Bahlobo abathandekayo, singahamba ngendlela enithanda ngayo kodwa yile ndlelaì: hayingekhe wenze ntoà Ngokuy anokuyaù ngokukhawuleza kunokukwenza.
Masijongane nayo: zingaphi volte tNdicelile ukwenza into kwaye uphendule ngokulula: "UCerto!". Ngaphandle kokucinga kwakhonaù ukusuka kuninzi ukuya kwiziphumo zokuba "kunene" iqhutywa nge sè? Emva koko Kwiintsuku ezintathu kamva, uzifumanise usonganyelwa luluhlu lwezinto oza kuzenza Izinto ekufuneka uzenzile kwaye uqalekise okomzuzwana xa uthethile "kunjalo!".
Ke sifuna ukuthetha ngemvelisoà? Ngaba sifuna ukuyenza nzulu? Qalisa ukuzibuza ukuba izinto kuneke u do ziyimfuneko, kubaé uninzi lwazo alunjalo, kwaye u "hayi" olula unakhoò ngaphezuluù Ukuvelisa nawuphi na umsebenzi nokuba awona mntu ungawenzaù ngokufanelekileyo.
Umntu othile unokuphikisa: ukuba izibonelelo zokuthetha "hayi" Ndinjaloì icacile, kuthenié masitsho njaloì rhoqo ze "si"?
Kulungile, masiqale apha ..
1. Kutheni sisithi "Ewe"?
Samkela uninzi lwezicelo kakhulu ibalaé siyakhathala bazenze, kodwa ngobaé asifuni kubonwa njengabantu abakrwada, abanekratshi okanye abangenamsebenzi. Rhoqo kufuneka uthi hayi kumntu ohamba naye uya kuba nayo ukwenza kwakhona kwixesha elizayo: umntu osebenza naye, iqabane lakho, usapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo bakho.
Ukuthi hayi kwaba bantu banakoò kunzima kakhulu kubaé uyathanda, uyabathanda kwaye ungathanda ukubaxhasa.
Nangona kunjalo ukwenza ukuzibophelela okungakhange kwenziwe kakuhle okanye kungenziwanga kakuhle, hayi è oko kuphucula ubudlelwane ekuthethwa ngabo, kwaye hayi nobomi bethu.
Kodwa masithathe inyathelo elingaphezuluù ngaphakathi kombuzo eaMasenze nzulu Intsingiselo ka-ewe no-hayi.
2. Umahluko phakathi kuka "Ewe" no "Hayi"
Amagama athi “sì"E "hayi", kwindlela esithetha ngayo, ziyatshintsha rhoqo. Oku kuyenza ingathire ezinobunzima obulinganayo, yam in yinyanià Zahlukile kungekuphela ngentsingiselo, kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke'iqumrhuà dell'ukuzibophelela oko è icelwe ngokufanelekileyo.
"Hayi" sisigqibo. "Ewe" luxanduva.
Ngokucacileyo kufuneka uthathe uxanduva lwakhoà, kodwa xa zininzi uphela ungazihoyi zonke.
Pensaci. OKANYEngalo lonke ixesha usithi eweì kwisicelo X, hlala nditsho nokuba hayi kwenye into unakho fumana kunye il ixesha, endaweni yoko uya kuyinikela ku-X.
Nantsi: ukuthi hayi namhlanje, konga ixesha lawulo. Yithi eweì Ngoku, kuxabisa ixesha kwixa elizayo.
Hayi è uhlobo lwekhredithi yexeshana. Sì ngu uhlobo lwetyala lethutyana. I-Perché a inqaku elithile Baza kunkqonkqoza emnyango kwaye kuya kufuneka buyisa ukuzibophelela kwakho.
3. Ubudlelwane phakathi kokuthi "Hayi" kunye namandla
Xa ku-instagram ndithetha malunga'Ukubaluleka kokungavumi kwi "Mazzutime" yam yemihla ngemihla, enyanisweni, uninzi luyandibhalela "MAndikwazi ukuthi hayi kwabanye abantu!". NGU kancinci ngokungathihayi hayi kunjalo ibonwa njengobunewunewu kuphela ukuba ngubani è ngamandla unakoò ukuhlawula. Umhleli è ngokuyinxenye yinyani: ukwala a'ithubaNguwe più kulula xa unakoò Sebenzisa amandla, imali kunye negunyaà. Kodwa è kuyinyani ukuba ungathi hayi hayi è lilungelo elibekelwe abo baphumeleleyo. È kananjalo neqhinga elinokuthiò kukunceda uphumelele.
Ukuthi hayi kukunceda ugcine eyona asethi ibalulekileyo ebomini: ixesha lakho.
Kwaye ke dkwaye uthi hayi kuloo ntoò che ezingezizo kukukhokelela kwiinjongo zakho, kuya kufuneka uthi hayi kwiziphazamiso. USteve Jobs lento isikhumbuze kakuhle xa esitsho ukugxila ayithethi yithi eweì into ekufuneka ujolise kuyo, kodwa yithi hayi kwezinye izimvo ezili-100 ezilungileyo ezikungqongileyo kwaye zikuphazamise ukuba awuzikhuphi.
Ukusuka kule ndawo yokujonga, dI-ire no ayithethi ukuba awusoze wenze nantoni na enomdla, enika izinto ezintsha okanye ezenzekelayo, yam uthini nge sì ngendlela ekujoliswe kuyo, njenge sniper.
4. Ukuphucula u "Hayi" wakho
Ngexesha, Ngapha koko, xa "impumelelo" ufikelela kuqala kumbandela, Kuya kufuneka uhlaziye indlela yakho yokuthi HAYI, kubaé iIxabiso lexesha lakho liyanda kwaye ngoko Kuya kufuneka uyisasaze ngobuchule, ukuze uyenze ibe ninzi.
Yiball'qalisa ngokwaneleyova ukuphelisa iziphazamiso ezibonakalayo kunye nesaphulelo, ngoku giant nyusa'intonga kwaye emva koko uphakamise ngokuqhubekayo umqobo wokuba ukwazi ukuthi eweì.
Nantsi into giant emva koko funda ukungavumi Beisammensein ithubaà kunangaphambili ugwebe wena Kulungile, ngobaé così uzokwazi yenza indawo Ukugxila kuphela kwiiprojekthi ze-TOP, uninziù ibalulekile.
Ukucaca, namhlanje ndithi "Ewe" kuphela kwizinto ekuthi xa zichazwa kum zibe yinxalenye yemvelo “UCAspita sì!!". Kwaye ukuba ayindiguqululi, ndithi hayi, ngaphandle kokuzisola kakhulu.
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