Ukudla kwe-Queer? Indlela entsha yokuthola ukudla okufanele (isithinte) sonke

Kukhona izinto, kwesinye isikhathi, okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuziqinisekisa kwakho enqatshelwe. Kunezinto, abantu kanye nezimo ezicindezelwe isikhathi eside futhi isikhathi eside, ezingaqondakali noma ezinganakwa ukuthi ukuze babe khona namuhla badinga, naphezu kwabo, ukudlula lokho abangekho. Kwenzeka, ngokwesibonelo hhayi ngengozi, nge ukudla kwe-queer okuthi, ngaphandle kokuqondanisa kalula izilimi namasiko, kungahlangene nakancane nezinyoni nothingo futhi akuhambelani nesidlo sikazwelonke somphakathi we-LGBTQ +.

Njengalabo abaziqaphela ngokobulili noma ngokuya ocansini ngaphandle kwe- "standard" kanambambili neyabobulili obuhlukile (futhi okucatshangwa ngokuthi "okujwayelekile"), kanjalo nokudla okumnandi kudlulela ngale kwezincwadi zokupheka zendabuko ukufaka izindlela ezintsha zokuzwa ukudla nokuthi yini ezungeza yona.

Uma ungakaze uzwe ngakho, noma ungahle unake futhi uzwele ezindabeni zobulili kanye / noma zokudla okunempilo, mhlawumbe kungenxa yokuthi into eqala futhi ikhule ikakhulu e-United States, lapho isimo sabantu be-LGBTQ + siyisihloko senkulumo-mpikiswano yamazinga amaningi. Kodwa-ke, ukwazi okwenzeka ngale kolwandle, kwelinye lamazwe okuthinta kakhulu indlela yokuphila namasiko aseNtshonalanga, kungasiza ekubikezeleni izinto ezingaba khona emhlabeni wonke. Kungakho, kule ndatshana, sifuna ukubhekana nokudla okunamandla nokuthi kusho ukuthini ngempela.

Kusho ukuthini ukuthi "queer" 

Ake siqale ezintweni eziyisisekelo: kusho ukuthini u- "queer"? Ngokwe-Merriam Webster Dictionary, yisiphawulo esivumela noma yini ehluke kunokwejwayelekile, ngokwesiko noma okujwayelekile ngakho-ke kusho okungajwayelekile, okuxakile, okunamandla, okungajwayelekile. Leli gama, liyaqhubeka isichazamazwi, bese livame ukukhomba ukukhanga okungokwenyama noma okuhehayo kwabantu bobulili obufanayo futhi kungasetshenziswa ngomqondo wokweyisa. Isichasiselo esingesihle, nokho, esilahlekile kancane kancane. Ngakho-ke, lokho okwakuthathwa njengokuthuka ngawo-XNUMX kwathathwa kancane kancane ngabemukelayo njengokuthi incazelo nefulegi lokwehlukahlukana okufanele siziqhenye ngakho, ngokumelene nokukhishwa kwezenhlalo nezobuchwepheshe.

Abantu abaphambili: ukudla okunamandla okulwa nokucwaswa 

Lokhu futhi kuthinta umhlaba wokudla kanye nokudla kukonke, ezinhlangothini ezimbili: izinga lomuntu nelokusebenza lalabo abayingxenye yomphakathi we-LGBT + nendlela yokuthola ukudla nokuhlobene nezithako nezinto zokusetshenziswa. Namuhla, empeleni, i- Imboni yezokungenisa izihambi yaseMelika futhi kaningi inkundla yemidlalo yokubandlululwa ngokohlanga, ubulili noma ubulili, futhi muva nje lapho ukuzondwa kwabantu bobulili obufanayo nokuhlukunyezwa ekhishini sekuqale ukusolwa ngokusobala. Wenze isibonelo UCharlie Anderle, okwathi ngo-2018 emakhasini kaBon Appetit wafingqa amava akhe njengompheki we-transgender ngale ndlela elandelayo: "Bekukhona ukuphawula okungahambi kahle okuvela kumsizi opheka ngobungako bejean lami elisha nomphathi wami ezama ukubamba amathanga ami ngenkathi enganga kusuka ngemuva kwekhawunta. Lolu hlobo lokunakwa lwalunikezwa njalo njengento yokuqhosha; ngenkathi ngiyenqaba ngokushesha yangibiza 'njenge-hypersensitive' noma i-bitch ".

Ngisho nangaphambi kwakhe, intatheli UJohn Birdsall. Okhulumela isiko lezitabane nasebukhishini kusukela ngo-2014, uBirdsall uyakholelwa ngokuqinile endimeni enhle ubunikazi "obuhlukile" bobulili obungayinikeza kumalungiselelo. Nakhu-ke lokho uphawu lokuqala lokudla okumnandi yilokho okudlula abantu balo: akusafihliwe, kukhishwa inyumbazane, kuhlukanisiwe futhi kuyahlukunyezwa, kepha kunalokho abamukelekile, abanenani, abaphikisi ukuvukela umthetho ongabhalwanga lapho i-chauvinism yabesilisa kanye nobulili kusengompetha. Futhi lokho kuthola uhlobo olusha lokubonakala nokuvuma ekudleni. "Ukudla sekuyinto trope (noma isingathekiso, ed) lapho umphakathi we-querer uthole ukufana okuthile, wafuna ukubonakala, wasekela ukwehluka futhi wakhuthaza ubushoshovu", ifundeka kanjalo i-athikili ye-New York Times Kunikezelwa ekudleni kwe-queer. "Noma ngabe kungamadina okulwa nobandlululo, abaqoqi bezimali besizathu sePuerto Rican, izindawo zokudlela ezisebenza njengendawo ephephile noma yokuthuthukisa izindlela zokupheka ezinamandla, imboni yezokudla ihlanganisa umphakathi we-LGBTQ".

Ukudla kwe-Queer akukho (noma mhlawumbe kukhona)

“Ukudla kweQueer akukho. Noma kunjalo, uma usuqale ukuwufuna, uzokuthola yonke indawo ”. Iqala kanjalo indatshana kaKyle Fitzpatrick ye-Eater futhi mhlawumbe ayikho indlela engcono yokuyichaza. Ufuna ukuba ukhonkolo ngaphezulu?

Impendulo ingatholakala emakhasini kaJarry, "umagazini ophuma kabili ngonyaka ohlola imiphambanandlela phakathi kokudla namasiko we-queer" - njengoba kushiwo kuwebhusayithi esemthethweni - ephrintiwe kusukela ngo-2015 e-United States ngenhloso yokuhlanganisa "umphakathi Abapheki, abathengi, abakhiqizi, ababhali, abathwebuli bezithombe, abaculi, nabashukumisi bezimboni ukugubha imiphumela nokujulisa ukuqhathanisa kwabo ". Ngaphakathi, kunezindlela zokupheka ezahlukahlukene ezivela emhlabeni we-queer njenge, ngokwesibonelo, leyo ye umhluzi wenkukhu, ama-noodle, ujinja kanye no-lemongrass; noma i- ikhekhe eligcwele ngoshokoledi namafutha omnqumo; wokuxuba kwe iminqumo nama-chillies ahlanjululwe nge-orange ne-rosemary; ye 'isaladi ye-escarole ene-fennel nama-walnuts, i-marinade nejusi likalamula nesiraphu ye-maple; noma eyodwa i-orange kanye nesafron cheesecake. Uma, ngaphezu kwesiko eli-stereotypical LGBT +, konke lokhu kukukhumbuza ukudla okuphekiwe, Fusion futhi kwasekuqaleni, awukude kakhulu neqiniso.

Khohlwa uthingo, izimpawu zobudoda noma okunye okufana nalokhu: ukudla okuluhlaza yamukela zonke izithako, izinto zokusetshenziswa kanye nokuhlukahluka ngaphandle kwemingcele noma ukubandlululwa (ukuxubana kwamasiko noma ukuhlolwa kwemifino nemifino kwamukelekile), ngenxa yalesi sizathu kungatholakala yonke indawo. Futhi bekungahluka kanjani: emhlabeni obalekela ukuhlukaniswa futhi ucacise imingcele futhi wenze okuhlukile kube umthetho wawo (kucatshangwa ukuthi njengomthetho singakhuluma), Ukudla akuweli kumafomula asungulwe ngaphambilini, ngisho nama-glitter noma ama-multicolor ukuthi imicimbi ebalulekile njengokuziqhenya nayo isabalale.

Ngoba into ebalulekile akuyona into oyidlayo kodwa umkhathi, umuzwa wokuthi lokhu kuyadlulisa futhi okuvame ukufaka isipiliyoni sokunambitheka okungalindelekile ngendlela evulekile, eyabiwe nengakaze ibonwe.

Ukudla kwe-Queer: ukudla njengesenzo esingokomfanekiso nokufuna induduzo lapho wonke umuntu engafinyelela khona  

Elandisa isiqephu esivela ebuntwaneni bakhe, uBirdsall ukhumbule ngenkathi eseyingane, isivakashi sabomakhelwane abambalwa abangongqingili, wayedla i-hamburger omunye wabaphathi ababili ayemlungiselela yona nokuthi wakuthola kanjani kungemnandi nje kuphela, kodwa isimemezelo senjabulo yangempela. Lesi yisici sokuthi manje njengoba esekhulile nakanjani useyayibona ikhitshi elijwayelekile: "ukuphishekela injabulo etafuleni", Wabhala eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule," kungaphenduka i- isenzo sezepolitiki".

Melana nezinkolelo-ze, uhlale uthembekile kwimvelo yakho, waneliswe ngakho futhi wenze abanye bakujabulele nakho: ukudla okunamandla nakho lokhu, izindlela ezingokomfanekiso njengoba zikukhonkolo ukudlulisa ukunambitheka okusha, lokho ukuze kufezekiswe wena namalungelo akho.

Akumangalisi ukuthi omunye wemibono ejwayelekile kakhulu efundwayo kubhekiselwa kuyo Ukudla okuyi-queer "induduzo". Kutholakala ngokuqhubekayo kumagazini iJarry, kanye nasemazwini kaCarla Perez-Gallardo, umnikazi osebenzisana noHannah Black we I-Oasis kaLil 'Deb, indawo yokudlela e-queer eNew York. Ngakho watshela i-HuffPost eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule: “Mhlawumbe thina esikhungweni se-queer sifuna induduzo kulokho esikulungiselelayo ngoba induduzo itholwe njengengafinyeleleki emiphakathini yethu ezingeni lomphakathi elisabalele - ngokwamalungelo ayisisekelo, ukufinyelela ekunakekelweni. nakubuntu bethu ". I-Queer gastronomy imane (kepha ingabe ilula kangako?) Yamukela enye futhi ivume ukubona kwangaphambili, i-anomaly futhi yalokhu kukhulu kakhulu kufinyeleleka, imvamisa futhi ngokwentengo. Umqondo wokulingana ugxile ngokujulile kufilosofi yokuthi kusekelwe amakilabhu e-queer, ukuthi ukudla kungafinyelelwa yiwo wonke umuntu: njengokuthambekela kwezocansi, empeleni, isici sezomnotho akumele sibe yisithiyo noma umthombo wokubandlululwa kulabo abeza kule mpahla. L'ukubandakanywa mhlawumbe-ke mhlawumbe kungokwakhe esiyingqayizivele, iqiniso, isithako esiyisisekelo.

Ngalo mqondo sibhekene nesenzeko esibanzi samasiko, esakhiwa izindawo ezivuleleke kubo bonke, phambi nangemuva kwekhawunta, izindlela zokupheka nezinhlanganisela ezingajwayelekile, ukuqamba okukhululekile nokujabulisayo, Iyakwazi ukumangaza nokududuza, yokwazi nokwabelana (sibone into efanayo kuphrojekthi ye ikhishi).

Zonke izindinganiso namandla okungenzeka ukuthi, kungakhathalekile ukuthambekela kobulili ngakunye, akunzima ukukusho ngokudla kukonke, noma ngabe umuntu ethanda izitsha esezaziwa kakade noma ngaphezulu. Futhi akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho.

L'articolo Ukudla kwe-Queer? Indlela entsha yokuthola ukudla okufanele (isithinte) sonke kubonakala kungowokuqala Ijenali Yokudla.