Alakatuli alemba pamutuwu mosalekeza. Momwemonso, oyimba, afilosofi komanso olemba mabuku atha kungokopeka ndi mutu wawukulu komanso wovutawu, womwe imasokoneza tanthauzo lililonse wapadera. Mawu oti "chikondi" nthawi zonse amachititsa anthu kuti azilankhula, nthawi zina ngakhale kukambirana, ndendende chifukwa chovuta komanso zopanda pake. "Chikondi ndi chiyani?" ndi funso lomwe ambiri amadzifunsa, koma ndi ochepa omwe akwanitsa kupeza yankho logawana ndi ena, chifukwa limatha kusiyanasiyana kutengera magawo osiyanasiyana, kuyambira nzeru anapita zamaganizo, mpaka sayansi ndi kwa ndakatulo.
Tidzayesa kumvetsetsa zonse zotheka matanthauzo ndi mithunzi yachikondi, powaganiziranso pamene adayamba kukondana ndi chikondi chenicheni ndi mafotokozedwe osiyanasiyana omwe olemba ndakatulo ndi olemba osiyanasiyana adapereka pazaka zambiri. Komabe, mumadziwa kuti alipo anthu omwe amawopa kukonda? Mantha amenewa amatchedwa philophobia ndipo zimachitika nthawi zambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire ...
Kodi "chikondi" chimatanthauza chiyani
Aliyense amaganiza kuti amadziwa chomwe chikondi chili, koma chowonadi ndichakuti ndi ochepa omwe amadziwa tanthauzo. Choyambirira, chikondi, chenicheni, sichimangokhudza, koma kani kumverera. Yotsirizayi imasiyana ndi "yosavuta" kutengeka kwakanthawi: inde, kumverera kumatenga nthawi, umamangidwa tsiku ndi tsiku ndipo suli pompopompo komanso umakhala kwakanthawi ngati kutengeka. Chikondi chimabadwa chokha, koma chimapita kudyetsedwa ndikulima popita nthawi.
Tikayang'ana tanthauzo lake mu dikishonare, titha kupeza izi: "Kukonda kwambiri munthu yemwe amadzionetsera ngati wofunitsitsa kupeza ndizabwino ndikufunafuna kampani yake ». Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire zolondola, sizingatikhutiritse chifukwa chikondi chiridi zambiri. Ndikumverera kwa kusiyanitsa, mu kukhalapo kwake zopanda nzeru, chifukwa "akatigunda" sitingathe kuwongolera, komanso zomveka. Ndi chifukwa chimakhudza zonse mtima kuti maganizo. Pomaliza, ndi chikondi onse zauzimu Che thupi.
Kodi kukonda kumatanthauzanji?
Mawu oti "chikondi" amachokera ku Chilatini amor, amor ndipo poyamba adawonetsa chikhumbo chimenecho amatikopa kwa munthu wina. Kumverera uku kunali ndi tanthauzo limodzi physics mopupuluma, zomwe zidamupangitsa wathupi ndipo pafupifupi zanyama. Ndi kupita kwa nthawi, komabe chikondi chamutenganso gawo lachilengedwe komanso lauzimu, makamaka pafupi ndi malingaliro achipembedzo omwe Mulungu ndi anthu adagawana nawo.
Chifukwa chake, lero, tikamanena kuti timakonda winawake, timatanthauza kulumikizana kwakuthupi komanso ubale wa kukonza e zovuta maganizo. Kukonda moona kumatanthauza kuyamika wina chifukwa cha zomwe ali, ndimphamvu zake ndi zofooka zawo. Zimatanthauza kusankha munthu mwaufulu ndipo ndikufunirani zabwino zonseine, ndikufuna kukhala pafupi naye nthawi zonse, munthawi zabwino komanso zovuta pamoyo wake. Kukonda kumafanana ndi ikani chisangalalo cha mnzake poyamba kwanu. Ndilo vesi la iwo amene amasankha angayerekeze koposa kulandira, mosayembekezera popanda kubwezera, kudzipereka kwa mnzake ndi chidwi chake tsiku ndi tsiku osati kwenikweni ndi manja.
Tikayamba kukondana mpaka kuyamba kukonda
Mukayamba kukondana, amapezeka zizindikiro zowonekeratu. Ikupitilira pensare kwa munthu ameneyo, kuwerengera masiku, maola ndi mphindi mpaka msonkhano wotsatira. Kupezeka kwake kapena ngakhale lingaliro lomuwonanso akhoza kupanga tsiku lovuta, pomwe zonse zikuyenda molakwika, osaganizira kwambiri komanso wotsimikiza kwambiri. Momwemonso, kukumbukira m'maganizo kumathamanga kugunda kwa mtima, amatilekanitsa ife mu chiyanjano cha kusinkhasinkha kwathu, kuwapanga osasintha a zolankhula zathu mokweza osati. Kugwa mchikondi ndi idyll, ndiye gawo lokhazikika kwa linzake ndipo nthawi yomweyo nthawi yomwe chilakolako chimatenga. Komabe, monga timamvetsetsa nthawi yomwe tikusunthira kuchokera nthawi ino kupita kuchikondi chowona?
Choyamba, monga tidaganizira kale, chikondi chenicheni chimamangidwa ndikukula nthawi. Palibe lamulo lenileni la "nthawi", koma mukamayandikira kwambiri, mumayamba kumuwona mnzanu momwe alili, popanda zolinga. Mumakonda munthu wake ndi zolakwika zonse, kuphimba chikhumbo chosintha. Pa ichi, chikondi chenicheni chimafunikira kudzipereka, mgwirizano ndi kufunitsitsa kutsikira ku kunyengerera. Komanso, kuti ubale ukhale moyo wonse sayenera kulephera kukondana. Kwaubwenzi kumatanthauza zonse magawo azakugonana, ndimokonda ndi kutengeka kofunikira kwa banja, onse mgwirizano wamalingaliro, opangidwa ndi zinsinsi komanso zovuta zamaganizidwe.
Mawu ofotokoza za chikondi
Popeza chikondi ndichimodzi mwazomvera kwambiri zosangalatsa, komanso zovuta komanso zovuta kufotokozera, olemba ndakatulo ambiri komanso olemba mabuku adalemba za izo m'mawu awo, pomwe pafupifupi woyimba aliyense adayeserapo kufotokoza nyimbo. Pachifukwa ichi, tsopano tasiya pansi kwa olemba otchuka, kuti tiwone momwe "mawu oti kukonda" afotokozedwera m'mitundu yosiyanasiyana komanso nthawi.
Mawu okhudza chikondi mu ndakatulo ndi zolemba
Chikondi chenicheni chimayamba ngati palibe chomwe chimafunika pobwezera.
Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Chikondi ndi nkhungu yamphamvu yopangidwa ndi kuusa moyo; ikasungunuka, ndi moto womwe umayaka ndi kunyezimira pamaso pa okonda; yalepheretsedwa, ndi nyanja yodyetsedwa ndi misozi ya okonda iwowo. Ndi chiyani china? Misala yobisika, ndulu yomwe imabanika ndi kukoma komwe kumachiritsa.
William Shakespeare, Romeo ndi Juliet
Chikondi chomwe sichimasangalatsa aliyense amene amamukonda posabwezera
Dante Alighieri
Chikondi ndichinsinsi. Chifukwa chiyani padziko lapansi timakondana? Ndi mkwiyo waukulu womwe umatitonthoza ife kuzunzo zathu zonse, ndikumva kuwawa kwakukulu komwe kumatichiritsa ife kunkhondo zonse. Wokondedwayo ndi wankhondo wachilendo yemwe amamwetulira komanso amakonda ena. Wokondayo amachititsa maluwa onse padziko lapansi kuphulika, koma enawo amawapondereza chifukwa cha nsanje yoyaka.
Alda Merini
Pokhapokha ngati tileka kuyika zofunikira pa chikondi chathu m'pamene timayamba kumvetsetsa tanthauzo lachikondi.
Leo Buscaglia
Chikondi chenicheni sichikhala chakuthupi kapena chachikondi. Chikondi chenicheni ndikuvomereza zonse zomwe zakhala, zakhala, zidzakhala komanso sizidzakhala.
Khalil Gibran
Chikondi chimateteza imfa. Chikondi ndi moyo. Chilichonse, chilichonse chomwe ndimamvetsetsa, ndimachimvetsetsa chifukwa ndimakonda. Ndi izi zokha zomwe zimagwirizira zonse pamodzi.
Leo Tostoy
Kudzikonda nokha ndi chiyambi cha kukondana kwanthawi yayitali.
Oscar Wilde
Mawu okhudza chikondi mu filosofi
Chigamulo choyera kwambiri chomwe ndidamvapo: mchikondi chenicheni ndi mzimu womwe umaphimba thupi.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Chikondi chimapangidwa ndi mzimu umodzi wokhala m'matupi awiri.
Aristotle
Chikondi sichimawoneka pamalo ndipo sichimafufuzidwa ndi maso a thupi. Mawu ake samvedwa, ndipo akabwera kwa iwe, mayendedwe ake samvedwa.
Sant'Agostino
Kukonda ndiko kusangalala, pomwe timakhulupirira kuti timasangalala kokha ngati timakondedwa.
Aristotle
Mawu okhudza chikondi mu psychology
Chikondi chimatheka pokhapokha ngati anthu awiri amalankhulana kuchokera pansi pamtima, ndiye kuti, ngati aliyense wa iwo akumva pakati pa umunthu wake.
Erich kuchokera ku
Chikondi ndi lingaliro lotambasuka lomwe limachokera kumwamba kupita ku gehena, limabweretsa zabwino ndi zoyipa, zapamwamba komanso zopanda malire.
Carl Jung
Chikondi ndikumangirira chabe, osati kungokhala chabe; ndiko kupambana, osati kugonja ayi. Khalidwe lake logwira ntchito lingafotokozedwe mwachidule mu lingaliro lakuti chikondi chili pamwamba pa zonse kupatsa osalandira.
Erich kuchokera ku
Mawu okhudza chikondi mu nyimbo
Chikondi ndiye kukongola kopambana.
Joni mitchell
Chikondi ndi chiyani
funsani mphepo
akukwapula maliro ake pamiyala
ya njira yolowa dzuwa.
Vinicius Capossela
Chikondi ndi kachisi, lamulo lalikulu kwambiri.
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