ʻAʻole hana ka lole i ka mōneka i ʻōlelo i kahi ʻōlelo kahiko, akā he ʻoiaʻiʻo nō hoʻi e makemake ka maka i kāna ʻāpana, a inā ʻaʻole ka lole nā mea āpau, he mea nui ia i kā mākou pili pilikino. Ma ka ʻaoʻao hoʻokahi lawelawe ia e kamaʻilio i kekahi mau ʻaoʻao o mākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, akā ʻoi aku ka nui o ka lawelawe ʻana i ka mea lawe ma ke ʻano he kākoʻo a kākoʻo no ko lākou manaʻo pilikino.
Eia nā lula 7 e pono ai i kēlā me kēia kāne ke mālama i ka wā e pili ana i kāna lole. Ua kū kēia mau lula i ka hoʻāʻo o ka manawa a, ke hoʻohana pū ʻia, lawelawe ia ma ke ʻano he alakaʻi alakaʻi i ka lole a me ka maikaʻi e loaʻa he kaikamahine.
1 - E komo maikaʻi i kahi hoʻopiʻi
ʻO ka lula mua ka loaʻa ʻana o ke kaila me ke ʻeke uala ma. Me he mea lā he kūlike ʻole ia i nā mea āpau i haʻi ʻia a hiki i kēia manawa, akā ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka lole i loko ona iho he lole wale nō ia. ʻO ka mea nui ke ʻano o ka hoʻokomo ʻana iā ia a me ke ʻano a mākou e hāʻawi aku ai iā ia. E ʻike e pili ana i nā mea āu e ʻaahu ai, no ka laʻana ke komo ʻoe i kahi tuxedo pono ʻoe e ʻike ua hānau ʻia kēia mea lole kāne no ka mea ʻaʻole makemake nā kāne e komo i nā ʻaha honua me ka pilau o nā lio a me ka lepo o nā alanui lepo e mau nei. No laila, mai hōʻike i ka ʻaʻa ʻana i kahi tuxedo a me kahi ʻumiʻumi makaʻu ʻole, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e makemake manawaleʻa e hōʻike i ke kipi a me ka hoʻowahāwahā.
2 - Hoʻokomo kālā hoʻopukapuka ma ka wati
ʻOi aku ka makemake o nā wati me nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine, akā e like me kā mākou i ʻōlelo ai, ʻaʻahu mua ʻoe i nā mea āpau nāu.
3 - E mālama i kou helehelena
ʻO ka lauoho, ka maʻemaʻe visa a me nā hiʻohiʻona āpau e kūlike me nā lole. ʻO ka ʻumiʻumi lōʻihi, no ka laʻana, ka mea i kēia manawa i kēia manawa, hiki ke nani ke mālama ʻia a mālama ʻia me ka maʻemaʻe e like me ka disconcerting inā haʻalele ʻole ʻia. Pēlā nō ka lauoho, keu hoʻi ke lōʻihi, pono e mālama a kāwili ʻia i ʻole e ʻike ʻia he haumia a haumia ʻole, no laila e hōʻole ana i ka hoʻāʻo ʻana e koho i nā lole kūpono.
ʻO ke kāne i ʻaʻahu piha ʻia i ka hoʻohālikelike ʻia me kahi mea ʻē aʻe i hāʻawi ʻole i ka mea nui iki i ka lole, loaʻa iā ia ka pōmaikaʻi o ka hiki ke hilinaʻi i nā kūlana kaumaha.
4 - Hoʻolilo kālā i nā kāmaʻa
ʻO nā kāmaʻa kekahi mea nui. Eia ke ākea o nā koho hiki ke ākea. ʻAʻole like me nā lole e pono ai ka maikaʻi o nā mea a me kona ʻano i ka hoʻopā ke kumu ʻole inā koho nui ʻia i ke koho; no nā kāmaʻa, ʻokoʻa nā pā hale. I kēia hihia, e hoʻolohe i ke kala a me ke kumu. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i ka mea e koho ai, hele maikaʻi mau nā kāmaʻa kālepa maʻamau me nā mea a pau, akā mai poina inā kūʻaiʻoe i nā kāmaʻa lole e mālama ponoʻoe iā lākou i kēlā me kēia manawa a nalowale paha ko lākou nani.
5 - Hoʻoemi i nā mea kōkua
ʻO nā mea kōkua kekahi mea i loko o ke kāne i ka hakakā a kāwili hoʻi. Maikaʻi nā kāʻei, nā aniani, ke kāʻei, nā wati a me nā ʻeke, akā ma waho o kēia mau mea pono ʻole ʻaʻole hui maikaʻi loa ka lole kāne me nā mea nui. ʻOiaʻiʻo kēia kekahi o kēlā mau rula i hana ʻia e haki, inā makemake ʻoe e kamaʻilio i nā manaʻo like ʻole e pili ana i ka hilinaʻi a me ke koʻikoʻi a nā kāne e kuana ai nā lole e hōʻike ai.
6 - Mai skimp i kāu mau aniani
Inā ʻoe e hoʻohana i nā aniani aniani, ʻaʻole pono e wehewehe i ka mea nui o kēia mea kōkua, akā inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e pono, pono ʻoe e noʻonoʻo e kūʻai iā ia me kahi hoʻomaha. Ke kūʻai aku ʻia nā aniani me nā aniani mo aniani akā akā me ka pale ʻana i nā kukuna UV a me nā kukui polū o nā pale. Kaukaʻi ʻia i ke ʻano o kou helehelena a me ke kani āu e makemake ai e lawe, hiki i kahi mau aniani ke nānā aku maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kēlā kiʻi naʻau āu e makemake ai.
7 - Koho i nā Lākeke Nui
E hoʻomanaʻo e uhi ka lākeke i nā lole a pau ma lalo, a he mea nui ia i kou hui ʻana e loaʻa ana iā ʻoe. No laila e hoʻohana i kahi lākeke i maʻalahi a komo ʻole i loko, e ʻae iā ʻoe e ʻike i ka mea ma lalo, no ka mea ʻo ka manaʻo mua e loaʻa iā ʻoe e hilinaʻi ia, a ʻike ʻoe i ka mea nui o kēia.
Mai hoʻowahāwahā i ke koʻikoʻi o ka ʻaʻahu maikaʻi ʻana, e like me nā lā kula ʻaʻole ʻoe i hoʻowahāwahā i ka nui o ka loiloi ma mua o ka nīnau. I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻaʻole maikaʻi ia, koe wale nō ka hāʻawi ʻana iā ʻoe i kēlā ʻano palekana e hiki ai i ka noʻonoʻo ke mālama i ka liʻiliʻi o ka maopopo.
Hoʻonohonoho ʻia kēia mau lula e hoʻomaʻalahi i kou ola i ka lā mua. ʻO ka manaʻo kumu inā ʻoluʻolu ʻoe i kāu kiʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke hōʻike maʻalahi me ka hilahila ʻole. ʻO ka lā mua kahi lā nui a koʻikoʻi āu e hoʻomanaʻo ai.
