Ayinamsebenzi ukuba uneentloni okanye ngokukhethekileyo uphuma: chitha ubusuku okokuqala kunye neqabane elitsha isoloko ingumthombo we igioia kwaye, ngaxeshanye, intwana encinci ye ixhala e uvalo. Ukuba nobudlelwane nomntu ixesha elibalulekileyo nokuba injani imeko. Ngapha koko, nokuba uyayikhangela ibali lokwenyani lothando kwaye kufanelekile ukuba uyayifuna ubusuku benkanuko enyulu, Umntu kufuneka akhumbule ezinye iingcebiso ukuze olo rhatya luhambe ngeyona ndlela intle.
Lungiselela kakuhle
Ukususwa kweenwele ngokugqibeleleyo
Ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo ngemeko yokuxhonywa ukuba umfazi agwetywe. Nangona kunjalo, kubusuku bokuqala benkanuko kunye neqabane lakho kuhlala kungcono ukuba unike ingqalelo kuzo zonke iinkcukacha kwaye oku kubandakanya nokususwa kweenwele ngokugqibeleleyo, ukusuka ekhwapheni ukuya emilenzeni, ukuqaqamba - kunjalo-kubandakanya.
Ingxowa yezithambiso ilungile ukuba uya endlwini yakhe
Ukuba ukhe wayokulala endlwini yakhe, soloko uphatha into encinci "engxamisekileyo" kunye nawe: izinto zokuzisusa ezosula ukunqanda "amehlo epanda" xa uvuka kunye nebrashi yamazinyo kusasa. Ungalibali isampula yamafutha aqholiweyo, izesuli ezinamaphiko amdaka kunye neetamponi okanye i-napkin yococeko. Awunokwazi!
Ukulindela intshukumo engathandekiyo
Khawufane ucinge ukuba ngokuhlwa kuhamba kakubi kwaye ufuna ukugoduka xa indlela engaphantsi komhlaba sele idlulile ... ii-euro ezimbalwa kunye nenombolo yeeteksi ziyimfuneko, ukuze ube sekhaya ngokukhawuleza nangokukhuselekileyo.
Iimpahla zangaphantsi eziqinisekisa
Akukho sidingo sokuvelisa umtya odibeneyo kunye nomnyama kunye nobomvu wentambo eboshiweyo. Into enesidima kunye ne-chic iya kwanela! Ngokucacileyo siyazilibala iimpahla zangaphantsi ezingathandekiyo, mhlawumbi ezomileyo ezibonakala ngokucacileyo. Isisombululo silele ngendlela ephakathi.
Hlala ukhumbula ukuba ...
Ungathi hayi!
Uwubekile umnqweno wakhe ngokungenazintloni nangokungazami, kodwa ngoku, xa ilixesha lokwenza, awuqinisekanga ukuba uyafuna? Musa ukuzinyanzela. Unelungelo noxanduva lokuhamba. Alikaze lihambe ixesha.
Unoxinzelelo kanye njengam
Okanye nangaphezulu. Sihlala silibale ukuba sibabini kubudlelwane kwaye ngempazamo sicinga ukuba siza kugwetywa, kanti kwelinye icala siziva sisoyika ngokufanayo. Ingakumbi kuba kusekho uxinzelelo oluninzi emadodeni ukwenza ubudlelwane obonelisayo kwiqabane.
Ixesha lokuqala lihlala lihlazo
Ke masingayigqithisi xa ingekho kwangoko chemistry. Ukudibana okufanelekileyo komzimba omnye komnye kufuna uhlengahlengiso oluthile. Konke oku akuthethi kuthi silindelwe likamva. Kuhlala kukho ixesha lokuqala kuyo yonke into.
Nathi sinako ukubuyela emva!
Masizame ukunyaniseka kwiziqu zethu. Kufuneka sithathe uxanduva ngoko sikwenzayo noko sikufunayo. Ke ibali elikhulu lothando alisoloko lilandela emva kobusuku bomlilo.
Ukuba akaphindi abuye ngosuku olulandelayo, sukuzenza ixhoba: bekukho abantu abadala ababini abavumayo kubusuku obudlulileyo kwaye ikwangowasetyhini onokuthi enze inyathelo lokuqala, ambize kwakhona. Kukuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba kufanelekile okanye hayi.
Ubumnandi lilungelo
Nokuba ibubusuku nje obunye bothando, ngokuqinisekileyo akufuneki uzive "ungcolile" okanye unetyala ngosuku olulandelayo. Ukonwaba nokuba nokonwaba okungasokolisiyo asilolwaphulo-mthetho kwaye ukuba ikonwabisile akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngayo!
Izinto zokwenza
Ukukhusela ukhuseleko
Emva kwamehlo akhe, umntu osengozini ofuna ukuqinisekiswa. Mncome ngomzimba wakhe, umbonise eyakhe ukuphulula ziyathandeka, zinevumba lesiqholo sakhe ngovuyo kwaye zibe nobubele, zithethe kamnandi kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Veza umnqweno wakho
Ufuna? Akanakuthelekelela. Ukuba uziva ngathi lo mnqweno uyavumelana, mxelele kwaye umenze ayiqonde ngenkangeleko nangezimbo zomzimba ezimbalwa.
Yandisa umnqweno wakhe
Kwiiyure nje ezimbalwa ngaphambi kwedinga, mthumelele imiyalezo eyandisa umnqweno wakhe wokukubona. Xa nikunye, udlala ngezimbo zomzimba, uthinta kunye nabancinci ukwanga, Ukuqhela nje ukunxibelelana nenye nenye.
Ulibale malunga nezakhiwo zakho
Yeka ukugxila kwinto ocinga ukuba ziziphene zakho. Amadoda ngamxhelo mnye: ngobushushu bomzuzwana, abayikhathaleli. Kwelinye icala, bayazisola kuba ezi nkcukacha zisithintele. Umfazi oziva kamnandi ngaye uya kukhululeka ngakumbi ebhedini… Kwaye konke kusezintlokweni zethu. Funda ukuzithanda kancinci kwaye abanye baya kukulandela.
Soloko unengqiqo
Thetha ngokhuseleko-oko kukuthi ukubola -ngaphandle kweetabo, kubandakanya nayo kwintlanganiso yakho yothando. Qamba ulwimi lwakho olunekhowudi ukuba igama liyakukhathaza: nantoni na ukuze, nangona kunjalo, ukubaluleka kwayo kuthathelwe ingqalelo ngaphandle kokuqhutywa ngumnqweno. Ukuba abanye bacinga ukuba ukuma kwakhe kwaphula isingqisho, emva koko bajika lo mzuzu ube kukwandiswa komdlalo ongaphambili. Yimeko yokuphumelela.
Yintoni ongayenzanga ngobusuku bokuqala
Thetha nge ex yakho
Ngubani onokunyamezela ukuthelekiswa nomnye? Nokuba nguwe okanye yena. Mgcinele intetho malunga neyakho Iqabane langaphambili okanye ikwenzakalise kangakanani. Ukungabikho kwengqiqo kuphakamisa ukuba uya kuba ngathi uncokola ngaye xa sele uhambe okanye ukuba usacinga ngomnye.
Buza imibuzo emininzi
Izimvo azinandawo kumzuzu osondeleyo. Masilibale ngabantu abadumileyo "Ucinga ntoni?"Okwangoku. Kuba ngesiqhelo awucingi ngayo nantoni na. Indoda iyawonwabela umzuzu kwaye ayifuni ukukhupha yonke imiqondiso kunye nokuncwina. Ke, yenza okufanayo: nyibilika ezingalweni zakhe kwaye uncwina ngovuyo.
Sela ukuze ungathintelwa ngakumbi
Impazamo enkulu… Ukunika indawo eninzi kwindawo ekuthiwa “bubukhalipha bengamanzi” kungakhokelela ekubeni ungalawuleki kwaye ungabukhumbuli nobusuku benkanuko. Ngapha koko, ayikaze ilunge into yokuba ungabi salawula kwizenzo zakho, ngakumbi ukuba ukwinkampani yomntu ongamaziyo ixesha elide.
Yiba negunya
"Akunjalo! Akunjalo!“Nabani na angabaleka iqabane elinje elifuna yonke into igqibelele nkqu nayo yonke into eyabelana ngesondo. Ubumnandi obuncinci kwihlabathi labangcungcuthekisi abuzange benzakalise mntu ...
Yamkela yonke into
Njengokuba kungacetyiswayo ukuba negunya kubusuku bokuqala kunye neqabane elitsha, ngendlela efanayo akufuneki samkele yonke into ayifunayo kuthi. Ukuba iqabane lakho lingathanda ukwenza into ongakhululekanga ngayo, lixelele kwaye ungazinyanzeli.
Imithetho yegolide
Uziva umhle kwaye uyalahlekisa
Akufuneki sibhenele kumzamo: sinxiba ilokhwe eyasomeleza apho siziva sihle kwaye sikhohlisa. Ukunandipha isiqu sakho linyathelo lokuqala lokubonakala likhazimla nakwabanye.
Gcina imfihlakalo iphila
Akukho sidingo sokudlula kuluhlu lwazo zonke izinto oziphumezileyo, umxelele ngeengxaki zosapho lwakho, kwaye umxelele izinto ezikukhathazayo emsebenzini. Ukwazi indlela yokwenza ukuba ungafikeleleki kancinci, nokuba ngaba uyasondela emzimbeni. Yiyo le mpikiswano ibandayo iya kugxininisa kulwalamano lwakho olusakhasayo kwaye yenze iqabane lakho lifune ukwazi ngakumbi malunga nawe.
Ubuthathaka buba namandla
Indoda iyathanda ukubizwa ukuba ikhusele omnye umntu: ungathandabuzi ukumtyhilela obunye bobuthathaka obukhethwe kakuhle njengeentloni, ukuthozama kunye namagophe akho.
Musa ukugweba ngokukhawuleza
Wothukile, ubambekile, wakhetha indawo yokutyela engeyiyo… Ukoyikeka ngakumbi kunawe. Ukuba akagwebi okanye enziwe azive engekho endaweni, uya kukhawuleza azive ekhululekile.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba iphele bonke obo busuku
Ixesha lakho lokuqala linokuba sisiqalo sebali lothando kunye nesibini. Ngokunjalo, inokubandakanya kuphela inqwelomoya yesondo ngaphandle kokujonga iziphumo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ucace kwaye uthembeke kwisiqu sakho kunye nakwabanye, kunye nokuziva ukhululekile entlokweni yakho, ngaphandle kwetyala. Wonke umntu kufuneka athathe uxanduva lwakhe ngokweemeko.
Kuyafana nasekhaya lakho ...
Soloko uneekhondom
Kanye njengoko kufuneka umcele ukuba unayo ikhondom ukuba uya endlwini yakhe, kuya kufuneka uphinde ube nesipele xa kukho imfuneko. Iikhondom zisahleli, unanamhla, ekuphela kwendlela yokuzikhusela kwizifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini kwaye akukho sizathu sokungazisebenzisi. Ke ukuba khange ayicinge, uyenzile.
Izinto zokulala ezicocekileyo
Okuncinci esinokukwenza kukucwangcisa amaphepha anuka kamnandi, angenabala. Ezinye izinto ukuseta imood aziyi kwenzakalisa, njengokukhanya okuthambileyo okanye amakhandlela ambalwa kwaye, ukuba uyawuthanda, umculo othile ongasemva.
Beka ngokulandelelana
Ukuba iqabane lakho elitsha liza endlwini yakho, ayisiyombhede kuphela efuna ukubonakala ingenasiphako. Kukuziqhelisa okuhle ukubeka iimpahla ezixhonywe emnyango, ukuthoba imigqomo yenkunkuma nokulungisa igumbi lokuhlambela.
