"Nkhope yodzipha" nthawi zonse simafanana ndi nkhope yowawa yomwe misozi imagwetsa. Munthu angawonekere wokondwa kunja, amatha kukhala ndi moyo wowoneka ngati wabwinobwino komanso wokhutiritsa, kwinaku akubisa chisoni chonse ndi kupanda pake mkati mwake atanyamula zolemetsa. kukhumudwa komwetuli.
Padziko lonse, kudzipha kwasanduka vuto, makamaka kwa achichepere. Pafupifupi anthu 800.000 amadzipha chaka chilichonse padziko lonse lapansi. Pa imfa zonsezi, pali zoyesera 20 kudzipha Zambiri.
Ngakhale zili zonse, kudzipha kukupitilizabe kukhala mliri wosawoneka komanso wopewedwa, womwe nthawi zambiri umabisika kumbuyo kwa mawonekedwe achilendo komanso kumwetulira. Pachifukwa ichi, bungwe kupewa kudzipha Kampeni Yolimbana ndi Kukhala Momvetsa Chisoni (CALM) wapanga chiwonetsero ku Southbank ku London chotchedwa "Chithunzi Chomaliza". M'malo owonetsera osangalatsa, onetsani zithunzi zomwetulira zojambulidwa m'masiku angapo apitawa a anthu omwe adzipha.
Kudzipha kuli ndi nkhope zambiri
Giancarlo Gaglione anamwalira mchimwene wake Lanfranco ali ndi zaka 26 zokha. Lanfranco anali ndi ubale wooneka ngati wosangalala, ntchito yabwino ndipo anali atangomaliza triathlon ku London pamene adadzipha.
Moyo wooneka ngati wangwiro ndi wachimwemwe umenewo “Zinali zosemphana ndi maganizo onse amene muli nawo onena za munthu amene mukuganiza kuti angadziphe. Anabisa mmene akumvera moti palibe amene ankakayikira kuti akumva ululu” Akutero mbale.
Mbiri yake imadzibwereza yokha. Achibale ambiri ndi mabwenzi amadabwa ndi kudzipha kwa munthu wapamtima ndi wokondedwa, munthu amene mwina masiku angapo m'mbuyomo anali kugawana naye mphindi zosangalatsa.
Ndizovuta kwambiri kuzindikira zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti chinachake chalakwika. Kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi YouGov mogwirizana ndi CALM akuwulula izi 24% yokha ya anthu amakhulupirira kuti omwe ali ndi malingaliro ofuna kudzipha akhoza kumwetulira ndi nthabwala. 78% akuganiza kuti anthu ofuna kudzipha sangagawane zithunzi zosangalatsa pamasamba ochezera.
Koma zoona zake n’zosiyana. Nthawi zambiri kumwetulira kumakhala chigoba chobisa zolimbana ndi chipwirikiti chamkati musanadziphe. Zoona zake n'zakuti, khalidwe lofuna kudzipha likhoza kuchitika m'njira zosiyanasiyana ndipo nthawi zonse siligwirizana ndi mmene munthu akuvutika maganizo.
Nkhani ya Paul Nelson, amene anadzipha ali ndi zaka 39, ikutsatira chitsanzo ichi. "Paulo anali chifaniziro changwiro cha munthu yemwe simunaganizepo kuti angadziphe yekha: anali ndi banja losangalala, anali ndi mwana wamkazi wokongola, nyumba yabwino, bizinesi yopambana, nyumba ya tchuthi, chitetezo chachuma"akutero mkazi wake. Chithunzicho chinatengedwa masabata angapo Paulo asanadziphe.
Tsoka ilo, malingaliro, nthano komanso kusalana komwe kulipobe pa nkhani ya kudzipha kumalepheretsa ambiri mwa anthuwa kufunafuna chithandizo ndi kulandira chithandizo chomwe akufunikira. Munthu mmodzi mwa atatu mwa anthu amene anafunsidwa anavomereza kuti sankamasuka kufunsa ngati wina akuganiza zodzipha. Oposa theka amavomereza kuti sadziwa mmene angathandizire munthu amene ali ndi maganizo ofuna kudzipha.
Chiwonetsero cha Last Photo ndi gawo la kampeni yatsopano yadziko lonse ku UK yomwe ikufuna kuthetsa malingaliro okhudza kudzipha kuti alimbikitse anthu kuti azilankhula momasuka.
Banja la Sophie linati: "Kudzipha kwake kunali kodabwitsa kwa tonsefe, palibe amene adamuwona akubwera. Sophie akanatiuza mmene akumvera, tikanayesetsa kumuthandiza, koma sanatipatse mwayi umenewu.
M'malo mwake, "M'moyo wake wonse, Sophie wakhala womasuka, wokondwa komanso wochezeka kwambiri. Zinali zosangalatsa kwambiri ndipo nthawi zonse zimakupangitsani kumwetulira. Iye ankakonda kukhala panja. Masiku anayi asanamwalire, adakwera njinga yamapiri asanapite kuphwando la Khrisimasi ”.
N’zoona kuti nthawi zina liwu lenilenilo lakuti kudzipha limatichititsa kuti tisamale komanso kuti nthawi zina sitidziwa zoyenera kuchita, koma chofunika kwambiri n’kumvetsa kuti aliyense akhoza kukhala ndi maganizo ofuna kudzipha, ngakhale amene amaoneka osangalala.
Panali anthu odzipha 2020 ku Spain mu 3.941, chiwerengero chokwera kwambiri kuyambira pomwe deta idayamba kupangidwa mu 1906. Izi zikutanthauza kuti chimodzimodzi Anthu 11 amadzipha tsiku lililonse, ndendende munthu mmodzi amadzipha maola awiri ndi mphindi 15 zilizonse. Ngakhale chodetsa nkhawa kwambiri ndichakuti kuchuluka kwa kudzipha kwachulukirachulukira pakati pa ana ndi achinyamata azaka zapakati pa 10 ndi 14, omwe malingaliro awo adayesedwa kwambiri panthawi ya mliri.
Ndikofunikira kuswa chophimba cha chete chozungulira nkhaniyi kuti tithandizire ndikuthandizira anthu omwe akuganiza zodzipha. Ngati tili ndi maganizo olakwika okhudza mmene munthu amene ali ndi maganizo ofuna kudzipha ayenera kuonekera kapena khalidwe lake, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kumuona akubwera n’kumachita zinazake kuti apulumutse moyo wake. Chiwonetserochi ndi chikumbutso chofunikira cha vuto lomwe liripo ndipo silidzatha chifukwa anthu akuwoneka mosiyana.
Chithunzi: CALM
Pakhomo Chithunzi Chomaliza: Chiwonetsero chomwe chimawulula momwe anthu omwe adadzipha adabisalira ululu wawo ndikumwetulira idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.
