ULAWULA NJANI IXESHA LAKHO?
Ngaba wenza izinto ezininzi, ulungele ukuzibophelela okwahlukileyo ngemini enye, kwaye ekugqibeleni kuhlala kukho into ongenako ukuyenza, ngokungathandabuzekiyo uzive unetyala kwaye ngathi akukho nto uyenzileyo?
Okokuqala, ngaba ikhe yathi qatha kuwe into yokuba wenza izinto ezininzi kakhulu kwaye unokwabela abanye izinto ezininzi okanye ungazenzi konke konke?
Ukufunda ukwabela abanye kubalulekile. Ndiyazi, abanye abazenzi izinto ngendlela ozenza ngayo wena, hlonipha indlela abazenza ngayo kwaye uyayixabisa iyantlukwano, ubathembe, mhlawumbi bangayenza ngcono kunawe kwaye ube nexesha lokwenza into ebaluleke ngakumbi!
Malunga nokungazenzi konke konke… zibuze ukuba ingaba ibalulekile na into yokuba wenze loo nto ngenkani ngalo mzuzu!
Ubomi bumele buphilwe hayi ukwenza izinto, kodwa baphile ngoku ngokuzolileyo.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokulawula ixesha lakho:
UCWANGCISO: ungalingani izibophelelo ezininzi kakhulu ngosuku olunye! Ngokuphathelene nezo njongo zincinci zingenakusonjululwa ngemini enye (kuba azinakuxhomekeka kuwe), zisasaze kuyo yonke inyanga ngokumisela enye ngeveki. Umzekelo. Iinjongo ezincinci ezi-4 kwinyanga enye. Endaweni yezibophelelo ezincinci ezicaphukisayo oqhele ukuzibekel 'amangomso umz. ukuhlawula amatyala, ukunxibelelana nomcwangcisi zimali, ukuthumela loo imeyile, ukujoyina indawo yokuzivocavoca njlnjl… ukhethe usuku oluthile lweveki oza kulunikezela kuye.
UKUQALA Ngokucacileyo eyona ingxamisekileyo !!!
ULUHLU OLUBONAKALAYO: phawula yonke into kuluhlu oya kuhlala ujonge kuyo, umzekelo eqhotyoshelwe eludongeni kufutshane nebhedi ...
UMTHETHO: ixesha ngoku! Yeka ukuhlehlisa, uya kufikelela kwinjongo inyathelo elinye ngexesha, kodwa ukuba awuqali kwinyathelo elinye, awuyi kuphumelela!
Khumbula ukuba ngexesha lokucwangciswa kwemihla ngemihla kufuneka ushiye igumbi elininzi leziganeko ezingalindelekanga (njengeeyure eziyi-3-4), kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke khumbula ukukrola ixesha lokuphumla kunye nokuphumla kancinci (eli nqaku lokugqibela kubalulekile !!!) .
Ukufunda ukulawula ixesha kunciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye kuphucula ukuzithemba kwakho!
Ngaba eli nqaku liluncedo kuwe?
Shiya iikhomenti kwaye uxele ukuba zeziphi iindlela ozisebenzisayo ukulungiselela ixesha lakho!
UGqirha Ilaria La Mura, ugqirha wengqondo
