Il kugonana pakusamba zitha kukhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa momwe mumaganizira chifukwa ngati ndizowona kuti thupi lanu likukumana ndi kusintha kwakukulu ndizowona kuti mukadzakula mudzapeza kuzindikira kwakukulu zakusangalatsa kwawo ndi kukoma kwanu pa kugonana. Chifukwa chake palibe chowiringula kusiya kugonana ... Ndipo kenako kupanga chikondi ndibwino ku thanzi lanu (izi mulimonse m'badwo)!
Kukumana ndi kusamba kuti mupeze bata lanu.
Pa nthawiyi kusamba thupi lanu ndi malingaliro anu akukumana ndi kusintha kofunikira komanso kwakukulu. Koma ngati moyo wobereka umatha ndi kusamba zosiyana kwambiri ndizochitika moyo wogonana. Amayi ena amanena kuti ngakhale atasiya kusamba ubale wawo ndi kugonana wakhalanso wabwino! Izi ndi chifukwa cha wamkulu kuzindikira Thupi la munthu lomwe limabadwa chifukwa chokhala chete komanso kuvomereza zolakwika zazing'ono. Kuti mkazi yemwe amadzikonda yekha, amamukonda kwambiri, ndi chowonadi chosatsutsika! kusintha ndipo zogonana ndizolumikizana kwambiri: panthawi yakutha msambo mutha kumva kuti mukubwadamuka, mukuchita mantha, mumavuto akusintha kwakuthupi ndi kwamaganizidwe. Amayi ena amamva "okalamba" mwadzidzidzi e izi zimachepetsa kwambiri chilakolako chawo chogonana. Koma kudziletsa ndichosankha mokakamizidwa ndipo mukakhala ndi mantha oyambira osakhala paubwenzi wokwaniritsa ndichisankho choopsa pabwino lanu.
Gawo loyamba ndikuti mutha kusiya kusamba ngati nyengo yanthawi zonse m'moyo wa mayi aliyense padziko lapansi: mudzapeza kuti mukuyambiranso mahomoni mu mphepo yamkuntho yamalingaliro atsopano. Koma kuyang'ana chodabwitsachi pankhope kukupatsani mwayi wokumana nacho ndikuchigonjetsa kuti mudzimve kuti ndinu mkazi, wokondedwa komanso wosangalala.
Kodi thupi lanu limasintha motani pakutha msambo?
Mitengo kugonana mu kusamba itha kukwaniritsanso chimodzimodzi. Komabe, sizingatsutsike kuti kugonana ndi kovuta pang'ono chifukwa thupi lanu likukumana ndi zenizeni kusintha kwa thupi zomwe zimayendera limodzi ndi zamaganizidwe. Ngakhale physiognomy kumaliseche, pochepetsa kupanga estrogen, imasiyanasiyana kwambiri. Pa mulingo wa mahomoni pamakhala kusintha koonekera: ochepera estrogen ndi zina zambiri progesterone, zomwe zimamasulira kuchepa kwakukulu kwa chilakolako chogonana. Ndi bwalo lozungulira: chifukwa kuchepa kwa chilakolako kumamasulira kukhala wachichepere kondedwe ya nyini ndipo chifukwa chake imagonana kowawa kwambiri, pafupipafupi kukwiya ndipo pamapeto pake zimakhala zovuta kuti agonane. Kuyesera kuthana ndi thupi lanu munthawi imeneyi ya moyo wanu ngati mkazi ndikofunikira, kwa iwo omwe akuzungulirani komanso koposa zonse kwa inu nokha. Chinsinsi chimakhala chofanana nthawi zonse: Landirani kusintha. Kudziwa momwe thupi lanu limasinthira, kusamalira thupi lanu latsopano komanso malingaliro anu, kukhala oyang'anira njira yatsopanoyi ndiye njira yabwino kwambiri yothanirana ndi nthawi ino, mwina kuyendetsa mnzanu kupeza dziko latsopano. Kupanga chikondi panthawi yakusamba kumatha kukhala kokongola komanso kosangalatsa, muyenera kungochita mverani thupi lanu.
Momwe mungapangire kugonana kwa azimayi azisamba!
Ngati mukufuna kufikira maliseche ndi chisangalalo chachikulu komanso mayendedwe ndikofunikira kupatsa thupi lanu nthawi yokonzekera kulowa ndi chisangalalo. Chifukwa chake chipinda chamasewera: ma caress ambiri, kupsompsona kwanthawi yayitali komanso kosangalatsa, kuwala kobiriwira kuyang'ana thupi lanu ndi za mnzake kudzera koyambirira kwatsopano komanso kwakukulu. Tengani nthawi yanu - izi zikuthandizani kudzipaka mafuta bwino ndikulolani kuti mumveke bwino mukamayanjananso. Ngati kondomu akadali ovuta, pezani thandizo la mafuta oti: Kungakhale chisankho choyenera kukulolani kuti mupumule ndipo akudziwa kuti sikungakupatseni chidwi chatsopano! Nthawi ya kusamba Ndikofunikanso kuchita chiwerewere muufulu wonse: palibe maubwenzi ambiri (monga m'badwo uliwonse), kugonana sikuchulukirapo kapena kuchepa kwambiri, khalani omasuka kuti mudzilole kutengeka ndi malingaliro a banja komanso kuvomereza mphindi iliyonse "ayi" zomwe zingachitike pakusamba. Nthawi zambiri, gawo lofewa la moyo limadziwika ndi kukhumudwa, kusinthasintha kwamalingaliro ndi kupsinjika, zizindikilo zonse zomwe siziyenera kupeputsidwa kapena kunyalanyazidwa. Mutha kuyankhula ndi azachipatala anu omwe angakuthandizeni ndi zowonjezera komanso upangiri woyenera. Chinthu chimodzi chofunikira kwambiri ndi movimento: inde kumakalasi ovina ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi, samalira thupi lako. Maphunziro ang'onoang'ono makamaka panja adzakupatsani chiyembekezo umoyo… komanso thupi lokongola ndi losiririka!
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