“Chonde musaloze zida zanu kumwamba […] Sindikuchita mantha, sindine wamantha, ndikanachitira chilichonse dziko langa; koma osalankhula kwambiri za roketi za atomiki kuti chinthu choyipa chimachitika: sindinampsompsone kwambiri ", adalemba ndakatulo Carilda Oliver Labra mu 1962, pamene vuto la mizinga linasintha Cuba kukhala imodzi mwa malo omwe ali pachiopsezo cha nyukiliya.
Zoonadi, kusankha mizere m’malo mwa nkhani zokopa sikunalandiridwe, makamaka panthaŵi imene dziko lonse linkawoneka logawanika kukhala magulu aŵiri otsutsa ndi okonda nkhondo. Lerolino mkhalidwewo ukubwerezedwa. Dziko lapansi lasweka ndi kugawanika, kukakamiza wina ndi mzake kutenga mbali. Kusiyanasiyana kwa mawu kumachepa ndipo kumawonekera pang'onopang'ono pamene zokambirana za anthu zimafewetsa nkhani zovuta mpaka kufika potsutsana pa kutsata kapena kukana kopanda malire, zomwe zilinso zopanda malire.
“Iye amene sali ndi Ine atsutsana ndi Ine”. Ili ndilo liwu loyang'ana lomwe limamveka paliponse, kumbali zonse. M'zowona zosagwirizana ngati izi, sizodabwitsa kuti iwo omwe sagwirizana ndi nkhani zowopsa izi - ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale ochita monyanyira - asankha kukhala chete kuti apewe mikangano. Kulankhula za mtendere, bata ndi kusamvana kumangoipitsidwanso.
Nthano yakale imavumbula kufunika kofanana ndi bata pothetsa mavuto
Nthano ina yakale imafotokoza za munthu amene anali ndi chinthu chimodzi chokha chamtengo wapatali: mphete yomwe anatengera kwa bambo ake. Tsiku lina anaima m’mphepete mwa mtsinje kuti aziziziritsa, koma anatsetsereka pamwala n’kugwera m’madzi. Munthu wosaukayo nthawi yomweyo anachira chifukwa cha mantha, koma pamene anaimirira anapeza kuti mphete yamtengo wapataliyo yataya.
Mwamsanga anayamba kuchita chipwirikiti. Iye mwamtheradi anayenera kupeza mpheteyo, pa mtengo uliwonse. Anayamba kuchotsa pansi pa mchenga ndi manja ake, mozungulira. Koma pamene iye ankalimbana kwambiri, murker murker madzi. Bamboyo sanaipeze mpheteyo ndipo anayesa kwambiri kuti ayipeze, kuyang'ana mtsinje wamtsinjewo.
Mmonke wachibuda amene anaona zonse ali patali anamupempha kuti ayime, koma munthuyo sanamumve. Anali wamantha kwambiri komanso wokhumudwa. Ankangoganizira za imfa yake komanso kunyansidwa kwake. Mkwiyo unali kukula mkati mwake. Kenako monkeyo adadza pambali pake, nakhudza phewa lake nati: "Lekani, khalani pansi!"
Munthuyo anadekha n’kutuluka mumtsinjemo. M’mphindi zochepa chabe mchengawo unakhazikika pansi ndipo madzi anaphwa, kotero kuti anatha kupanga kuwala kwa mphete yake pansi. Kenako anachira bwinobwino n’kupitiriza ulendo wake.
Fanizo lakale limeneli likutisonyeza kufunika kwa bata ndi kufunika kokhala okhoza “kutuluka” m’mavuto kuti tikhale ndi maganizo abwino amene amatithandiza kuwathetsa. Mu Psychology, kwenikweni, munthu akakhala ndi vuto lomwe limamuvutitsa kapena kukangana kuti athetse, amathandizidwa kukhala ndi mtunda wamaganizidwe. Mtunda umenewo umathandiza kuti maganizo ake akhazikike kuti asaone bwinobwino zimene zikuchitika. Kumatumikira kuchotsa kukhumudwa ndi mkwiyo, kumapereka m’malo ku kawonedwe koyenera kamene kamakulolani kupanga chosankha chabwino koposa.
Mtengo wonyozeka wa equidistance
Equidistance. Zimanenedwa za kufanana kwa mtunda pakati pa mfundo ziwiri, anthu kapena zinthu. Kuchokera ku Latin aequus, kutanthauza "kufanana" ndi kutali, kutanthauza "mtunda", sikutanthauza kukhala pa mtunda wofanana pakati pa mfundo ziwiri zosiyana, komanso kutenga mwayi wofufuza malo osiyanasiyana.
Equidistance imatanthawuza kudziwa momwe mungalamulire zilakolakozo pakanthawi kotsutsana kuti musakhulupirire mwachimbulimbuli chilichonse mwazinthu ziwirizi, nthawi zambiri zotsutsana komanso zowoneka kuti sizingagwirizane, zomwe zimadziwonetsa ngati njira zokhazo zomwe zingatheke panthawi yomwe wina akumva kuti watsekeredwa m'malingaliro. osati mwamakhalidwe.
Nthawi zambiri izi zimasokonezedwa ndi kusakhudzidwa, mantha kapena kulephera kunyengerera. Zoona zake n'zosiyana kwambiri, ndi kuchita zinthu mwa kukhwima maganizo ndi kudzilamulira. Equidistance ndi kudzipereka ku ufulu wosankha. Ndi kukana kuukira mbali imodzi kapena imzake. Osalora kusokonezedwa. Musagwere m'mayesero oganiza kuti pali a bonum bonum kulimbana ndi a suma malum.
Equidistance ndi yomwe imatilola kuti tizilumikizana ndi zikhulupiriro zathu zakuya ndikumvera kampasi yathu yamkati kuti tisankhe njira yoti tipite dziko likakhala chipwirikiti. Ndicho chimene chimatilepheretsa kukhala asilikali omenyera nkhondo kumbali imodzi kapena ina, okhutiritsidwa mwakhungu kuti ali ndi choonadi chenicheni. Ndizomwe zimatithandizira kupanga malingaliro athu ndikupitilira polarization.
Zowonadi, polarization, popanda maziko apakati, imangoyambitsa mikangano ndipo, mwatsoka, izi zimathetsedwa mwa kuyika njira imodzi pa ina, kuchotsa chilichonse chomwe sichikugwirizana, kuletsa malingaliro osiyanasiyana, kuchotsa zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana, kupeputsa chuma cha anthu. Chifukwa chake, pempho lililonse loyimitsidwa mopanda malire limachepetsa kuthekera kopanga kutsutsa kolimbikitsa, kukambirana komanso, pomaliza, mgwirizano.
Kumbali ina, chilungamo ndicho chimene chimakomera chigwirizano ndi kukambitsirana moona mtima, zimene zimachokera ku masomphenya olinganiza bwino a dziko mmene mulibe chabwino kapena choipa, koma zokonda ndi zosoŵa zokha zimene ziyenera kuganiziridwa. Ndizomwe zimatilola kugwirizanitsa maudindo popanda kugwera muzitsulo zamtengo wapatali. Ndicho chimene chimatilola ife kudzitsegula tokha ku zovuta ndi kuvomereza winayo, ndi mphamvu zake ndi zofooka zake, monga momwe winayo amativomerezera, ndi mphamvu zathu ndi zofooka zathu.
Ndipo mwina, ndendende chifukwa cha zabwino zonse izi, chilungamo chanyozedwanso. Chifukwa nthawi zovuta, anthu samayang'ana anthu ofanana, koma zigawenga.
Pakhomo Osakhala ndi inu kapena motsutsa inu: nyimbo yofanana mu nthawi ya polarization kwambiri idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.
