Emva komlo okanye ingxoxo encinci eyona meko imbi ngokungenakulungiseka, kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto ikratshi liyathatha indawo kwaye amaxesha amaninzi kunzima ukuvuma ukuba wenze impazamo.
Nabani ongakwicala lokuqiqa uhlala iqine kwizikhundla zayo, ngokuchasene nabo bangakwicala elingalunganga, uzama ukuzikhusela kangangoko anako.
Kodwa kuqala, sikushiya ividiyo emfutshane engezantsi ukuze ube yingcali yolwimi lomzimba.
Kuqala omabini amacala kufuneka enze umzamo kwaye zama ukuseka incoko nabanye. Unokwenza njani? Uqala ngaphi? Into yokuqala yokwenza kukuba beka ecaleni ikratshi kwaye ucele uxolo; ukuba amagama asilele, siya kukunceda: siqokelele uluhlu lwamabinzana afanelekileyo okuxolisa ngendlela yoqobo kwaye uxolelwe.
Ukoyika ukwenza umbono ombi okanye ayifaneleki ayinandlela yakubakho, kuba kolu luhlu uya kufumana ngokuqinisekileyo ibinzana elimele wena kwaye izokukunceda uxolelwe ngumntu omkhathaleleyo.
Indlela oza kuyisebenzisa ayibalulekanga: unako yitsho ngokuvakalayo ujonge ngqo emehlweni omnye umntu, thumela umyalezo kwiselfowuni yakho okanye thumela ikhadi kunye nebinzana lakho olithandayo, isenzo sakho ngokuqinisekileyo asizukunakwa.
Amabinzana ekufuneka exolelwe liqabane lakho
Iingxabano zothando zihlala zisebenza lwenze ubudlelwane buphile, ukuba uyayiqonda ukuba ubaxile lixesha lokucela uxolo. Siyazi, rhoqo iimeko zobomi bemihla ngemihla zinzima kakhulu nditsho nobona budlelwane buqinileyo e ukusuka kwisibhengezo sigqiba siphikisana nangopopayi. Kwaye ekugqibeleni? Uyenza njani uxolo? Nazi ezimbalwa amabinzana onokuphefumlelwa ngawo.
- Uxolo kakhulu, ndiyathembisa ukuba kwixesha elizayo ndiza kukunika izitshixo zentliziyo yam. Ndixolele sithandwa sam. Engaziwa
- Ndiyaxolisa ngokwenzekileyo. Ndiyazi ukuba lityala lam kwaye ndiza kwenza yonke into ukulungisa impazamo yam. Ngoba ndiyakuthanda kwaye into yokugqibela endiyifunayo kukukubona usokola ngenxa yam. Engaziwa
- Masiyiyeke ingxabano siyeke iintliziyo zethu zithethe, uzobona ukuba bazokuvana kakuhle! Engaziwa
- Nceda undixolele injana yam endiyithandayo, ndiyakuthembisa ukuba ngekhe iphinde yenzeke, ukuba andisokuze ndonzakalise oyena mntu ndimthandayo emhlabeni! Engaziwa
- Ndiyaqonda ukuba uxolo lwam alonelanga kuwe, amagama ayabhabha kodwa ndiza kukuqinisekisa ngezibakala! Engaziwa
- Impazamo yam enkulu kukuvumela ukuba ukholelwe ukuba awubalulekanga kum. Akunjalo. Ukuphulukana nawe kuya kufana nokuphulukana neyona ndima ibaluleke kakhulu kum. Engaziwa
- Ndifunga kuwe ukuba andikaze ndifune ukukwenzakalisa, kananjalo kuba ndizenzele uthando lwam ... Ndixolele! Engaziwa
- Andijongi kwizizathu zokuxhasa into endiyenzileyo. I was wrong and I realised it too late. Ekuphela kwento endinokukuxelela yona kukuba ndiza kuzama ukubuyisa uthando lwakho kunye nokuthemba kwakho, imihla ngemihla. Engaziwa
- Ndihlala ngethemba lokuba awuyi kuhlala uyimemori entle ... ndifuna wena, undixolele! Engaziwa
- Into eyenzekileyo sisiqhamo soloyiko lwam lokusokola. Khange ndiqonde ukuba ngokwenza oko, siyasokola kubini. Ngoku ndinqwenela ukuba ndikwenze uqonde indlela obaluleke ngayo kum. Engaziwa
- Andifuni ukutshintsha into endiyenzileyo. Andinakuze ndithi yimpazamo engenatyala. Izono zam zininzi, zinzima njengamatye. Ndithatha uxanduva olupheleleyo ngayo. Ukusuka apha ndingathanda ukuqala ukubuyisela uthando lwakho. Engaziwa
- Uxolo sithandwa sam ukuba okwangoku andinakukunika uthando endilifunayo, ndizokwazi ukulwenza kuba ububomi bam. Engaziwa
- UXOLO-Kucacile ukuba ndilungile. Engaziwa
- Andifuni ukuba ibali lethu liphele ngenxa yokungaqondani, ndicela uxolo, ndiyakuthanda kakhulu ukuba ulahlekelwe nguwe. Engaziwa
- Ndifunga kuwe ukuba andikaze ndifune ukukwenzakalisa, kananjalo kuba ndizenzele uthando lwam ... Ndixolele! UKUYAengaziwa
- Xa wenzakalisa umntu omkhathalele kakhulu ehlabathini, akukho magama anokulungisa impazamo. Yiyo loo nto ndingazukucela uxolo ngamazwi kodwa ngezenzo. Iinyani ezincinci zemihla ngemihla, ukuba undinika ithuba. UKUYAengaziwa
- Uxolo xa ndinindulula, ndazisola ngokhetho lwam, kodwa namhlanje, kwaye kuphela namhlanje, ndikuqondile ukubaluleka kwakho. UKUYAengaziwa
Amabinzana axolelwe ngumhlobo
Ubuhlobo yeyona nto ixabisekileyo ebomini bomntu. Soloko ukwazi ukubala umhlobo, mfowunele ngexesha lokudinga e yiva ecaleni kwakho ayizizo izinto eziza kuthathelwa ingqalelo. Ngamanye amaxesha siyalibala kwaye yonke into ibonakala ngathi iyawa. Ingxoxo encinci inakho vusa imimoya kwaye uya kwikhefu. Unyango lukhona, amagama ambalwa alula anele.
- Ndingathanda ukunyamalala, ndenziwe nyani, ndenze impazamo kwaye ndicela uxolo! UKUYAengaziwa
- Ndiyazi ukuba ngokwenza uxolo andizukuwucima umonzakalo endikwenzileyo kuwe, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha ndizokwazi ukulufumana uxolelo lwakho. Engaziwa
- Ndiyazi ukuba ngokwenza uxolo andizukuwucima umonzakalo endikwenzileyo kuwe, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba ekuhambeni kwexesha ndizokwazi ukulufumana uxolelo lwakho. Engaziwa
- Ngelona xesha linzima, andikwazanga ukuba secaleni kwakho. Sisilonda esingazukuphola, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba uya kufuna ukundinika ithuba lokuliphilisa imihla ngemihla. Engaziwa
- Ndacinga ukuba ndiza kuxolisa ngokunikezela esi sigwebo kuwe, ndiyathemba ukuba ungabamkela kuba ndiyakuthanda ukufela. Engaziwa
- Ukubamba ingqumbo akukhokeleli kwinto elungileyo, ukuba bendiphosakele ndiyaxolisa, kodwa ndicela undixolele! Engaziwa
- Ndikuthiyile ukuxolisa, ke uyaqonda ukuba ezi zivakala nyhani! Ndixolele! Engaziwa
- Ungulomntu udibana naye xa ubomi buthatha isigqibo sokukunika isipho, ndiyazi ukuba ndiphosakele kwaye awunakuyiqonda indlela endimbi ngayo, andikaze ndifune ukuba ndikwazi ukubuyela kobo busuku ndikubone okokuqala kwaye uqale ngokutsha ngaphandle kweempazamo. Uxolo, ndiyakuthanda! Engaziwa
- Ndivuma nje ukuba bendiphazama kwaye ndicela uxolo, ungandixolela? Engaziwa
- Ngentliziyo yam yonke ... uxolo! Andilulo uhlobo lokucenga kodwa ngeli xesha ndikwenze mkhulu ... ndiyakucela ukuba ungabi nenqala kwaye wamkele uxolo lwam lokwenyani. Engaziwa
- Ndicinga ukuba into ebalulekileyo xa ungalunganga kukuyiqonda, thatha inyathelo umva kwaye uxolise! Sele ndiwagqibile la manyathelo mathathu, ndicela undixolele! Engaziwa
- Uxolo ngobubi endibuzise entliziyweni yakho, bendinethemba lokuba uyakundixolela kwaye uyirhoxise loo mini, nokuba iphawulwe nge-inki engacimekiyo, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba uyayifuna ayizukuza, ndiza kuqhubeka ithemba, uxolo. Engaziwa
Amabinzana ekufuneka exolelwe kusapho
Usapho luyaxabana mhlawumbi zezona zisenza sizive singalunganga. Usapho ngu indawo esizalelwe kuyo kwaye siyakhula, indawo ekhuselekileyo apho unokuhlala ufumana uthando. Rhoqo kukuhlala ngokuchanekileyo okuzisa iingxabano ezingenamsebenzi kunye neengxoxo kwi-ajenda. Oomama baba nomsindo kuba baziva bengahoywanga, oobawo abamanyelwanga kwaye i abantwana bakhalaza ukuba abaqondwa. Ukulungisa e ndicela uxolo kumama, al UPapa, iya ku ubhuti okanye udade, Nazi ezinye izimvo.
- Ngamanye amaxesha uxolo alonelanga, ndiyabona, ixesha liyakulungisa izinto ... Okwangoku, ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndiyothuka kakhulu yile nto yenzekileyo. Engaziwa
- Uxolo ngayo yonke into endiyenzileyo, kwaye zininzi izinto, kodwa njengoko sonke sisazi, owethu nguThixo oxolelayo kwaye kufuneka sonke silandele umzekelo wakhe. Uxolo Mama xa unovalo kungathatha nam ndikwenze umsindo, kodwa ndicela undixolele! Engaziwa
- Uxolo ngomonakalo endikwenzileyo kuwe, andisoze ndikwazi ukukulibala, ndifuna ukukhanyisa uncumo apho ndilucimileyo khona ukuze ndikwazi ukuvuselela intliziyo yakho ... NDIXOLELE UKUBA UNAKO! Engaziwa
- Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuxolisa akunakunceda kodwa, kwelam icala, ndiyakuthembisa ngekhe iphinde yenzeke, ndikholelwe ... Engaziwa
- Ndiyaxolisa ngokukuphoxa, ndiyazi ukuba uxolo aluzukunceda nganto, kodwa ndiyathemba ukuba ungandixolela ngenye imini. Engaziwa
- Ndingathanda ukunyamalala, ndenziwe nyani, ndenze impazamo kwaye ndicela uxolo! Engaziwa
- Xa wenze impazamo uyaxolisa, ndizakucela uxolo emadolweni, ndibaxekile kwaye akukho namanye amagama onokuwathetha okanye umqondiso omele ukwenziwa. Engaziwa
- Ndiyazi ukuba kuzobanzima ukuxolelwa kodwa ndiye ndabona ukuba ndiyaphazama kwaye ukuba ndingabuyela umva andizuphinda. Engaziwa
- Kuya kufuneka uzivume iimpazamo zakho kwaye uthathe uxanduva ngazo, ndicela undixolele, ayizuphinda yenzeke! Engaziwa
- Ndacinga ukuba ndiza kuxolisa ngokunikezela esi sigwebo kuwe, ndiyathemba ukuba ungabamkela kuba ndiyakuthanda ukufela. Engaziwa
- Ukubamba ingqumbo akukhokeleli kwinto elungileyo, ukuba bendiphosakele ndiyaxolisa, kodwa ndicela undixolele! Engaziwa
- Ndikwenza izizathu ezizigidi, bendiphosakele kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba andizukuphinda ndibuyele kwimpazamo. Ndixolele! Engaziwa
- Ukuba uyandixolela, ndiza kukubuyisela umnyama, ndiza kukupheka eyona pie iphucukileyo emhlabeni, ndikuboleke izihlangu ozithandayo, uhlambe imoto yakho kwaye ndikuncede uncume. Engaziwa
- Ndicinga ukuba into ebalulekileyo xa ungalunganga kukuyiqonda, thatha inyathelo umva kwaye uxolise! Sele ndiwagqibile la manyathelo mathathu, ndicela undixolele! Engaziwa
- Uxolo ngobubi endibuzise entliziyweni yakho, bendinethemba lokuba uyakundixolela kwaye uyirhoxise loo mini, nokuba iphawulwe nge-inki engacimekiyo, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba uyayifuna ayizukuza, ndiza kuqhubeka ithemba, uxolo. Engaziwa
Amabinzana awaziwayo ukuba axolelwe
- Uxolelo alutshintshi elidlulileyo, lwandisa ikamva. UPaul Boese
- Sonke sixutywe nobuthathaka kunye neempazamo; masixolelane ububhanxa bethu: lo ngumthetho wokuqala wendalo. Voltaire
- Indoda exolelayo yomelele kunendoda ekulweni. UNathan Croall
- Uxolelo 'yimemori ekhethiweyo' -isigqibo esifanelekileyo sokugxila kuthando kwaye uyeke konke okunye. Marianne Williamson
- Uxolelo sihombo sabomeleleyo. Gandhi
- Ukwenza impazamo ngumntu, ukuxolela kungcwele, ndixolele, ndiyakuthanda. UAlexander Pope
- Yithande inyaniso kodwa uxolele impazamo. Voltaire
- Akukho luxolo ngaphandle kobulungisa, akukho bulungisa ngaphandle kokuxolelwa. UKarol Wojtyla
- Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuthanda, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuxolela. Umama uTeresa waseCalcutta
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