M'zaka zaposachedwapa, mawu akuti anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha wapeza kumveka kokulirapo. Izi ndi condizione mu i kugonana makhalidwe musagwe m'kati mwa gulu lachikhalidwe "thupi lachimuna" ndi "thupi lachikazi". Mpaka lero, mu dziko, kukhala anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha apo1,7% ya anthu padziko lapansi, peresenti yomwe imagwirizana ndi 30 mamiliyoni a anthu. Chiwerengerochi, chopanda chidwi, chimapangitsa kukhala kofulumira kuposa kale kuti tiyambe a njira yodziwitsa pa mutuwo ndikutsegula malo omwe kuvomereza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi kugawana zolondola za. Pa nkhani imeneyi, tiyeni tipeze pamodzi zonse zimene tiyenera kudziwakuyanjana!
Tanthauzo la intersex
Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi mawu ambulera omwe amasonyeza kukhalapo kwa kusiyana kwa makhalidwe ogonana mlingo chibadwa, chromosomal, anatomical ndi mahomoni. Ngakhale kuli kovuta kwa lingaliroli, m'zaka zaposachedwa zakhala zotheka kumveketsa tanthauzo lake koposa zonse chifukwa cha maphunziro ndi kafukufuku wa Anne Fausto-Sterling, pulofesa wa biology ndi maphunziro a jenda ku ISNA (North America intersex Society). A khalidwe amafotokozedwa kuyanjana pamene yodziwika ndi ena zonyansa za iwo zinthu za thupi amadziwika kuti "kugonana", Zomwe ma chromosomes, maliseche, gonads (machende ndi mazira), zolembera za majini, mahomoni, ziwalo zoberekera ndi mbali za kugonana kwachiwiri monga ndevu ndi tsitsi. Poyankha nkhaniyi, aBungwe la United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights adanena kuti, ambiri, a gulu la anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha "sikufanana ndi tanthauzo la matupi amuna kapena akazi", kotero, sizingatheke kufufuza intersex ku chikhalidwe gulu la binary "achimuna" ndi "akazi".
Kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi umboni kale kuchokera kubadwa, atatsimikiziridwa ndi zowoneka kusintha kwachilengedwe zokhudzana ndi magawo azakugonana (Mwachitsanzo: kusiyana koonekeratu kumaliseche), kapena kuchokera kutha msinkhu, kumene chikhalidwechi chimakhudza khalidwe la mahomoni wa munthu wokhudzidwa. Komanso, iwo alipo mitundu yosaoneka ya intersex, monga choncho chomera, kuti azindikire zomwe zatsimikizika mwachangu mayeso azachipatala.
Intersex si kugonana
Palibe chiyanjano pakati pa intersex ndi kugonana wa munthu. Anthu omwe amadzizindikira okha mumkhalidwe uwu akhoza kukhala amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, pansexuals, mkazi mmodzi, osagonana, poly-amorous o Queer mosasamala kanthu za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Komabe izo zikhoza kuchitika munthu intersex zinachitikira kwa zaka angapo zoopsa e zovuta chifukwa, mwachitsanzo, ku kuyendera kuchipatala pafupipafupi, manyazi ndi kuthandizira ndi chithandizo chamankhwala mochuluka kapena mochepera kukakamizidwa ndipo izi zimakhudza kwambiri khalidwe la moyo wanu wogonana. Pankhaniyi, a'intersex angamve ngati atsekeredwa mmbuyo khalani ndi kugonana kwanu momasuka monga momwe zimakhalira ndi mndandanda wautali wa zofananira e tsankho amene ankamuganizira kuyambira ali wamng'ono.
Kodi pali maubwenzi otani pakati pa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha?
Monga momwe zimakhalira ndi malingaliro ogonana, akugonana zilibe mphamvu pazidziwitso za jenda. M'lingaliro ili, a anthu intersex, monga aliyense, iwo akhoza kukhala cis-jenda ndipo, chifukwa chake, kudzizindikira okha mu kugonana komwe adapatsidwa pakubadwa, kapena transgender, kuzindikira kuti amuna ndi akazi ndi osiyana ndi amene anabadwa nawo. Apanso, a munthu intersex akhoza kukumana kapena, choyipitsitsa, kugundana ndi zovuta zina m'moyo wanu chitukuko cha chidziwitso chifukwa cha magulu zoyikidwa pa iye ndi gulu, wa medici ndi milungu makolo omwe amavutika kuti atenge chilichonse chomwe sichingachitike kusiyana kwa binary pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Kukhala intersex sikutanthauza kudwala
Ngakhale nthawi zina kusamvana kwa mahomoni, m'pofunika kubwereza kuti intersex si matenda ndipo ili ndi lingaliro lomwe liyenera kusamala kwambiri. Chifukwa cha maganizo olakwika ndi chimodzi zambiri zochepa pankhaniyi, palibe anthu ochepa, kuphatikizapo madokotala, omwe amakhulupirirabe kuti akulimbana ndi chimodzi kudwala. Palibe chomwe chingakhale cholakwika kwambiri. A intersex si munthu wodwala kuyambira kuintersex sanyengerera osati ake boma laumoyo. Mosiyana ndi zimenezo, malingaliro opotoka amtunduwu akhoza kuvulaza kwambiri psycho-thupi thanzi la anthu okhudzidwa ndi kuyambitsa moles makolo a ana ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha mndandanda wa mantha opanda maziko zomwe zingayambitse malingaliro cholakwika ndi wopondereza ndi chikhalidwe ichi.
Zovuta zakugonana
Pali zingapo movutikira Che ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakakamizika kukumana naye m'njira yakeyake vita, nthawi zina ngakhale pa nthawi ya kubadwa. Palibe milandu yosowa yomwe, mumapeza kuti maliseche anomaliesi medici pereka i ana ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha a njira zopangira opaleshoni M'malo mwake wosokoneza kuyesera "akonzeni"Ndipo alowetsenso mu chikhalidwe" chachimuna "-" chachikazi "chiwembu chogonana. Ngakhale zili choncho, zikhoza kuchitika kuti akakula, anthuwa amasungabe zawo anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, kuwonetsera maganizo ndi makhalidwe ogonana wamba wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi kupanga ntchito ndi mankhwala olemera a hormone kuperekedwa kwa iwo popanda chilolezo. Izi kulimbikira kwamankhwala,pamodzi ndi kusala kuti ogonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amakhala tsiku ndi tsiku pakhungu lawo, ngakhale m'banja, angathe kuwononga kwambiri thanzi lawo e kukhazikika kwamatsenga, kupanga mkhalidwe wolemetsa mosayenera umene, m’malo mwake, uyenera kulandiridwa mwaufulu.
Kuvomereza kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha: njira yofunikira
Theanthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ziyenera kulandiridwa ngati mbali yofunika ya moyo ndipo monga chinthu chachilendo kuti musachite manyazi, koma, mosiyana, kudzikuza. Ngakhale zingamveke ngati zazing'ono, ndikofunikira kuti uthengawu utsimikizidwenso ndikulandilidwa ndi aliyense popeza, mpaka pano, anthu intersex nthawi zambiri ozunzidwa ndi zolakwa ndi ndemanga zosayenera zomwe zimalepheretsa ake kuvomereza ndondomeko. Mutadziwa za vuto lanu, ndikofunikira tsegulani ndikulankhula za izo ndi anthu omwe mumawakhulupirira kwambiri ndipo samakuweruzani. Nthawi zina, komabe, ndikofunikira pempha thandizo, kulankhula ku psychotherapists akatswiri kapena polembetsa ku magulu othandizira kugawana ndi zanu kusapeza bwino ndikupeza chifundo chomwe mukufuna. Ngati muli anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kapena kudziwa munthu amene ali, nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti chimene chimasokoneza thanzi la munthu si intersexuality, koma kutseka kwamalingaliro mwa iwo omwe ali pafupi naye.
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