Ubomi buyindida, uCarl Jung wasilumkisa. Inokusuka kweyona ntlungu inzulu iye kolona vuyo lukhulu, ngoko ke kufuneka sizilungiselele ukujongana nawona maxesha anzima, lawo anamandla okusitshabalalisa. Kwaye kufuneka sijongane nazo ngokuzolileyo kangangoko sinako ukuze zithintele ekulahlekiseni usukelo lwethu kwaye zisenze ukubetha ezantsi ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuze sihlakulele ukomelela okunamandla, kusenokufuneka siguqule ezinye zezimo zethu zengqondo nendlela yokucinga, size endaweni yazo sibe neengqiqo eziguquguqukayo.
Into oyikhanyelayo iyakuthoba, into oyamkelayo iyakuguqula
UJung wacinga loo nto “Abo bangafundanga nto kwizibakala ezingathandekiyo zobomi banyanzela ummandla wendalo ukuba uzivelise kwakhona kangangoko kuyimfuneko ukuze bafunde oko kufundiswa yidrama yoko kwenzekayo. Oko ukukhanyelayo kuyakoyisa; into oyamkelayo iyakutshintsha.”
Xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle, into yokuqala esiyenzayo kukukhanyela. Kulula ukungayihoyi intlekele kunokuba uzintywilisele kwiziphumo zayo. Kodwa uJung ukwalumkisile ukuba “Oko ukuxhathisayo, kuzingisa.” Wayikholelwa loo nto "Xa imeko yangaphakathi ingenziwa ukuba iqonde, ibonakala ngaphandle njengesiphelo".
Ukwamkela ubunyani, ukujonga okwenzekayo, ukuthatha uxanduva kunye nokuvuma impazamo kubalulekile ukuba awufuni ukuwela ukunyanzeliswa ukuphinda; oko kukuthi, ukukhubeka phezu kwelitye elinye kwakhona. Nokuba imeko inzima kangakanani na, sinokuyitshintsha kuphela xa sizazi ngokupheleleyo iimpembelelo zayo.
Kufuneka siyikhumbule loo nto “Kwanobomi obonwabisayo abunakubakho ngaphandle kobumnyama obuncinane. Igama elithi ulonwabo beliya kuphulukana nentsingiselo yalo ukuba belingalungelelaniswa lusizi. Kungcono ukuthatha izinto njengoko zisiza, ngomonde kunye nokulingana. " njengoko uJung ecetyisiwe.
Kuzo zonke iziphithiphithi kukho i-cosmos, kuyo yonke isiphithiphithi umyalelo oyimfihlo
Ubunzima ngokuqhelekileyo abuzi bodwa, ukungaqiniseki kunye nesiphithiphithi ngamaqabane abo. Ukuba asiyazi indlela yokujongana nazo, zihlala zibangela intlungu enkulu yangaphakathi. UJung waphawula oko "Kuninzi lwethu, kubandakanywa nam, isiphithiphithi siyoyikisa kwaye siyakhubaza."
Nangona kunjalo, naye wayecinga ukuba "Kuzo zonke iziphithiphithi kukho i-cosmos, kuyo yonke isiphithiphithi umyalelo oyimfihlo". Ithiyori yakhe yezengqondo yayintsonkothile kakhulu. UJung wayekholelwa ukuba ihlabathi lalilawulwa sisiphithiphithi esiqinisekileyo; ngamanye amazwi, kwaneendlela zokuziphatha ezibonakala zingalindelekanga kunye neziganeko zilandela iipateni, nokuba asikwazi ukuzibona ekuqaleni.
Kambe ke, akulula ukuyamkela into yokuba asiyi kusoloko sinegunya kwikamva lethu nokuba ingomso aliyi kuyilwa ngemibala efana nale yanamhlanje. Kodwa kufuneka samkele ukuba into engalindelekanga kunye nesiphithiphithi zizithako ezisisiseko sobukho ngokwabo. Ukuxhathisa ukungaqiniseki kuya kwandisa kuphela uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo.
“Xa kuvela imeko yobomi bobundlobongela esalayo ukuhambelana neentsingiselo zesithethe esizabela yona, umzuzwana wokuwohloka kwenzeka […] Kuphela xa zonke izixhaso kunye neentonga zophukile kwaye akukho nkxaso isinika ithemba elincinane lokuba ukhuseleko, sinokufumana i-archetype eyathi yahlala ifihliwe emva kombonisi", UJung wabhala.
Enyanisweni, ukuba sikhangela emva ukuze sibone imiqobo esiye sayoyisa, sinokukuhlalutya okwenzeka ngamehlo ahlukeneyo size sifumane intsingiselo okanye sinikele intsingiselo koko kwakha kwabonakala kungumbhodamo nokungalungelelani.
Izinto zixhomekeke ngakumbi kwindlela esizijonga ngayo kunakwindlela ezizizo ngayo
Phakathi kweeleta ezininzi uJung azibhalayo, enye inomdla ngakumbi njengoko iphendula isigulana esimbuza indlela "yokuwela umlambo wobomi." Ugqirha wengqondo waphendula ngelithi akukho ndlela ichanekileyo yokuphila, kodwa kufuneka sijongane neemeko esiziswe likamva ngeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo. “Isihlangu esibambeneyo siminyene; akukho recipe yobomi ehambelana nazo zonke iimeko " ubhale.
Nangona kunjalo, iphinde yachaza ukuba "Izinto zixhomekeke kwindlela esizibona ngayo hayi kakhulu kwindlela ezizizo ngayo". UJung ugxininise inqanaba ledrama ethi umbono wethu wongeza kwiinyani kwaye ophela unyusa kakhulu unxunguphalo kunye nokungonwabi abakuvelisayo.
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, xa sihamba emanzini obomi, kufuneka sizame ukuba singazivumeli ukuba sithwalwe yi-inertia yokukhathazeka kunye nentlekele, kuba oku kwandisa umngcipheko wokuba silahlekelwe ukulawula iimvakalelo zethu. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka sizibuze ukuba ngaba kukho indlela enenjongo ngakumbi, esengqiqweni okanye eyakhayo yokubona nokujongana noko kwenzekayo kuthi.
Ukufumana kwakhona ukuzithemba kufuneka songeze ukukhanya kwizithunzi zethu, njengoko uJung ebenokuthi, ke kufuneka siyeke ukubona iingxaki ngeliso loloyiko lwethu kunye nokungazithembi ukuze siqale ukuphuhlisa umbono onenjongo kunye nolungeleleneyo.
Andiyiyo le nto yenzekayo kum, ndiyilento ndikhetha ukuba yiyo
Xa sivaleleke ebugxwayibeni, kulula ukuhamba nohambo. Xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle, kuba nzima ukuba nethemba. Kwaye xa ihlabathi lisingise kwicala elinye, kuba nzima ukuya kwelinye icala. Kodwa uJung wasilumkisa ukuba singathabatheki, kodwa sihlale sikhumbula umntu esifuna ukuba nguye. Wabhala ngale nto "Ilungelo lobomi bonke kukuba ube ngumntu onguye ngokwenene."
Ukuhlala uzolile ngeentsuku zokungazinzi kunye noxinzelelo olungapheliyo, kungcono ukujonga ngaphakathi kwaye ungagxili kakhulu kwingxolo esingqongileyo. Iinyaniso, indlela kunye namandla ethu ahlala ngaphakathi kwethu. Ukukhangela ngaphandle iimpendulo kunokuba nesiphumo sokungazinzi.
Njengoko uJung wabhala kwenye yeencwadi zakhe, "Ukuba ufuna ukulandela indlela yakho, khumbula ukuba ayimiselwanga kwaye ivele ivele yodwa xa ubeka unyawo phambi kolunye." Zizigqibo zethu xa sijongana neemeko ezidala indlela.
Sinokusebenzisa elo xesha lobumnyama ukufumanisa ukuba singoobani kwaye sifuna ukufezekisa ntoni. Sinokusebenzisa ubunzima njengesiseko sokuzomeleza. Ekugqibeleni, siyinto esiyenzayo yonke imihla, kungekhona into esasiyiyo ngaphambili. Ngoko, ekugqibeleni, sinokuthi: "Andiyiyo into eyenzekayo kum, ndiyilento ndikhetha ukuba yiyo", njengoko watshoyo uJung.
Umnyango Iingcebiso zikaCarl Jung zokuhlala udada emanzini obomi yaqala ukupapashwa ngo Ikhonkco lePsychology.
