Pokhudzana ndi winawake chiopsezo chimakhalapo nthawi zonse, chokhala ndi nsanje ya ena. Njoka iyi, iyo chimaphatikizapo mwa icho chokha chisakanizo cha nsanje ndi njiru, pang'ono wosakhutira e zotsatirapo zingapo zosasangalatsa, ndi wakale ngati munthu. Agogo awo ali okonzeka kukukumbutsani za kaduka komwe adakumana nako, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti okonzeka kukuthandizani ndi mawu amutu. Mwachidule, palibe moyo wopanda nsanje. Koma pakakhala mgwirizano wolimba, kutengera kudalira, tikukhulupirira kuti winayo sangatichitire nsanje.
Choyambirira, penyani kanemayo, nthawi zina chiganizo choyenera chimatha kuchititsa nsanje:
Mayeso: ndi bwenzi lenileni kapena amakusilira?
Chifukwa chake sankhani bwino adani anu koma abwenzi bwino, ndichifukwa chake mukamadalira ndikudalira mnzanga, mukufuna kuti pali kaduka pang'ono. Kukhala akumva mwachibadwa mwathu, Zitha kuchitika kuti musirire bwenzi, chofunikira ndikudziwa momwe mungayendetsere kumva uku kuti asapangitse kukhala cholemetsa m'banjamo ... koma sizikhala choncho nthawi zonse. Ubwenzi wanu uli bwanji? Wodzipereka? Yesani mayeso ndipo tikuwululira izi:
Kodi Lenù wokoma kapena Lila wolimba mtima? Yesani kuti mudziwe kuti ndinu ndani!
Onaninso:
Mayeso: ungatsegule zochuluka motani kwa munthu amene simukumudziwa?
