Il leʻaleʻa wahine, a me ke kahe ʻana i ko mākou kino me nā naʻau, hele mai ia mai ka ʻike o ke kino o kekahi a me ka māʻona o nā pono a me nā makemake.
ʻO kahi leʻaleʻa i ʻike maopopo ʻia a ma loko o ka hiki o kēlā me kēia, akā ʻaʻole pēlā; ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ʻo ka leʻaleʻa i loaʻa mai ka moekolohe a i ʻole auto-eroticism ka mea no kekahi poʻe he utopia maoli: ʻo kēia ka hihia o nā kumuhana aloha_halia.
He aha ka alexithymia?
ʻO kahi ʻōkuhi mōʻaukala pōkole e kōkua i ka ʻike a palaki i kekahi manaʻo. ʻO ka huaʻōlelo alexithymia i haku ʻia e Peter Sifneos (1973) i ka hapa mua o nā makahiki 70 e hōʻike ai i kahi maʻi affective-cognitive e pili ana i kahi pilikia i ka noho ʻana, ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana a me ke kamaʻilio ʻana i nā manaʻo (mai ka Helene. alpha = kaawale, lexis = ʻōlelo, koumo = nā manaʻo, ʻo ia hoʻi "ka nele o nā huaʻōlelo no ka naʻau").
Hoʻomohala ʻia ke kūkulu ʻana mai ka nānā ʻana i nā maʻi me nā maʻi psychosomat "classic" a no nā makahiki he nui i manaʻo ʻia he aneane like ia o lākou no ka mea ua manaʻo ʻia e pili pono i nā pathos psychosomat. Ma waena o nā hiʻohiʻona olakino o nā maʻi psychosomatic, ua hoʻopili ʻia ʻo Sifneos:
- ka paʻakikī paʻakikī i ka wehewehe ʻana i nā naʻau a me ka makaʻala iā lākou;
- ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi o nā hana noʻonoʻo e pili ana i ka moemoeā;
- ka hopohopo i kaha ʻia me nā ʻaoʻao paʻa a kikoʻī hoʻi o ka nohona kūwaho a me ko ke kino ponoʻī;
- kahi ʻano o ka noʻonoʻo paʻahau ma nā mea hoʻonāukiuki a ʻaʻole hiki ke hele hou i ka elaboration (Taylor, 1977; 1984).
No laila ʻo Alexithymia hoʻokahi disregulation o nā naʻau pili i loko o ke kanaka ka hiki ʻole a paʻakikī paha e ʻike a kamaʻilio i ko lākou mau manaʻo a e resonate me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Hoʻopili kēia ʻano i ke kamaʻilio a me ka pilina me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, e hana ana i hoʻokahi hoʻokaʻawale pili i ke kino, nā manaʻo a me ka pili aloha. ʻLelo mākou i kahi paʻakikī ma mua o ka erotic kahi ʻano affective a me ke ʻano. Ma waena o nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o kēia kūlana, makemake wau e nānā pono i kēia mua loa.
ʻO kahi anesthesia pili i ka naʻau a me ka hopena i kumu i kahi moʻo o nā hōʻailona psychosomat, kahi e hoʻoliʻiliʻi a me nā kūlana o ka moekolohe o kekahi.
ʻIke ʻole kēia poʻe, anuanu a hoihoi ʻole i ka moekolohe ke ʻike maoli ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i ka naʻau ma kahi pae o ke kino.
"Hōʻike ʻo Alexithymia i ka hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o ke kino a me ka psyche e hōʻole ʻole ai i ka ʻike sensory o kekahi a hiki ʻole i ke kanaka ke ola i ka naʻau a me ka moekolohe.".
ʻO ke kumuhana alexithymic, ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke hoʻomaopopo i kāna mau makemake a leʻaleʻa i kona mau naʻau, ʻaʻohe makemake i ka moekolohe a no laila hōʻole iā ia a relegates paha ia i kahi kuleana conjugal maʻalahi.
Ua hōʻike ʻo Alexithymics i ka wā o ka moekolohe, ma kahi o ka nānā ʻana i ka ʻike a me nā ʻike e pili ana iā ia, ua hele a kaʻawale lākou a noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi mea ʻē aʻe. Pale kēia i ke kanaka mai ka wehewehe ʻana i ka ʻaoʻao kumuhana o ka ʻike a no laila ʻaʻole hiki ke kiʻi i ka leʻaleʻa mai ka hoʻowalewale moekolohe iā ia iho. Inā ʻike ʻole ʻia ka hoʻonāukiuki moekolohe a ʻike ʻole ʻia ma ke ʻano he kumu o ka leʻaleʻa, ʻo ia ʻaʻole ʻimi ʻia.
Hoʻopau ʻia kēlā me kēia neʻe iā ia iho a me nā mea ʻē aʻe mai ia manawa ka lana o ka leʻaleʻa a paʻa mau nā mea āpau i ka hana. Kēia, pū me kahi kiʻi erotic kūpono ʻole, kāohi i ka pane moekolohe, no laila e ʻoluʻolu nei i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi moʻo o nā moe kolohe e like me ejaculation wā mua e hoʻolohi, ka pāʻani honua, maʻi hōʻino, anorgasmia.
Pehea e pili ai kēia mau mea i ka wahine?
He hopena koʻikoʻi kēia maʻi i ka wahine, no laila ua hōʻea ke kumuhana alexithymic i ke kūkākūkā therapeutic ʻaʻole ma kāna koho ponoʻī, akā no ka mea kauō ʻia ʻo ia e kahi hoa i hoʻonāukiuki ʻia e ka hiki ʻole o kahi hoʻololi kūlohelohe a me ka ʻole o ka kaʻana like ʻana. Ua ʻae ʻia kahi hōʻole a me ka hōʻole ʻole e hoʻonāukiuki i nā manaʻo o maʻiʻole, hoʻoluhi e huhū: mai kēia mea i loaʻa kahi neʻe holomua mai ka hana moekolohe o ke kāne / wahine a i ʻole ka mea e noho ana a ma kahi o Care Giver, ka mea a ka alexithmic i hilinaʻi nui ai. I nā ʻatikala e hiki mai ana, e hana wau me nā ʻano hou aʻe o kēia ʻano hoihoi a pīhoihoi hoʻi.
