Umntwana wam uchamela ebhedini: ndingayilungisa njani?

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Oko kwe ukumanzisa ibhedi yingxaki ekumele ukuba kungekudala bonke abazali bajongane nayo. Nokuba ithathwa ngokungakhathali, enye yezona zinto zokuqala ukuzenza sukuphakuzela: ukuphepha ukuziva unetyala nokwenza umntwana azive enetyala kuya kuyenza mandundu imeko. Funda iingcebiso zethu ukuze uzilungiselele kwaye uthintele iziqendu ekubeni zande rhoqo.

Ukuchama ebhedini: uthini ubalo

Ukusukela kwiminyaka emi-3 umntwana wayenokwenza i ukumanzisa ibhedi, ngakumbi ukuba ukwinqanaba lokususa i-diaper. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana wakho unokuqhubeka enayo iziqendu apho ufumanise khona ibhedi ukuya kuthi ga kwiminyaka eli-15. Kunqabile kwaye kwenzeka kuphela kwi-2% yabantwana. Esi sifo saziwa nangokuthi i-enuresis yasebusuku. Le nkxalabo engapheliyo ayincedi ngapha kwabazali nangabantwana, masibone ukuba kungenziwa ntoni.

Kutheni umntwana wam echama ebhedini?

Umntu wahlula phakathi i-enuresis ephambili, Kumntwana ongazange abe neziqendu ngaphambili, u-ed i-enuresis yesibini ichaphazela abantwana esele benazo iziqendu ze ukumanzisa ibhedi mandulo.

Zininzi izizathu ezinokubangela ubuthathaka busuku busuku.

Isibhengezo-

  • Esinye sezizathu zokuqala kukufunyanwa kwi abazali: ukuba bobabini bamanzise ukhuko xa bebancinci, oku kunokwenzeka ukuba kwenzeke nakubantwana babo.
  • La ukumanzisa ibhedi ayinayo imvelaphi yengqondo, njengoko kuhlala kucingwa njalo. Inokubangelwa kukuncipha kwemfihlo yasebusukui-hormone echaseneyo, oqhele ukuthintela ukuvelisa umchamo ebusuku.
  • Iinkqubo zeemvakalelo zabantwana zisenokungakhuli ngokwaneleyo ukuzilawula ukucinywa kwesinyi, ngakumbi ebusuku, kwimeko apho olona nyango luya kuba ngumonde!
  • Abanye abantwana abaxhalabileyo banayo uloyiko lokuvuka bodwa kwaye ebumnyameni kwaye usakhetha ukuchama ebhedini. Banokuphupha nokuya kwindlu yangasese (yenzeke kuthi sonke!).
  • Okokugqibela, abanye banengxaki ye- lala kakhulu ukungavuswa ngumnqweno wokuchama ... kwaye bayachama ebhedini.
ukondla umbhede: unobangela© istock

Ungajongana njani nengxaki yokumanzisa ibhedi: iingcebiso zethu

Ejongile ukoyiswa ebhedini, wonke umzali ujonge Isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sokusamkela. Ngaba ingozi mayibe yinto engenamsebenzi okanye, endaweni yoko, ngaba umntwana makohlwaywe? Okanye bekungangcono ukuba azive ebandakanyekile kwaye emva koko athathe inxaxheba ekucoceni amashiti? Abazali bahlukile kwaye ke basabela ngendlela efanayo!

Gcina nje oko engqondweni ukondla ebhedini akukho zingqondweni kwaphela ngumntwana. Akuyonyani ukuba ucoca umandlalo ngabom njengoko sisiva ngamanye amaxesha.

Ke nokuba kunzima, masikuphephe ukugxila kule ngxaki (okwethutyana). Wonke umntu kufuneka enze eyakhe indima ukwenza ukuba imeko ingenabuhlungu kangangoko. Ungacela umntwana ukuba abeke amashiti kunye neepijama ezineempahla ezimdaka ukuze zihlanjwe kwaye zilungele ubusuku obulandelayo.

Ukuchama ebhedini: nini ukukhathazeka?

Emva kweminyaka eyi-6 ayiqhelekanga ukuba umntwana abekho umanzise ibhedi kwaye kubalulekile ukuhlala uzolile kwaye unyamezele. Kwinqanaba lonyango, umntwana onezimbalwa kuphela akanaxhala Isiqendu sokukrakra ebhedini.

Kwimeko yomntwana ongakhange abile ebhedini ixesha elide okanye umntwana ovuza umchamo emini Ukudibana kwabantwana kuyafuneka Ukuchonga ingxaki enokubakho kwezonyango.

Ukusukela kwiminyaka eli-11 ukubheka phambili, unyango luyimfuneko kwaye Unyango ngengqondo ngamanye amaxesha zibaluleke kakhulu. Ke, njengoko bekhula, uninzi lwaba bantwana luyakuphepha ukuya kulala ngaphandle kwekhaya. Oku kunokuba yingxaki xa usiya kwinkampu yasehlotyeni.

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Ezona zisombululo zilungileyo ekukhuliseni ibhedi

Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu yile ukwazi ukubandakanya umntwana wakho ngaphandle kokumhlazisa. Mxelele ukuba akananto yakwenza naloo nto, kodwa makathathe inxaxheba kulawulo lokunkcenkceshela ebhedini ngaphandle kokwenza kubonakale ngathi kukohlwaya. Ukunceda umntwana wakho a Yoyisa ingxaki yokuhlanjwa ebhedini, Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezilula zokuphumeza

Ngokuhlwa

  • Emva kwexesha lokutya, mcele ukuba asele kancinci... kodwa ungamnqandi ngokupheleleyo ukusela, akunamsebenzi kwaye kuyingozi kwimpilo yakhe!
  • Kuphephe ukutya okungamanzi kakhulu (njengesuphu) kwisidlo sangokuhlwa.
  • Khumbuza umntwana wakho nge yiya kwindlu yangasese ngaphambi kokuba ulale kwaye ke ngokwenza isiko elisempilweni.

Ekuseni

  • Ngaba ukhuko lomile ekuseni? Xabisa umntwana wakho, Siyavuyisana naye. Khumbula indlela owawonwabe ngayo xa wayeqala ukuphuma esityeni kunye nendlela awayeqaqambe ngayo ngelo xesha… qhubekeka!
  • Kwimeko apho kukho "ingozi", ukubandakanya umntwana wakho ukumcela ukuba akuncede utshintshe amashiti kwaye wenze ibhedi ecocekileyo.
  • Yenza enye encinci kunye naye ikhalenda "yokumanzisa ebhedini": ubusuku bebomile, zoba ilanga kwibhokisi yemini ehambelana nayo, ubusuku bebumanzi, ilifu lemvula ... Olunjani uvuyo ukubona, njengoko iiveki neenyanga zihamba, ikhalenda igcwele imvula yelanga engaphantsi ! Oku kumvumela ukuba abone ukuba iinzame zakhe ziyahlawula kwaye kungekudala, ukumanziswa ebhedini ebusuku kuya kuba yinto yexesha elidlulileyo.

Kwaye ukwenza ubomi bakho bube lula, u-ed lindela ilahleko yasebusuku yenza oku:

  • Shiya isibane ukuba umntwana ufuna ukuvuka yedwa
  • Sebenzisa isikhuseli esingangeni manzi
  • Lungisa utshintsho lwepijama
  • Shiya itawuli ecaleni kwebhedi

 

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Nazi ezimbalwa ukuveza iluncedo ekumelaneni ukondla ibhedi ngokungxamisekileyo: amashiti okonga umatrasi kunye nokusebenza isixhobo esilawula ukufuma kwephepha. Kwithontsi lokuqala le-pee, umama ulumkisiwe ngewotshi ye-alamu / nge-alamu kwaye unokungenelela ngokusa umntwana kwindlu yangasese.

Imibuzo evamise ukoyiswa ebhedini

Ngaba kuya kufuneka ndivuse umntwana wam ukuze achame ebusuku?
Hayi, oku akunakunceda kwaye, ekuhambeni kwexesha, olu hlobo lomkhwa luphela luphazamisa ukulala komntwana.

Ndisa unyana wam kwagqirha ukulungisa ingxaki. Kuza kwenzeka ntoni?
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Zeziphi ezinye iindlela ezikhoyo zokuba ukhuko lwakho lungabi manzi?
Ugqirha wakho unokukunika amayeza athile ukulungisa ingxaki. Kukho ukukhuselwa: amanabukeni akhethekileyo "abantwana abakhulu". Okokugqibela, ii-alamu zokufuma ukufuma ziyafumaneka kwintengiso. Ezi zi-panties okanye ipleyiti yokuyibeka phantsi kwephepha kwaye ifakwe izixhobo zokufumana ukufuma ezixhumene nealam. Kwithontsi lokuqala lokunkcenkceshela ebhedini, ialam iyakhala, umntwana uyavuswa kwaye angaya kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Le ndlela inokusebenza ngokugqibeleleyo!

 

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