ʻAʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i nā manaʻo a me nā naʻau, e hoʻonāukiuki ana i ka wahine i manaʻo ʻole e uku ʻia e like me kona makemake.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hoola i ke kāne anaffective? Pane a ka loea:
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ʻO kēlā me kēia mea i aloha i ke kāne i aloha ʻole iā ia e like me kāna e makemake ai ʻoiai ʻo ka pilina paʻa e ʻike pehea ka hoʻonāukiuki. ʻO lākou nā hoa hana ʻona, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻike i nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo. ʻO nā kāne i ʻike i ka pilina o ka wahine me ka hopohopo pathological, ka poʻe noʻonoʻo pono, nā mea e kūkulu i nā pale pale a hōʻike iā lākou iho anuanu i ka honua. He paʻakikī loa lākou i ke ola a ma kahi o ka nānā ʻana i nā hoʻopukapuka manaʻo, hoʻopuka lākou i nā mea āpau i ka hana a me nā mea waiwai.
Akā ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke aloha? Wahi a Michele Cucchi, psychiatrist a me ke alakaʻi olakino o ka Santagostino Medical Center ma Milana, ʻaʻole hiki i nā kāne ʻaʻohe pono ke aloha a hōʻike i ke aloha, akā ʻo ke ala a lākou e hana ai e hoʻonāukiuki ai: " Aloha lākou i kahi ala e hoʻolohe iki ai nā wahine a maopopo iki, a laila lilo i lili a me ka hakakā ».
Eia nō naʻe, ʻaʻole pono iā mākou e huikau i ka paʻakikī i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana no ka makaʻu i ka ʻeha a i ʻole ke kumu o kahi trauma i ʻike ʻia i ka wā i hala, me kahi ala hele ʻole i ka poʻe. I kēia hihia, hiki i nā kumu ke nui: "ʻO kekahi o nā kumu he narcissism, kahi e nānā wale ai ke kanaka i kāna mau pono ponoʻī a ʻaʻole i nā mea o haʻi. i nā mea i manaʻo nui ʻia a me ka frenzy e hoʻopuni nei i nā ola o nā kānaka i kēia lā. Ma waena o nā kāne, hiki i ke ʻano o ke kiʻekiʻe ke alakaʻi i ka mālama ʻana i ka wahine ma ke ʻano o ka mea a me ka nānā iki ».
I ka paʻakikī o ka lawe ʻana a i ʻole ka waiho ʻana i kahi pilina o kēia ʻano, pono e ʻike, ʻaʻole hiki i ke kāne anaffective ke hoʻōla pono ʻole: - i kēia hihia wale nō ke hoʻomaka i kahi ala o ka loli, akā paʻakikī, e alakaʻi i ka hauʻoli ".
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