"Mbiri ya dziko lapansi ili yodzaza ndi amuna omwe abwera ku utsogoleri chifukwa cha kudzidalira, kulimba mtima ndi kusasunthika". adatero Mahatma Gandhi, m'modzi mwa atsogoleri olimbikitsa kwambiri nthawi zonse.
Komabe, kupeza atsogoleri apamwamba sikophweka. Bungwe lililonse lolemba anthu ntchito komanso kulemba anthu ntchito limadziwa bwino izi. Pali mapulogalamu a maphunziro omwe amaphunzitsa mitundu ya utsogoleri ndi njira zothandiza kwambiri zotsogola kuchokera kumagulu ang'onoang'ono amalonda kupita ku kampani yaikulu. Koma atsogoleri owona, omwe amatsutsa anthu ku zotsatira zodabwitsa, ali ndi chinthu china: kumvetsetsa kwakukulu kwa psyche yaumunthu.
Pazifukwa izi, mabungwe omwe amagwira ntchito yofufuza ndi kusankha oyang'anira ndi oyang'anira samangofunafuna oyang'anira omwe ali ndi maphunziro olimba, komanso anthu omwe ali ndi luso la utsogoleri omwe angathe kuchita bwino ntchito zazikulu. Mtsogoleri wabwino samangodziwa momwe angayendetsere khalidwe la omwe amamutsatira, komanso amamvetsetsa mphamvu zamaganizo zomwe zimawatsogolera kuti athe kulimbana bwino ndi zopinga zomwe amaimira.
Zovuta zazikulu za mtsogoleri panjira
Kutsitsa
Chilimbikitso ndicho maziko a makhalidwe athu. M’lingaliro lenileni, tinalinganizidwa kupeŵa zimene zimatipweteka ndi zosakondweretsa ndi kuyang’ana zinthu zimene zimatipatsa chimwemwe ndi kutipangitsa kukhala osangalala.
Komabe, nthawi zina zabwino mwa ife zimatuluka pamene tasankha kudzipereka kuti tipeze ubwino waukulu. Tikaganiza zodumpha mphotho zanthawi yomweyo ndikudzikakamiza tokha kuti tikwaniritse maloto.
Mtsogoleri wabwino ayenera kudziwa njira yovuta iyi yolimbikitsira. Iyenera kudziwa zomwe zimalimbikitsa anthu kuti adziwe momwe angathere kuti akwaniritse cholinga chimodzi.
Zowonadi, zoyeserera zochititsa chidwi kwambiri za ogwira ntchito ku India ndi United States zawulula chodabwitsa chowoneka ngati chotsutsana: malipiro apamwamba amakhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa pantchito. Mafotokozedwe ake ndi osavuta: kugwira ntchito chifukwa cha ndalama zokha kumapangitsa anthu kutaya chidwi ndikusiya kusangalala ndi ntchito yawo. Amadzimva ngati makutu m'makina ndipo amakhala otalikirana, kotero kuti ntchito imataya tanthauzo.
M’malo mwake, mtsogoleri wabwino amathandiza anthu kudzimva kuti ali nawo pa zimene amachita. Zimawalimbikitsa ndi kuwathandiza kupeza tanthauzo. Mwanjira imeneyi adzatha kulimbana ndi zopinga zimene zidzabuka m’njira motsimikiza mtima ndi mwachidwi.
Resistenza al cambimento
Dziko likusintha mosalekeza. Izi zimapanga kumverera kosatetezeka ndi kusatsimikizika komwe kumakhala kovuta kuthana nako. Mtsogoleri wabwino, komabe, amamvetsetsa mikhalidwe yamalingaliro awa ndikuwongolera m'njira yoyenera kuti asakhale lupanga lakuthwa konsekonse.
Atsogoleri amadziwa kuti kutsimikizika komwe kulipo ndikusintha, kotero iwo ali okonzeka kukumana ndi kukana kusintha komwe nthawi zambiri kumachitika chifukwa cha zochitika zosatsimikizika kwambiri.
Tsogolo likakhala losadziwika bwino, timakhala ndi chizolowezi chobwerera m’mbuyo ndi kukakamira zimene timadziwa. Chiŵalo chabanja chimakhala gwero la chisungiko chimene chimatipatsa chidaliro pamene kusintha kumawonedwa kukhala kowopsa.
Pazochitikazi, chiopsezo chachikulu ndi ziwalo. Pamene anthu akuyenera kupanga zisankho pamikhalidwe yosamvetsetseka, nthawi zambiri sakonda kuchita kalikonse. Zikatero, mantha osintha amakhala aakulu kwambiri moti amalepheretsa kupita patsogolo.
Izi zikachitika, atsogoleri amatha kukhala nangula. Pomasulira mawu a Publilius Syrus, ndimatha kugwira chiwongolero pamene nyanja yachita mafunde, osati pakakhala bata. Amapereka chidaliro ndi chidaliro chofunikira kuti apitirize kuyenda m'madzi amphamvu akusintha. Amathandiza anthu kuganizira kwambiri zomwe angapindule, m'malo mongoyang'ana zomwe akutaya chifukwa cha kusintha. Choncho bungwe kapena kampani ikhoza kupita patsogolo.
Kutaya mtima
Ntchito iliyonse nthawi zambiri imafika pomwe imawonongeka kapena zopinga zomwe zikuwoneka kuti sizingatheke. Pambuyo pa kuyesayesa kwakukulu komwe nthawi, mphamvu ndi chuma zakhala zikugwiritsidwa ntchito popanda kuwona zotsatira, anthu ambiri amaponya thaulo. Kutaya mtima kukukulirakulira, ndikusiya chophimba cha kugonja.
Atsogoleri abwino amatha kumva chisoni ndi malingaliro amenewo. M'malo monyalanyaza kapena kuchepetsa, amawatsimikizira ndikulimbikitsa anthu kuti apite patsogolo. Iwo amadziŵa za tsankho lopanda chiyembekezo limenelo limene limakhala mwa ife tonse ndipo limatichititsa kuganiza mopambanitsa kuthekera kwa zinthu zoipa zimene zingachitike mwa kupeputsa kuthekera kwa zochitika zabwino.
Amamvetsetsa kuti kukayikira kumatipangitsa kuyang'ana mwatsatanetsatane ndikuwunikira chilichonse chomwe chidalakwika. M'mikhalidwe yamdima iyi, atsogoleri amakulitsa chiyembekezo. Amatha kukhalabe ndi masomphenya a dziko lonse lapansi ndikupereka lingaliro lawo lamtsogolo kuti awononge ena ndi chiyembekezo chawo, chiyembekezo chomwe sichimangokhala chopanda pake koma chowona.
Mwachidule, atsogoleri abwino amatha kuona zomwe ena amanyalanyaza. Amalumikizana ndi momwe anthu akumvera, koma amasunganso malingaliro apadziko lonse lapansi omwe amawathandiza kupanga zisankho zanzeru kuti akwaniritse zolinga zazikulu zofanana. Monga Napoliyoni adanena, “Mtsogoleri ndi wopereka chiyembekezo”.
Chitsime:
Ariely, D. et. Al. (2005) Zochita zazikulu ndi zolakwika zazikulu. Kubwereza maphunziro a zachuma; 76:5-11 .
Pakhomo Zopinga zitatu zamaganizidwe zomwe atsogoleri akulu amadziwa momwe angayendetsere idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.
