Inzuzo yokungabaza ukwakha impilo enenjongo

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"Ngiyazi nje ukuthi angazi lutho", Kusho uSocrates. Futhi ngalawo mazwi akhombisanga kuphela okukhulu ukuthobeka kwengqondo, kodwa futhi kwafaka ukungabaza esisekelweni. Ukungabaza bekukhona futhi kuyaqhubeka nokuba ngumngane wabacabangi abakhulu. Ukucabanga kwamahhala nokuguqula kuvela ekungabazeni. Kuphela ngokuphonsela inselelo izinkolelo nezinkolelo ezijulile lapho singeqaqa lokho esikuthatha kalula futhi sakhe okuhlukile nokwethu.

Ngeshwa, kulezi zinsuku ukungabaza kuvame ukwenziwa kabi ngenkathi kukhonjiswa umqondo owodwa odla amaqiniso angenakunyakaziswa. Kodwa-ke, ukubhekana nezinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi ezihlonyelwe ukuqiniseka okuphelele namaqiniso kuholela kuphela emaphutheni amakhulu.

Ukungabaza kwenqatshelwe: umshini wokwenza iziqiniseko ezithile

Ukungabaza kunegama elibi. Umphakathi wethu awubaniki umvuzo labo abangabazayo futhi abathathe kalula. Akuklonyelisi labo abafuna ukugxilisa ingqondo, kuthathe isikhathi ukuzindla nokungavumelani nalokho okusungulwe ukuze bakhe amaqiniso abo nempilo yabo.

Esikhundleni salokho, nika umvuzo oshesha kakhulu. Ubani obabaza futhi anwebe inkulumo esemthethweni. Labo abathatha izinqumo ezenzakalelayo ngaphandle kokucabanga kakhulu ngoba basiqinisekisile ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuya phambili. Nganoma iyiphi izindleko. Phambili, qhubeka futhi uthuthuke. Ayikho indawo yokungabaza nokuphikisana.

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Ngale ndlela, sigqugquzelwa yiziqubulo nama-clichés - okuvame ukuzwakala kukuhle kepha kungabi nencazelo - sigijimela ukwahlulela ngaphandle kokwazi izimo, kungasaphathwa izizathu. Lapho ukuzwakala ngokuzwela iba munye Okuvamile lapho sijahe ukuqhubekela phambili futhi ukungabaza kubonakala njengokuchitha isikhathi.

Ngakho-ke, bambalwa futhi bambalwa abantu abanikeza inzuzo yokungabaza. Lapho siphila emphakathini osuphenduke umshini wokwenza iqiniso ngokulungiswa kwezepolitiki kepha uchemile futhi uqhelelene neqiniso, siba ngabahluleli abangayeki abakholwa ukuthi baneQiniso Elikhulu. Ocacile!

Cishe ngaphandle kokuqaphela, sigwema konke okwehlukile. Asikunaki lokho okudala ukungabaza. Sikhomba abanye umunwe wokumangalela ngaphandle kwesikhathi noma isifiso sokuphenya ngezimbangela zabo nokuthola izimo ezinciphisayo. Isahlulelo esinecala simane nje siyisiko nje, ngoba asidingi bufakazi obuningi emhlabeni ovuza isivinini ngokuhlaba ikhefu okucabangayo futhi kuthathwe ukubukeka kunokungena kokuqukethwe.

Kepha ukwahlulela ngaphandle kokungabaza nokuthatha isinqumo ngaphandle kokucabanga kuyindlela eqonde kunazo zonke yokuqina kwengqondo nokuqina kwengqondo. Impilo enenjongo ifaka phakathi ukungabaza, ukubuyisa izinyathelo zethu, ukucabanga kabusha ngamathuba ethu, ukucubungula izinkolelo zethu, nokushintsha umbono wethu kanye, kabili, noma kaningi lapho kudingeka.

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Ngiyangabaza, ngakho-ke ngikhona

"Ukungabaza kungukuqala kokuhlakanipha", Kusho u-Aristotle. Ngokombono wefilosofi, ukungabaza kusivumela ukuthi sibambe umfutho wokwahlulela. Kusisiza ukuba siphendule kunokumane siphendule ezimeni. Kuyasikhuthaza ukuthi sizibeke ezicathulweni zomunye umuntu, kepha futhi kusivumela ukuthi sithathe isinyathelo sokubuyela emuva siziqhelelanise nathi futhi singavumeli ukuzithiba kwesifiso sokuqala.

"Noma ngubani ongabazayo uyacabanga futhi abheke kabusha, ukala futhi anesisindo, uyabona futhi ahlukanise", ngokusho kwesazi sefilosofi u-Óscar de la Borbolla. Ukungabaza kukhona conditio sine qua non yesimo sokucabanga nokuhlakanipha. Labo abangabazayo bayashiya inertia yempilo yansuku zonke nokugeleza komcabango obusayo wokuguqula impilo yabo ibe yisinqumo sabo. Ukungabaza, empeleni, kuyisikhali esibulalayo sokulwa nokuvumelana, ibhalsamu elimele ukungabi nangqondo kanye nekhambi elingcono kakhulu lokulwa nokuzenzakalela kwengqondo.

Ukungabaza kungumsebenzi oyisisekelo wokuthola ezinye izindlela zokubona nokuqonda umhlaba. Ukungabaza kusenza sibuze izinto, ngisho nalezo ebesizithatha kalula. Yenza kusebenze i- ukucabanga okubucayi. Kusiphoqa ukuthi singabaze yonke into. Kuyasikhuthaza ukuthi singayamukeli impendulo yokuqala noma lokho abasitshela khona.

Ukungabaza futhi kusho ukungabikhona kobandlululo. Kuyithuba lokubona izinto ngomunye umbono, hhayi ukuthi ziyiqiniso ngokwengeziwe noma zingamanga kakhulu, kepha zehlukile futhi zingezomuntu uqobo. Ukungabaza yikhona okusishukumisela ukuba sibuze futhi sibuze yonke into ukuze inikeze injongo kokuphilayo, incazelo yomuntu uqobo.

Ukuthola inzuzo yokungabaza, sidinga nje ukuqiniseka ukuthi asibambeki kubhalansi olungaxegi luka-yebo no-cha. Kufanele sihlaziye izinto, kepha lapho-ke kufanele senze izinqumo futhi senze. Ukungabaza akuthethi ukukhubazeka, futhi akusho ukuchitha isikhathi uma inqubo yokufuqa ilandelwa ukuguqulwa kokuvela kwemvelo.

Ukuma ukubonisana, ukukala, ukucabanga nokungabaza, ngaphambi kokwenza isinqumo, ekugcineni akulimazi, impela. Kumele sizivumele sihambe sizinikeze ukungabaza esikhundleni sokuzicwilisa ngamehlo avaliwe olwandle lokuqiniseka okuphelele okusiguqula sibe abahluleli abakhethayo babanye nabethu. Mhlawumbe kufanele siye kwiMagna Graecia agora ngaphezulu, kepha hhayi ukufuna izimpendulo neqiniso, kepha ukungabaza nemibuzo, njengoba kusho intatheli uGuillermo Altares.

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