Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, ixesha ukudibana ufumene i-echo enkulu ngakumbi. Oku yi I-condizione apho i iimpawu zesondo musa ukuwela ngaphakathi ulwahlulo ngokwesiko "lomzimba oyindoda" kunye "nomzimba wabasetyhini". Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kwihlabathi, ukuba ukudibana ikhona i'1,7% yabemi behlabathi, Ipesenti ehambelana Izigidi ezingama-30 zabantu. Eli nani, ngokuqinisekileyo alikhathali, lenza ukuba kungxamiseke ngakumbi kunangaphambili inkqubo yokwazisa ngesihloko kwaye uvule indawo apho ukugunyazisa isini kwaye wabelane ulwazi oluchanekileyo malunga. Ngokuphathelene noku, masifumanise kunye yonke into esinokwazi ngayouqhelaniso!
Intsingiselo ye-intersex
Ukwabelana ngesondo ligama elichaza ubukho be Umahluko kwiimpawu zesondo inqanaba yemfuza, i-chromosomal, anatomical kunye ne-hormonal. Ngaphandle kokuntsonkotha komqondo, kule minyaka idlulileyo kuye kwenzeka ukucacisa intsingiselo yayo ngaphezulu kwako konke ukubonga kwizifundo nakuphando U-Anne Fausto-Sterling, Unjingalwazi webhayoloji kunye nezifundo zesini ze-ISNA (Uluntu lwaseMelika eseMantla). A Persona kuchaziwe uqhelaniso xa ibonakaliswa ngabanye indiva malunga nezo izinto zomzimba yamkelwe njenge "ngokwesondo", Yiyiphi ii-chromosomes, amalungu esini, iigonads (amasende kunye namaqanda), iimpawu zokumakisha, iihomoni, amalungu okuzala kunye nemiba ye isondo yesibini njengeendevu neenwele. Ukujongana nalo mbandela, iUMkomishinala oPhezulu weZizwe eziManyeneyo wamaLungelo oluNtu yatsho ukuba, ngokubanzi, Umzimba wabantu abathandanayo "awuhambelani nenkcazo yesiqhelo yemizimba yamadoda okanye yabasetyhini", ke, akunakwenzeka ukuba ulandele i-intersex kwimveli Ukwahlulahlula okubini "kobudoda" kunye "nobufazi".
Ukwabelana ngesondo Sele ingqinekile ukusuka ukuzala, xa kumiselwa ngu utshintsho olwenzekayo kwibhayiloji malunga icandelo lezesondo (umzekelo: Ukungangqinelani okucacileyo kumalungu esini), okanye ukusuka indawo yokushicilela, apho le meko ichaphazela Ukuziphatha kwehomoni lomntu ochaphazelekayo. Ngaphezu koko, zikhona Iifom ezingabonakaliyo ze-intersex, ezinje ngaleyo chromosomal, ukulungiselela ukwamkelwa okungxamisekileyo okumiselweyo iimviwo zonyango.
I-Intersex ayisiyonto yesini
Akukho nxu lumano phakathi kwe-intersex kunye nolwabelana ngesondo yomntu. Abantu abaziqondayo kule meko banokuba njalo abantu besini esahlukileyo, amafanasini, isitshabhiso, isexcourse, umfazi omnye, iziqhelo, Poly-uthando o umgcini ngaphandle kokulalana. Nangona kunjalo inokwenzeka loo nto intersex umntu amava ngaphezulu kweminyaka eliqela Intlungu e inkxamleko ngenxa, umzekelo, ukuya ukuhlolwa rhoqo kwezonyango, ukuthotywa nongenelelo ngokuthi unyango ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kokunyanzelwa kwaye oku kuchaphazela kakubi i umgangatho wobomi bakho bobulili. Kule meko, i'ukudibana banokuziva bebanjiwe phila ngokwesini sakho ngokukhululekileyo Imiswe ngothotho olude lwe iinkolelo e ikhethe ojolise kuye esemncinci.
Luphi ubudlelwane phakathi kwe-intersex kunye nesazisi sesini?
Njengokuziqhelanisa nokwabelana ngesondo, iubume ayinampembelelo kubuni besini. Ngale ndlela, i abantu abathandanayo, njengawo wonke umntu, banokuba njalo isini-isini kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuzazi ukuba babelana ngesondo ababelwe lona ekuzalweni, okanye transgender, Ukuqonda ubuni babo besini ngokuchasene nalowo bazalwa benabo. Kwakhona, intersex umntu unokuhlangabezana okanye, okubi kakhulu, ungqubane nokungahambi kakuhle ngexesha lokuhamba kwawo uphuhliso lwesazisi ngenxa ye- Ukwahlulahlula ngokwamacandelo ebekwe kuye ngu uluntu, of oogqirha nezithixo abazali abasokola ukukhulelwa yonke into engafumanekiyo ukwahlulahlula okubini phakathi kobudoda nobufazi.
Ukuba intersex akuthethi ukuba uyagula
Nangona ngamanye amaxesha Ukungalingani kwehomoni, kungxamisekile ukuyiphinda loo nto I-intersex ayisosifo kwaye le yingcinga efanele ingqalelo yethu epheleleyo. Ngenxa yokuba iingcamango eziphosakeleyo kunye nenye ulwazi oluncinci kule meko, akukho bantu bambalwa, kubandakanya oogqirha, abasakholelwa ukuba bajongene nenye ngezifo. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo. A I-intersex umntu ayinguye umntu ogulayo ukusukelaI-intersex ayilalanisi nangayiphi na indlela eyakhe imeko yezempilo. Ngokuchasene noko, umbono ogqwethekileyo wolu hlobo unokwenzakalisa kakhulu Impilo yengqondo yabantu ababandakanyekayo kunye nokubangela ii-moles abazali babantwana abathandanayo uthotho uloyiko olungenasiseko ezinokubangela izimo zengqondo ayilunganga kwaye ingcinezelo ngokubhekisele kule meko.
Ubunzima bokulalana
Zininzi ubunzima che ukwabelana ngesondo unyanzelekile ukuba ajongane nezifundo zakhe imfazwe, ngamanye amaxesha nangexesha lika ukuzala. Azikho iimeko ezinqabileyo apho, ufumanisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukungalingani kwamalungu esini,i oogqirha ngenisa i intersex abantwana a ungenelelo lotyando Endaweni yoko Ingenile kumzamo woku "balungise”Kwaye uphinde uwafake ngaphakathi kwesiko" lobudoda "-" ubufazi "ngesondo Ngaphandle koku, kunokwenzeka ukuba, bakube bekhulile, aba bantu basazigcina ezabo ukudibana, ibonakalisa Isimo sengqondo kunye neempawu zesini eqhelekileyo wesini esahlukileyo kwaye ke ngokwenza imisebenzi kunye Unyango olunzima lwehomoni zenziwa ngaphandle kwemvume. Oku Ukuqhubeka nokunyanga, Kunye ne ibala ukuba abantu abathandanayo bahlala yonke imihla kulusu lwabo, nakusapho, banako ziyenzakalisa kakhulu impilo yazo e ukuzinza kwengqondo, ukwenza imeko ibe luxanduva ngokungeyomfuneko, endaweni yoko, ekufuneka yamkelwe ngokuzithandela.
Ukwamkela isini: indlela eyimfuneko
L 'ukudibana kufuneka yamkelwe njenge Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yobukho bomntu kwaye njengobungqina bokungabi nazintloni, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ziqhenye. Nokuba incinci kangakanani na, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba lo myalezo uphinde uqinisekiswe kwaye wamkelwe ngumntu wonke ukusukela, nanamhlanje abantu abathandanayo bahlala bekhona amaxhoba olwaphulo-mthetho kunye nezimvo ezingafanelekanga ethintela i inkqubo yokwamkela. Nje ukuba uyiqaphele imeko yakho, kunyanzelekile vula uthethe ngayo nabantu obathembayo kwaye ungaziva ugwetywa. Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kunjalo, kunyanzelekile Cela uncedo, Ndibhekisa kwi oogqirha bengqondo iingcali okanye ngokubhalisela amaqela enkxaso ukuba wabelane neyakho nge ukungonwabi kwaye ufumane uvelwano olufunayo. Ukuba kunjalo ukudibana okanye wazi umntu okhoyo, soloko ukhumbula ukuba into ejongela phantsi impilo yomntu asikokulalana, kodwa ukuvalwa kwengqondo yabo bamngqongileyo.
Umthombo wenqaku Alfeminile
