lwanaphakade phakathi kwemiphefumlo enolwalamano Kwaye kunxulunyaniswa ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo.
Nantsi ke 20 eyona mibongo mihle ngobuhlobo ukubhiyozela le mvakalelo kunye nokuzinikela ngamagama azele luthando kunye nokuzixabisa kubahlobo esinabo ecaleni kwethu nabathi imihla ngemihla basincede ekwenzeni ubomi bethu buhle ngakumbi kwaye bukhanye.
Kunye nemigca eqinileyo kunye nesibongo kunye namabinzana, akho Imibongo yabantwana, njengabadumileyo poesia-isingqisho se-nursery ngu-Gianni Rodari enceda ukuqonda kwasebusaneni indlela ekhethekileyo le nto ibizwa ngokuba bubungani.
1. Ubuhlobo, Pam Pam
Ubulolo, ukugula, ukudideka,
ulwazi olulula ngobuhlobo
yenza ukuba sikwazi ukuxhathisa,
Nokuba umhlobo akanamandla okusinceda.
Kwanele ukuba ikho.
Ubuhlobo abuncitshiswa ngumgama okanye ixesha,
ukusuka entolongweni okanye emfazweni,
Ukubandezeleka okanye ukuthula.
Kungenxa yezi zinto apho ithatha iingcambu zayo ezinzulu.
Kuvela kwezi zinto kuchuma….
2. Inkumbulo yomhlobo, UDavid Maria Turoldo
Ndicinga ukuba ayikho enye into esithuthuzela kangaka,
ngokungathi inkumbulo yomhlobo,
uvuyo lokuzithemba kwakhe
okanye isiqabu esikhulu sokumthemba
ngoxolo olupheleleyo:
ngokuchanekileyo kuba engumhlobo.
Thuthuzela umnqweno wokumbona kwakhona ukuba ukude,
ukuyivusa ukuba izive isondele,
phantse kuva ilizwi lakhe
kwaye uqhubeke neentetho ezingagqitywanga.
3. Umhlobo wam, UEmily Hearn
Umhlobo wam ufana nokukhonkotha
ujikeleze umthi,
iyandifudumeza njengelanga
ngosuku lobusika,
indihlaziya njengamanzi
emva kwemini eshushu,
ilizwi lakhe lidlamkile ngathi
ingoma yentaka entwasahlobo,
ngumhlobo wam,
kwaye mna yakhe.
4. Ndoda, susa into oyifunayo, Pablo Neruda
Ndoda, susa into oyifunayo,
cwilisa amehlo akho ezimbombeni,
kwaye ukuba uyafuna ndiza kukunika umphefumlo wam uphela
ngeendlela zayo ezimhlophe neengoma zayo.
5. Ubuhlobo, UJorge Luis Borges
Andikwazi ukukunika izisombululo
Zonke iingxaki zobomi
Andinampendulo yamathandabuzo okanye uloyiko lwakho,
kodwa ndiyabamamela kwaye ndabelane nawe
Andinakukutshintsha okwadlulayo
okanye ikamva lakho
Kodwa xa ndiyidinga ndiya kuba kufutshane nawe
Andinakunceda ungawi,
Ndingakunika kuphela isandla sam
ukuze ikuxhase kwaye ungawi
Ukonwaba kwakho, impumelelo yakho kunye noloyiso lwakho
ayingobam
Kodwa ndiyavuya ngokunyanisekileyo xa ndinibona nonwabile
Andizigwebi izigqibo ozenzayo ebomini
Ndincike kuwe ukuze uvuselele
kwaye ndikuncede ukuba uyandibuza
Andikwazi ukuzoba imida
ngaphakathi apho kufuneka uhambe,
Kodwa ndingakunika indawo
ziyimfuneko ukukhula
Andinakukuphepha ukubandezeleka kwakho,
xa ezinye iintlungu zichukumisa intliziyo yakho
Kodwa ndingakhala nawe ndize ndicoshe ezo ziqwenga ndizibuyisele kwakhona.
Andikwazi ukukuxelela into oyiyo okanye into ekufuneka uyiyo
Ndingakufuna nje unje
kwaye ube ngumhlobo wakho.
6. Ubuhle bobuhlobo, URalph Waldo Emerson
Ubuhle bobuhlobo
ayisosandla solulekileyo
noncumo oluthambileyo
novuyo lwenkampani:
lukhuthazo lokomoya xa sifumanisa
ukuba umntu ukholelwa kuthi
kwaye ukulungele ukusithemba.
7. Ukuba ndinokumisa intliziyo ukuba ingaphuli, UEmily Dickinson
Ukuba ndinokuyithintela
ukuya entliziyweni yokwaphula
Andiyi kuphila ilize.
Ukuba ndiyazikhulula iintlungu zobomi bonke
okanye ndiza kunciphisa intlungu
okanye ndiza kunceda irobin ewile
ukuphinda ungene kwindlwana
Andiyi kuphila ilize!
Namhlanje kude ebuntwaneni
kodwa ukunyuka nokuhla iinduli
Ndisibambe nkqi isandla sakhe
efinyeza yonke imigama!
Iinyawo zabo bahamba begoduka
hamba neembadada ezikhaphukhaphu!
8 Musa ukuyifihla imfihlelo yentliziyo yakho; URabrindranath Tagore
Musa ukuzifihla
imfihlelo yentliziyo yakho,
mhlobo wam!
Ndixelele, ndixelele nje,
ngokuzithemba.
Wena oncuma ngobubele,
ndixelele kancinci,
Intliziyo yam iya kuyiphulaphula,
hayi iindlebe zam.
Ubusuku bunzulu,
indlu ethe cwaka,
iindlwane zeentaka
bathi cwaka ebuthongweni babo.
Ndityhile ngeenyembezi ezithandabuzayo,
phakathi koncumo lokungcangcazela,
phakathi kwentlungu kunye nehlazo elimnandi,
imfihlelo yentliziyo yakho.
9. Yiba nomhlobo, Gyo Fujikawa
Intle kakhulu xa nitshomi,
ukudlala kunye,
ndiziva ndonwabile.
Kumnandi ukuthetha nomhlobo wam
uneemfihlo eziliwaka zokuxelela
kwaye bahleke kunye bahleka kakhulu
izizathu zokuhleka azisilela.
Ewe ngamanye amaxesha inokwenzeka
ukufumanisa ukuba bayalwa
kwaye ngaloo mizuzu bathi omnye komnye: Sala kakuhle,
awusengomhlobo wam!
Kodwa kungekudala uza kumwola
ngaphandle kwakhe awazi nje ukuba ungabanjani.
Kwaye ndonwabile kwaye ndonwabile ngesandla
abahlobo bokwenene bahamba kunye.
10. Abahlobo, UGianni Rodari
Itsho iqhalo kwiintsuku ezidlulileyo
"Ungcono wedwa kunokuba ungahambi kakubi".
Ndiyazi eyona intle kakhulu:
"Ngokudibana uya kude".
Umzekeliso uthi, ngubani owaziyo ukuba kutheni:
"Nabani na owenza yedwa wenzela abathathu".
Andiyiva ngale ndlebe:
"Nabani na oneetshomi ezilikhulu wenza ikhulu!".
Umzekeliso ngoku kufuneka utshintshwe:
"Abo bodwa abanakwenza iimpazamo!".
Oku, ndithi, bubuxoki:
"Ukuba sibaninzi, kumnandi!".
11. Umhlobo, Khalil Gibran
Uyintoni umhlobo kuwe,
Kutheni kufuneka uyikhangele
Ukubulala ixesha?
Soloko ujonga ukuba uphile ixesha.
Ngapha koko, kufuneka izalise iimfuno zakho,
ayikokungabikho kwakho.
Kwaye kubumnandi bobuhlobo
Kukho ukuhleka,
Nokwabelana ngamaxesha okonwaba.
Kuba ngumbethe
yezinto ezincinci
Intliziyo ifumana intsasa yayo
Kwaye iyazihlaziya.
12. Ndiyakholelwa kuwe, sihloboElena Oshiro
Ndiyakholelwa kuncumo lwakho
vula iwindow kubukho bakho.
Ndiyakholelwa kwinkangeleko yakho,
isipili ukunyaniseka kwakho.
Ndiyakholelwa kwisandla sakho,
soloko uzama ukupha.
Ndiyakholelwa kokwanga kwakho,
wamkelekile ngentliziyo yakho.
Ndiyakholelwa kwilizwi lakho,
Ukubonisa into oyithandayo kunye nethemba lakho.
Ndiyakholelwa kuwe, sihlobo
ngokulula,
ngobuciko bokuthula.
13. Ayindim naye, uCecilia Casanova
Naye
nam
saqonda
ukuba ubuhlobo bethu wayegcwele
yeejika.
Yilungelelanise
ibiya kuba kukungcola.
14.Uthando nobuhlobo, Emily Brontë
Uthando lufana nerosacanina,
ubuhlobo yinto engcwele.
IHolly imdaka ngombala xa i-rose isemahlamvini
kodwa yeyiphi kwezi zimbini eziza kuhlala ixesha elide?
Intyatyambo yasendle imnandi entwasahlobo,
iintyatyambo zawo ziqholiweyo ehlotyeni;
kodwa linda ubusika buze buvele
Ngubani na omdumisayo ubuhle bentshaba?
Hlaza isithsaba esingathandekiyo seentyatyambo
kwaye unxibe i-holly ekhanyayo,
ngoba uDisemba ochukumisa ibunzi lakho
ushiya isithsaba esiluhlaza.
15. Imibuzo ebuzwa kumWislawa Szymborska
Uthini umxholo woncumo
kunye nokuxhawulana?
Ekwamkeleni
awukude kude
njengoko ngamanye amaxesha kude
indoda isuka emntwini
xa inika isigwebo sobutshaba
ekuboneni kokuqala?
Yonke ikamva lomntu
vula njengencwadi
ujonge imvakalelo
hayi kubalinganiswa bayo,
hayi kushicilelo?
Ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into,
uyabamba abanye abantu?
Impendulo yakho evasayo,
ngenene,
isiqhulo esivela kwinto-
uwubalile umonakalo?
Ubuhlobo obungazalisekanga,
Ihlabathi elinomkhenkce.
Uyazi ubuhlobo buhamba
ulwalamano lothando?
Kukho abo bangagcinanga phezulu
kulo msebenzi unzima.
Kwaye kwiimpazamo zabahlobo
bekungekho tyala lakho?
Abanye baye bakhalaza bacebisa.
Zingaphi iinyembezi eziphumileyo
Phambi kokuba uzise uncedo?
Ukusebenzisana
yolonwabo lweminyaka
mhlawumbi uyiphosile
umzuzu omnye
iinyembezi, igrimile ebusweni?
Awusoze uphephe
ukudinwa kwabanye abantu?
Iglasi yayiphezu kwetafile
kwaye akukho mntu uqaphele,
de yawa
yesenzo esiphazamisayo.
Kodwa konke kulula
kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu?
Musa ukuhamba phambi kwam, UAlbert Camus
Musa ukuhamba phambi kwam, ndingangakulandeli.
Musa ukuhamba emva kwam, andazi ukuba ndikukhokele phi.
Hamba ecaleni kwam kwaye siyakuhlala singabahlobo.
17. Amadoda enzelwe ukuba aqondwe, UPaul Eluard
Amadoda enzelwe ukuba aqondwe
ukuqonda omnye komnye bethandana
banabantwana abaya kuba ngootata babantu
banabantwana abangenakhaya bengenakhaya
Ngubani oza kuvuselela amakhaya
Ngubani oza kuvuselela amadoda
nendalo nelizwe
eyabantu bonke
ngalo lonke ixesha.
18. ISonnet 104, UWilliam Shakespeare
Kum, mhlobo wam,
soze ube mdala,
waqala nini ukudibana nokujonga kwakho,
enjalo namhlanje ubuhle bakho buvela;
ubusika obubandayo abathathu bugungqise ikratshi lamahlobo amathathu emithini,
imithombo emithathu entle ebunile ikwindla emthubi endiyibonileyo ngokulandelelana kwamaxesha onyaka,
zinevumba elimnandi ezivulekileyo zatshiswa ngomlilo zangoJuni wesithathu okoko ndikubone udubula, umncinci njengangoku.
Kodwa ubuhle bufana nesithunzi kwi-sundial eqhubela phambili ngaphandle kokubonisa isantya sayo;
Ubutsha bakho, obuhlala buhlala buqinile kum,
Unentshukumo angayiboniyo iliso lam:
ukuba uyoyika oku, yazi, ukumamela izizukulwana ezizayo:
ngaphambi kokufika kwakho ihlobo lobuhle lalisele lifile.
19. Ndikhulisa irosa emhlophe(UJosé Martí)
Ndikhulisa irosa emhlophe
ngoJuni nangoJanuwari
kumhlobo onyanisekileyo
esolula isandla sakhe kum.
Kwaye okhohlakeleyo ondikrazulayo
intliziyo endiphila ngayo,
Andihlwayeli neenkunzane, okanye ikhula lomthi;
Ndilima irosa emhlophe.
20. Ongaziwayo
Andikuthandi nje ngokuba ungubani,
kodwa ukuba ndingubani xa ndinawe.
Andikuthandi nje kuphela ngento ozenzele yona,
kodwa ngalento uyenzayo kum.
Ndiyakuthanda kuba wenze ngaphezu kokuba wenze
naluphi na ukholo lokundenza ngcono,
kwaye nangaphezulu kwayo nayiphi na into eyenziweyo ukuze ndonwabe.
Uyenzile ngaphandle kokuchukumisa, ngaphandle kwegama, ngaphandle kokunqwala.
Uyenzile ngokuba nguwe.
Mhlawumbi, ngapha koko, oku kuthetha ukuba ngumhlobo.
