Hiki i ka moemoeā o nā ilo ke lilo i mea kupaianaha, akā ʻaʻole ia he moeʻuhane laha ʻole: he nui ka moemoeā o nā ilo i loko o kou wahi moe, ma kou kino, nā ilo keʻokeʻo a i ʻole nā ilo i puka i waho ma nā wahi āpau ... He aha ke ʻano o kēia mau moeʻuhane? ʻOkoʻa nā wehewehe a hilinaʻi hoʻi i ka pōʻaiapili, e like me kā mākou e loiloi ai. ʻO ka maʻamau, eia nō naʻe, ʻo ka moeʻuhane o nā ilo he mea ia e ola nei ʻoe kahi manawa o ke ola o kekahi me ka pilikia ʻole... Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hoʻonāukiuki nā ilo i mua o nā mea āpau!
He aha ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane o nā ilo? ʻO ke ʻano o nā ilo i loko o nā moeʻuhane
Wahi a Freud, ka makuakāne o ka wehewehe moemoeā, kuhikuhi nā ilo o ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona phallic: ʻo ka worm e hōʻike i ka peni, e like me ka nahesa. ʻO ka maʻamau, ua lilo nā ilo i hōʻailona libido, akā, kekahi o ke ʻano o ka lawa ʻole ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka poʻe moemoeā, o ka hoʻi hou. No laila e nānā ka moemoeā o nā ilo noho ka moekolohe i kahi ala luku.
Hiki ke ʻike ʻia ka ilo i ka moeʻuhane ma ke ʻano he hōʻike o nāwaliwali a me nāwaliwali ma ka ʻaoʻao o ka poʻe e moemoeā: hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i ka manaʻo o kekahi i loko o kahi wā o ke ola kahi e hoʻokūpilikiʻi ai nā pilikia iā mākou, hoʻonāwaliwali iā mākou, a hoʻohoka iā mākou "Invertebrates", mana ʻole.
Hiki i ka moemoeā o nā ilo ke hōʻike manaʻo aloha ʻole ke ʻike nei mākou i ko mākou ola, mai ka hoʻowahāwahā a me ka huhū i kahi ʻano hoʻouka kaua a hōʻole paha i kekahi o hoʻohaʻahaʻa a manaʻo ʻole. Aia paha kekahi kanaka ʻino i loko o kā mākou ola, nāna e hāʻawi mai iā mākou i ka inaina, ka mea nele i nā waiwai a me ka pono, a i ʻole ua loaʻa paha iā mākou kēia manaʻo e pili ana iā mākou iho. ʻO ka moemoeā pinepine o nā ilo he hoʻopuni ʻia mākou e ka poʻe ʻaʻole makemake mākou iā lākou a ʻaʻole lākou e hōʻoluʻolu iā mākou.
Hiki nō i kahi ilo hōʻailona i kahi hāpai keiki i nā moeʻuhane: i kēia hihia, ʻaʻohe ona manaʻo maikaʻi, akā ua hoʻopili ʻia i ke ʻano o "invasion" o ka mea hou. ʻO ka hope, hiki ke pili i nā ilo Nā pilikia olakino (keu hoʻi o ka ʻōpū) a i ʻole ka hōʻailona make.
ʻO ka moemoeā o nā ilo i loko o ka moena a i ʻole ma ka home - he aha ke ʻano o ka moeʻuhane ʻana o nā ilo i nā wahi āpau
Ma waena o nā moeʻuhane maʻamau e pili ana i nā ilo, aia kekahi ma kahi puka i waho nā wahi āpau i ko mākou home. ʻO ka moemoeā o ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ilo i loko o ka hale (i loko o kahi moe, ma ka papahele, i nā paia, a ma ka honua ...) hōʻike ʻano hoʻouka kaua ka mea hiki ke hele mai waho (e laʻa me ke alo i ko mākou ola o hoʻokahi aʻoi aʻe paha kanaka ʻino a hoʻopōʻino hoʻi), a i ʻole iā mākou iho: e hōʻike nā ʻenuhe i loko o kā mākou keʻena ʻāpana o mākou e ʻae ʻole ai mākou, a mākou e hoʻāʻo ai e hemo, akā hoʻi kēia i ka ʻilikai.
Nā ilo i ka moena hoʻonui i kēia ʻano o ke komo ʻana: e like me ka wehewehe ʻana o nā moemoeā, pili ia me ko mākou aloha a me ko mākou ola moekolohe, i kēia manawa a mākou e makemake ai hōʻoluʻolu ʻole, akā hoʻoweliweli ʻia e nā alo kūwaho.
Inā ma ka moeʻuhane nā ilo e puka i waho o ka piula, ka lua a me ka paipu mai ka lua, hiki ke hōʻike i kahi paʻakikī ma kāu ʻaoʻao i ka hemo ʻana o nā manaʻo, nā manaʻo a me nā makaʻu āu e hoʻāʻo ai i nā ala āpau e ʻike ʻole ai, e kaomi hou, akā hoʻi lākou me ka ikaika i ke ʻano o nā ilo.
ʻO ka moemoeā o nā ilo i kou kino - he aha ka wehewehe o kēia moe?
Nā ilo kēlā hoʻouka a haʻalele paha i nā ʻāpana o kā mākou kino - ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻopailua ʻia - like ka maʻamau. Pili mau kēia ʻano moemoeā i ke alo o ka poʻe maikaʻi ʻole i ko mākou ola a i ʻole nā pilikia e "hoʻouka" iā mākou me ka ʻae ʻole iā mākou e mālama i ka hopohopo...
Inā he hoʻokahi a ʻoi paha nā ilo i ka moeʻuhane i ke poʻo, i ka lauoho, ʻo ia hoʻi ko mākou mau manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e hoʻouka iā mākou, keu hoʻi inā pili lākou i nā pilikia e hoʻopilikia nei i ko mākou ola i kēia manawa. Ke kahi o nā ilo Aia wau ma lalo o ka ʻili, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻo ka pilikia e nīnau ʻia nei he mea hohonu ia, ua komo i loko o mākou.
Inā nā ilo ma laila hele wāwae wale lākou ma ke kino, ʻo ia hoʻi aia kekahi mea e hoʻopilikia iā mākou, kahi "slimy", hoʻonāukiuki, kahi hiki ʻole iā mākou ke hoʻokuʻu iā mākou iho. Inā nā ilo e puka mai nā maka, ʻo ia paha ko mākou hōʻole ʻana e ʻae i kahi mea maikaʻi ʻole a mākou i ʻike ai, a i ʻole ka maʻamau i ke ola i kahi ala maikaʻi ʻole.
He ilo ma ka niho, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, hiki ke unuhi ʻia ma ke ʻano he manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e "ʻai ana iā mākou mai loko", ʻoiai a ilo ma ka pepeiao e hōʻike nei ua lohe ʻia kekahi mea i hoʻowahāwahā loa iā mākou. Loaʻa akua nā ilo i nā ʻāpana pilikinoʻO ka hope loa, pili hou ia i ka moekolohe: hiki iā ia ke hōʻike i hoʻokahi ʻano hoʻokolokolo ke kaumaha nei mākou iā mākou, kahi manaʻo impotence a hemahema paha, kahi hoʻokahuli kūlohelohe a i ʻole kekahi ʻano o ke kāohi ma muli o kā mākou aʻo ʻana, ʻaʻole e ʻae iā mākou e ʻike piha i ka leʻaleʻa o ke kino.
ʻO ka moemoeā o nā ilo keʻokeʻo - eia ka wehewehe o ka moeʻuhane.
Inā maʻamau ka ʻenuhe i loko o nā moeʻuhane i ke kala ʻeleʻele a ʻōmaʻomaʻo-melemele, hiki i ka moemoeā akua ilo keʻokeʻo. Hāʻawi kēia kala i ka wehewehe ʻana i ka moeʻuhane i kahi ʻano ʻokoʻa a me keu ʻoi aku ka manaʻo: ʻo nā ilo keʻokeʻo, ʻoiaʻiʻo, hiki ke hōʻike ko mākou manaʻo, ko mākou manaʻo, kahi ikehu hana hana i ʻike ʻole i ke kinona kūpono.
Ke moeʻuhane nei i ka ʻai ʻana, hoʻolei ʻana i luna a pepehi paha i kahi ilo - he aha ka manaʻo?
Hiki iā ia ke moeʻuhane ʻai i hoʻokahi ilo a i ʻole nā ʻenuhe: hiki ke hoʻopili ʻia kēia ʻano moeʻuhane i kahi pilikia digestive (inā loaʻa maoli iā mākou i ka pō eha ka' ōpū) a i ʻole hōʻike, i ke ʻano hōʻailona, ka paʻakikī a mākou e ʻike nei hoʻolei i kahi kūlana ʻaʻole hele wale ma laila. Hiki iā ia ke manaʻo e koi mākou e hana i kekahi mea e hōowahāwahā loa iā mākou.
Inā, ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē, i nā moeʻuhane ʻaʻole mākou e ʻai i nā ilo, akā kuha aku mākou iā lākou a luaʻi paha, ke ʻano o ka hoʻohuli: ʻo ia ka mea ke pakele nei mākou (a i ʻole pono mākou e hemo) nā pilikia, nā manaʻo, ka poʻe ka mea e hoʻopilikia nui nei iā mākou.
ʻO ka hope, moeʻuhane o pepehi ilo (inā paha e ʻā ana iā lākou a haki paha iā lākou) mea maikaʻi loa: e like me ka wehewehe ʻana o ka moe, ke ʻano o kēia loaʻa iā mākou loaʻa ka ikaika e kū i mua o kā mākou pilikia a hōʻoia iā mākou iho.
