Aliyense m'moyo wathu takumanapo ndi m'modzi wanjanji! Ngati zakuchitikirani kamodzi kapena zingapo muyenera kuthana ndi anthu omwe ali awo khalidwe adakupangitsani kuvutika ndipo mukukhulupirira kuti cholakwacho ndi chanu chifukwa simudziwa msanga omwe mukuwatsogolera, dzitsimikizireni! Aliyense zimachitika kuti akope munthu wolakwika ndipo mutha kunena kuti mwakumana naye m'modzi sociopath mu mnofu ndi magazi.
Sociopath: timaphunzira kumuzindikira
Psychopathy ndimatenda azachipatala omwe amawonetsa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto lalikulu la umunthu. Mawuwa nthawi zina amatanthauza anthu omwe mwanjira inayake amakhala ovulaza thanzi la omwe amakhazikitsa ubale nawo: tikulankhula za adani, mwachitsanzo. Mwa zina zamatenda okhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu timapeza kusiyanasiyana katatu, vuto losavomerezeka ndi anthu (DAP), narcissistic one (DNP) ndipo pamapeto pake m'malire (DBP). Chiyambi chachipatala cha matendawa ndi chovuta:pali ena omwe amapeza zomwe zimayambitsa chibadwa, omwe amati zoyambitsa chilengedwe, masukulu ena amaganiza amakonda zosakanikirana, nthawi zonse pakati pa majini ndi chilengedwe. Yemwe ali ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu nthawi zambiri amatchedwa sociopath. Maphunzirowa amatenga malingaliro onyenga ndipo amakhala atavala chovala kumaso mbali imodzi kuti abise umunthu wawo weniweniwo kuti akondweretse omwe angazunzidwe ndikukonzekera njira yokwaniritsira zolinga zake. Komabe, pali zingapo zizindikiro kapena zizindikilo zomwe zingawulule kupezeka kwa vutoli, zina zowonekera bwino komanso zowonekera, zina zosadziwika komanso zosawonekera.
Ma Sociopaths ndi omwe amadya anzawo, chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha anthu amagwiritsa ntchito munthu wina kapena anthu ena kuti akwaniritse zolinga zosiyanasiyana zomwe ali nazo m'malingaliro, kuyambira ndalama mpaka mphamvu mpaka chisangalalo chogonana. Kusokonezeka kwawo kumawatsogolera kukokomeza, kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo zovuta samayang'ana aliyense, m'malo mwake amapusitsa anthu ngati zidole zomwe zimasewera ndi malingaliro awo. Zowonongeka zomwe sociopath imatha kubweretsa m'moyo wanu ndizambiri, zoopsa, zonse zakuthupi ndi zamaganizidwe ngakhale kutayika kwakukulu kwa ndalama, ngakhale kukhala bankirapuse. Zonsezi chifukwa psychopath satha kuchita manyazi komanso kumvera ena chisoni ndipo salemekeza malamulo, mosasamala kanthu!
Sociopath ilipo: khalani kutali!
Zachidziwikire kuti palibe ma sociopath okha komanso ma sociopath. Muyenera kukhala kutali ndi anthuwa chifukwa amatha kupanga mavuto akulu m'moyo wanu, kusintha malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu, kukunyengeni komanso koposa zonse kukukhumudwitsani. Khalidwe la chikhalidwe cha anthu ndilosiyana kwambiri ndi misala, sociopath siopusa! Ndi munthu wochenjera kwambiri komanso wochenjera, nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mphatso yamatsenga, chikhalidwe komanso kuthekera kwakukulu kuti amukope. Poyamba amawoneka ngati munthu wangwiro, wamwamuna kapena wamkazi woyenera, wowala, wokondedwa Zilonda zofanizira zokha!). Simukufuna kuti muzunzidwe sichoncho? Chifukwa chake ngati mukukhala pachibwenzi chomwe chimakupweteketsani, ngati mukumva kuti wokondedwa wanu amayendetsa moyo wanu, kapena amakwaniritsa zosankha zanu tsiku lililonse, osadikira kenaka kuthawa, chifukwa ndi anthu otere chifukwa chamakhalidwe awo vutoli limatha kusintha nthawi iliyonse.
Zero kulakwa ndi zizindikiro zina zonse
Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina, 1% mpaka 4% ya anthu padziko lapansi amakhudzidwa ndi matenda amisala. Ena mwa anthuwa awonetsa kale zachiwawa, ndipo mwina ali m'ndende, koma ena alipo, okonzeka kufanana ndi anthu wamba, komanso okonzeka kulowa moyo wa wina, kusokoneza, kuphwanya chilichonse ndi chilichonse kuti apeze zomwe akufuna. Ndipo samva chisoni kapena kudzimva olakwa: chisokonezo chomwe ali nacho chimawapangitsa kudzikonda pamlingo wa nth! Iwo samangokhala pachabe! Nkhaniyi imatiwonetsanso kwa ife, nthawi zambiri chikhalidwe cha anthu sichimangodzipweteketsa kuti awononge moyo wa wovulalayo, amabweranso mumuphe! Chitani zonse kuti mukhale kutali ndi anthuwa chifukwa ndiowononga thanzi lanu ndipo koposa zonse amakulepheretsani kuthamangitsa tsiku lililonse chinthu chofunikira kwambiri: chisangalalo chanu!
Izi ndizo zikhalidwe zomwe muyenera kumayang'anitsitsa
Chikhalidwe choyamba cha munthu yemwe ali ndi vuto la chikhalidwe cha anthu ndikuti poyamba amawoneka "abwino kwambiri kuti sangakhale owona". Mnzanu wangwiro, wachikondi komanso wosamala, bwana wabwino, mnzake wabwino. Ngati zikumveka "zabwino kwambiri kuti zisakhale zoona" mwina sichoncho. Izi ndi zopeka, sewero loti likuthandizeni. Kumbukirani, ma sociopath nthawi zonse amanama komanso pazifukwa chikwi: amanama nthawi zonse chifukwa akufuna kusokoneza chilichonse ndi aliyense ndipo muziyang'anira momwe zinthu ziliri. Ndiwankhanza, chifukwa amangoganizira cholinga chawo chokwaniritsa ndipo potero samayang'ana aliyense. Samalani ndi zizindikilo zonsezi! Chikhalidwe china cha ma sociopath ndikuti nthawi zambiri alibe abwenzi, alibe anzawo wamba kapena abale omwe amawazungulira, m'malo mwake, nthawi zambiri adasokoneza ubale wawo ndi banja lomwe adachokera. Izi ziyenera kukupangitsani kukhala okayikira nthawi zonse! Nthawi zonse amakhala anthu ozizira omwe sataya nthawi, nthawi yomweyo ndi omwewo amawongolera chilichonse, sindikudziwa mantha kapena chisoni, kapena nkhawa kapena manyazi. Anthu ambiri amakhala ndi machitidwe osakhulupirika ndipo amakonda okonda zachiwerewere komanso osachita nawo zikhalidwe. Kuphatikiza pa kugonana, chilichonse m'moyo wawo chimagwira ngati ichi, monga kufunafuna zatsopano, chisangalalo chachilendo. Amatopa msanga. Pomaliza, sociopath ndiwosakhazikika ndipo sakonda malamulo, amadziona kuti ndiwopadera komanso wamba chifukwa sangathe kuvomereza kutsatira malamulo omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa aliyense. Zizindikiro zina zakusokonekera kwa anthu? Ma Sociopaths nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nkhanza komanso nkhanza mankhwala ndi mowa. Amatopa msanga, amachita zinthu mopupuluma, amakwapulidwa, amadzidalira, ndipo sakonda kutengaudindo.
Kusokonekera kwa chikhalidwe ndi vuto lomwe limalepheretsa kutsatira miyambo yabwinowa pagulu.
Kodi sociopath ingachiritsidwe?
Kuchuluka kwa psychopathy ndikofunikira kwambiri pakudziwitsa zomwe zingachitike. Komabe, ndibwino kuti nthawi zonse muzikumbukira kuti munthu wokhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu sakuvomereza kuti ali wodwala komanso kuti adziwe matendawa: ndipo posafuna kuchira, palibe chithandizo kapena chithandizo chomwe chingamuthandize. Kuti apange chitukuko chenicheni sociopath ayenera kudziwa kaye momwe zinthu ziliri ndipo izi ndizovuta kwambiri. Pewani kuyesedwa kuti mumupulumutse, ndi nthawi yowonongeka!
Kusanthula Kwachikhalidwe
Kuzindikira zenizeni kwa matenda amisala sikunapangidwe asanakwanitse zaka 18, koma nthawi zina, machitidwe ena aana amatha kuyambitsa chenjezo, mwachitsanzo ngati mwanayo amachita zamakhalidwe oyipa, akuba, kuyatsa moto ndikuwonetsa nkhanza kwa nyama kapena anthu. . Sitiyenera kusokoneza malingaliro ocheperako ochepera a ana ndi matendawa koma nthawi yomweyo tiyenera kuyang'anitsitsa zokonda izi komanso mawonekedwe a mwana chifukwa pamapeto pake zitha kuthandiza kunena zambiri za umunthu wa munthu.
Ngati munthu yemwe ali ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu atuluka m'moyo wanu Muyenera kukhala osangalala chifukwa mwachotsa chiwopsezo chenicheni ku chisangalalo chanu komanso moyo wanu. Zonsezi sizinali chikondi chifukwa monga tawonera kuti anthu sangakhale ndi malingaliro awa kwa wina aliyense kupatula kudzidalira kwake ndi zokhumba zake. Zachidziwikire osaganizira zobwerera naye! Kuganiza kuti zisintha sikungakhale kothandiza. Ndipo ngati mukuvutika kuchokera kumapeto kwa paubwenzi, gwiritsitsani: zonse zidzadutsa! Yesetsani kudzizungulira ndi anthu omwe mumawakhulupirira kotero kuti mumatero abwenzi enieni ingakuthandizeni kutuluka. Komanso onaninso ngati mukufuna thandizo lalingaliro lazambiri nthawi zambiri zitha kukhala zothandiza kufupikitsa nthawi zamasautso ndikuukanso. Kapena sinthani mawonekedwe anu! Mwina kudzilola nokha kudzoza sintha mawonekedwe ako a nyenyezi omwe ali osakwatiranso!
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