Pomwe ndimaphunzira maphunziro anzeru, afilosofi ena adasankhidwa kukhala "oganiza bwino". Ena satero. Woyamba sanalandire chidwi. Chachiwiri, chatsatanetsatane. Ndipo zidandichotsera alamu. Chifukwa ngati simuli oganiza zaulere, simukuganiza.
Ngati lingalirolo lamangidwa pamalamulo ndipo liyenera kutsatira zolemba, zimakhala zosasunthika. Ndipo ndipamene timasiya kuganiza. Ndi zomwezo.
Kuleka kuganiza ndikowopsa. Timakhala otengeka mosavuta. Tili pachiwopsezo chokhala ndi maudindo apamwamba omwe wina angawasamalire mwakhama kuti awagwirire. Chifukwa chake timakhala makina osungira ena.
Vuto labodza: titha kulumikizana ngakhale titaganiza mosiyana
Coronavirus yasintha dziko kukhala lalikulu kwambiri reality show ankasewera ndi zotengeka. Mphamvu ndi chidwi zimawala chifukwa chakusapezeka kwathu pomwe tikukokedwa kulowachidziwitso (kupitirira zambiri). Tikamatsutsana kwambiri ndi zomwe ubongo wathu umalandira, zimakhala zovuta kuti tikonze, kuganiza ndikugwa mchisokonezo. Umu ndi momwe mphamvu zathu zoganizira zimachepetsedwera. Umu ndi momwe mantha amapambanitsira masewerawa.
Munthawi izi, takambirana zakufunika kwachisoni ndi kuthekera kodziyesa tokha m'malo mwa ena, kuvomereza kufooka kwathu ndikukhala osakhazikika. Tidakambirana zodzipereka komanso ungwazi, Wodzipereka komanso wolimba mtima. Maluso onse otamandika ndi mikhalidwe, mosakayikira, koma zomwe sizinakambidwepo ndi kuganiza mozama.
Pogwiritsa ntchito mawu otchulira mitundu yonse, uthenga wosatsutsika wawonekera bwino kotero kuti umakhala wowonekera: ndi nthawi yothandizira, osati kutsutsa. "Kuganiza" kwazunguliridwa moyenera ndikunyozedwa kotero kuti palibe kukayika kuti sikofunika, kupatula pang'ono pang'ono kuti ndi yopanda vuto lililonse, motero, yopanda ntchito.
Chikhulupiriro ichi chabweretsa vuto labodza chifukwa kuthandiza sikutsutsana ndi kuganiza. Zinthu ziwirizi sizogwirizana, koma. Titha kulumikizana, ngakhale titakhala kuti sitiganiza chimodzimodzi. Ndipo mgwirizano wamtunduwu umakhala wolimba kwambiri chifukwa umachokera kwa anthu olimba mtima omwe amaganiza ndikusankha momasuka.
Zachidziwikire, dongosolo ili limafunikira kuyesayesa kwamphamvu kwamaluso. Zimatanthauza kuti titsegule tokha m'malo osiyana ndi athu, tilingalira limodzi, timapeza mfundo zofanana, tonse timapereka kukwaniritsa cholinga chimodzi.
Chifukwa ife sitiri pankhondo yomwe kumvera kwakamaso kumafunikira kwa asirikali. Nkhani yankhondo imasiya kuganiza mozama. Amatsutsa aliyense amene sagwirizana nazo. Amagonjera chifukwa cha mantha.
Mdani uyu, m'malo mwake, wagonjetsedwa ndi luntha. Ndikutha kuyang'ana zamtsogolo ndikuyembekezera zochitika, kupanga mapulani ogwira ntchito kutengera masomphenya apadziko lonse lapansi. Ndi kusinthasintha kwamaganizidwe koyenera kuti musinthe momwe zinthu zilili. Kukhazika pansi pamaganizidwe ovuta ndichinthu choyipa kwambiri chomwe tingachite.
Kuganiza kungatipulumutse
"Kupanga ndikukhazikitsa katemera wachikhalidwe wofunikira kupewa ngozi, ngakhale kulemekeza ufulu wa iwo amene akufunikira katemerayu, idzakhala ntchito yofunika mwachangu komanso yovuta kwambiri," analemba biologist Jared Diamond. "Kukulitsa gawo laumoyo wa anthu kuphatikiza zikhalidwe zikhala vuto lalikulu m'zaka zana zikubwerazi."
"Katemera wachikhalidwe" awa amasiya kuonera makanema apa TV akusintha mpaka kukhala chidziwitso chotsutsana ndi kuzunzidwa. Amasanthula kufunafuna mfundo yofanana pakati pa chidwi cha aliyense payekhapayekha. Amadutsa poganiza kuti ali ndi chidwi chofunafuna chidziwitso. Ndipo amapyola poganiza. Zaulere ngati zingatheke.
Tsoka ilo, kuganiza mozama kumawoneka kuti kwakhala mdani wodziwika pagulu, panthawi yomwe timafunikira kwambiri. M'buku lake "Nkhani pa ufulu", Wafilosofi wachingerezi a John Stuart Mill adatinso kuti kutseka malingaliro ndiko "Choyipa china chake".
Ngati malingaliro ali olondola, timabedwa "Mwa mwayi wosintha cholakwika ndi chowonadi"; ndipo ngati zili zolakwika, timalandidwa kumvetsetsa kozama kwa chowonadi mwa iye "Kuyenda molakwika". Ngati tingodziwa malingaliro athu pamutuwu, palibe izi: zimafota, ndikukhala chinthu chomwe chimaphunziridwa ndi mtima, sichimayesedwa ndikumatha kukhala chowonadi chopanda pake komanso chopanda moyo.
M'malo mwake, tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti, monga wafilosofi a Henri Frederic Amiel adati, "Chikhulupiriro sichowona chifukwa chimathandiza." Gulu la anthu oganiza momasuka amatha kupanga zisankho zabwino, payekha komanso mogwirizana. Anthuwo safunikira kuyang'aniridwa kuti azitsatira malamulo anzeru. M'malo mwake, safunanso malamulowo chifukwa amatsatira nzeru.
Gulu loganiza lingapange zisankho zabwino. Imatha kulemera kosiyanasiyana. Kupereka mawu kuzosiyana. Kuyembekezera mavuto. Ndipo, zowonadi, pezani mayankho abwinoko kwa mamembala onse.
Koma kuti apange gulu ili, mamembala ake onse ayenera kugwira ntchito yovuta ya "Limbani mdani yemwe wakhazikitsa malo otuluka mumutu mwanu", monga Sally Kempton adanena.
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