Lero nthawi zambiri timamva za "madzi"Yolumikizidwa ku gawo lazakugonana. Malingaliro monga a madzimadzi akupeza othandizira ambiri atavulala chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chomwe ndi chovuta kuchichotsa. Komabe, kuyambira tili ana, tazolowera kuwona dziko osefedwa ndi magulu, kuyambira pomwepochizindikiro chotere. Mwamuna kapena mkazi, mwamuna kapena mkazi - palibe chosankha china. Kuchita izi, komabe, sikupatula onse omwe amadziwika kuti intersex kapena intersex.
Kodi "intersex" amatanthauza chiyani?
Anthu a Intersex ndi anthu omwe ali nawo mawonekedwe ogonana amkati ndi akunja zomwe sizigwera pansi pa kusiyanitsa pakati pa amuna ndi akazi pakati pa mwamuna kapena mkazi. Zolemba "zosiyana" zoterezi zimatha kufanana ndi i ma chromosome, Le gonads (monga mazira ndi ma testes), i maliseche ndi mahomoni ogonana. Kwa United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ali ndi thupi lomwe "sizigwirizana ndi tanthauzo la matupi achimuna kapena achikazi".
Titha kumvetsetsa momwe nkhaniyi ilili yovuta komanso yovuta. Choyambirira, chifukwa kugonana kumawonekera pansipa mawonekedwe osiyanasiyana ndipo si onse amene amaoneka panja chibadwireni. Mwachitsanzo, kugonana kwapakati Nthawi zambiri zimachitika m'zaka zakutha msinkhu, pomwe izo chomera zitha kutsimikiziridwa kokha chifukwa cha mayesero oyenera azachipatala. Chifukwa chake, ena mwa ma intersex mwina sangadziwe kuti ali.
Malinga ndi akatswiri, anthu omwe ali ndi zikhalidwe za intersex amatha kucheza pakati pa 0,5% ndi 1,7% ya anthu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti padziko lapansi pali Kugonana kwa 30.000.000.
Intersex si kugonana
Ngakhale kuyerekezera ndi zaka zam'mbuyomu kuli kutseguka kwakukulu pankhani zokhudzana ndi kugonana, monga kudziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi kapena kutsika, nthawi zambiri zimasokoneza malingaliro ena. Intersex ndizosiyana zomwe zimakhudza gawo lachiwerewere. Munthu samasankha kukhala intersex: amabadwira komweko. Izi zikutanthauza kuti anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amatha kukhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndi zina zotero. Intersex samawalepheretsa kuchita zachiwerewere komanso sichimawakankhira kwina.
Momwemonso, kukhala intersex silimapereka chidziwitso cha amuna kapena akazi. Anthu a Intersex, monga aliyense, atha kukhala cis-jenda, ndiye kuti, omasuka ndi jenda lomwe amapatsidwa atabadwa, kapena transgender ndipo chifukwa chake akhale ndi mawonekedwe osiyana ndi amuna ndi akazi omwe anabadwa nawo.
Zovuta zakugonana
Powerenga ziganizo zosiyanasiyana za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, chinthu chimodzi chimakhala chofunikira kwambiri: kupatula nthawi zina, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha alibe mavuto aliwonse azaumoyo ndi matupi awo. Makamaka muubwana, pamene funso lachiwerewere ndi mutu wankhani zakugonana zidabisalidwa mu aura yachinsinsi, ana awa sazindikira palibe kusiyana pakati pawo ndi enawo. Ma intesexes ambiri amangozindikira momwe zinthu zilili paunyamata, pomwe amatha kumvetsetsa bwino malingaliro a ma chromosomes, mahomoni komanso kusiyanasiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi.
M'malo mwake, ndi nthawi yeniyeni yomwe zovuta zimayamba nthawi zambiri. Ambiri ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amabwera anachitidwa opaleshoni ndi / kapena ndi mankhwala a mahomoni koposa zonse kuti abweretse mikhalidwe yawo yakugonana mgulu lachikhalidwe lomwe talitchula kale: kaya ndi wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, wopanda njira yachitatu. Kuchokera pamachitidwe amenewa milungu imatha kubadwa zoopsa zomwe zimakhudza mbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo, kuphatikizapo zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Monga tanenera, ma intersex samasankha komwe munthu angakonde, koma ma intersex amatha kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka yokhala ndi moyo wogonana wokhutiritsa chifukwa cha kusalidwa komwe adakumana nako kuchipatala.
Kupitilira apo, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amavomereza kuti nawonso adakhalapo mtundu wopezeka ngakhale m'banja lanu lomwe. Sizachilendo kuti makolo omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ayesere kutero sungani chinsinsi mokhudzana ndi chilengedwe cha ana awo. Nthawi zina, komabe, amayi ndi abambo samakonda ngakhale kukambirana za izi ndi iwo omwe akukhudzidwa nawo, ngati kuti mutuwo ndiowopsa kuyankha. Zofanana ndi zomwe zimachitika kwa anthu ambiri LGBT mutatha kuchita kutuluka m'nyumba.
Zochitika ngati izi zimakankhira achinyamata ma intersex kuti mudzipatule nokha kudziko lakunja. Amamva kukhala osiyana ndi anzawo mbali imodzi ya matupi awo yomwe sangathe kuyilamulira kapena kuichita sizipweteketsa iwowo kapena anthu owazungulira. Chifukwa chake, ma intersex sangabweretse zovuta zambiri pathupi, koma, chifukwa chakuchulukirachulukira komwe kumachitika pankhaniyi, kumabweretsa osati zopweteketsa mtima zamaganizidwe.
Momwe mungavomereze kugonana kwanu
Palibe buku lomwe limatipangitsa kuzindikira kusiyanasiyana kwa matupi athu osati monga kudulidwa koma monga china chapadera, lomwe ndi gawo lathu ndipo sitiyenera kuweruzidwa. Komabe, anthu ambiri ochita zachiwerewere amavomereza kuti njira yabwino kwambiri yodzivomerezera ndikumva bwino ndi inu lankhulani za izo. Nthawi zambiri, sitepe yoyamba ndiyo kuyamba njira yokhala ndi psychotherapist kapena ndi gulu lothandizira yemwe amadziwa kuyika chikhalidwe cha kugonana pakati pa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha moyenera.
Ndiye, ndi chothandiza kwambiri osabisanso mbali iyi ya iyemwini kwa abwenzi ndi anthu omwe mumawakhulupirira kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri komwe timaganiza kuti timapeza udani ndi tsankho ndimalo omwe amalamulira kumvetsetsa ndi kukonda. Pachifukwachi anthu ambiri omwe si amuna kapena akazi okhaokha asankha "kutuluka" pokhudzana ndi zomwe ali mgulu la abwenzi komanso bweretsani umboni wa mbiri yawo padziko lonse lapansi.
Pali zambiri mabungwe othandizira ndi kuteteza ufulu ya amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ku Italy chimaonekera Intersex ilipo, yomwe ikufuna kuwonetsa aliyense kuti kuli amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ndi mbiri yawo komanso komwe adachokera, kupanga mawu awo akumveka.
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