Oubaitori, lingaliro la filosofi ya ku Japan louziridwa ndi maluwa

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Tikukhala m’chitaganya champikisano kwambiri. Zotsatira zake, timakonda kukumana nthawi zonse komanso pafupifupi m'magawo onse. Timadziyerekezera ndi anansi athu, anzathu, akatswiri ena, ngakhalenso anthu otchuka. Koma kufananiza koteroko kumavulaza kwambiri kuposa zabwino, makamaka popeza nthawi zonse padzakhala malo amodzi omwe timafika poipa kwambiri. Nthawi zonse tidzapeza wina wopambana, woyenerera kapena wokongola. Kumbali ina, m'Chijapani, pali mawu omwe amatha kukhala ngati mankhwala othana ndi chizolowezi ichi poyerekezera: oubaitors.

Tanthauzo lamtengo wapatali la oubaitors

Oubaitori zalembedwa kuti “桜梅桃李” m’Chijapanizi. Chosangalatsa ndichakuti munthu aliyense payekha amayimira duwa losiyana: chitumbuwa, maapricots, pichesi, ndi maula.

Mitengoyi imaphuka mu kasupe, nyengo yomwe imakhala yochititsa chidwi kwambiri ku Japan, ikusambitsa malo amtundu wa pinki, mauve, ofiira ndi oyera. Nthawi zambiri mitengo imeneyi imamera moyandikana, koma iliyonse imaphuka motsatira dongosolo, mawonekedwe komanso nthawi.

Zonse zimabweretsa china chapadera kuderali. Aliyense amakongoletsa mwa njira yake. Ichi ndichifukwa chake liwu lachijapani loti oubaitori lili ndi lingaliro la kusafananiza. Ngakhale kuti mitengo yonseyi imatulutsa maluwa okongola amene amapsa n’kukhala zipatso zowutsa mudyo, oubaitori amakondwerera kuti mtengo uliwonse ndi wapadera. Choncho, maluwa ake kapena zipatso zake sizingafanane.

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Oubaitori ndi lingaliro la Chijapani lomwe limatenga lingaliro ili ndikuligwiritsa ntchito kwa anthu.

Duwa lirilonse, likukula pa liwiro lake, ndi mitundu yake, zonunkhira ndi zipatso zomaliza, ndichikumbutso chamuyaya kuti tonse tili paulendo kamodzi kamodzi pa moyo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti n’zopanda nzeru kudziyerekezera ndi ena, koma ndi bwino kuganizira kwambiri za kukula kwathu ndi kuyamikira zimene zimatipangitsa kukhala apadera.

Monga momwe maluwa amakulira mosiyana, anthu amakulanso mosiyana. Tonse ndife osiyana. Tili ndi maluso osiyanasiyana komanso zokonda. Timatsatira njira zosiyanasiyana. Tili ndi zolinga zosiyana. Ndipo tiyenera kunyadira zimene zimatipanga kukhala apadera.

Ubwino wa kukumbatiraoubaitors

Theodore Roosevelt ananena zimenezo "kufanizira ndi mbala ya chisangalalo". Tikamadziyerekeza tokha ndi ena timatha kuona zinthu kuchokera ku zomwe takumana nazo. Timatenga kawonedwe kakang'ono chifukwa tilibe chithunzi chonse cha ulendo wa munthu winayo ndipo mwina sitidziwa zenizeni zake bwino kuti tikhazikitse miyezo yofananira.

Aliyense amangogawana zomwe akufuna kuti ena awone, kotero kuyerekeza kulikonse kumatha kukhala kokondera. Izi zitha kutipangitsa kuti tizidziweruza tokha mwankhanza kwambiri kapena kudzichepetsera tokha chifukwa nthawi zambiri timatha kukumana ndi zithunzi zowoneka bwino kapena zopotoka.

chitaoubaitors, kumbali ina, imatilola kuti tituluke muzoyerekeza zapoizoni. Zidzatipangitsa kukhala odzidalira kwambiri, okondwa komanso mwina kuwonjezera chidaliro chathu mu luso lathu.

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M’malo mokhumudwa chifukwa chakuti sitinathe kufika patali ngati wina aliyense, tingamve kuti tili ndi mphamvu zoti tafika patali kwambiri. Kusinthaku kumachitika chifukwa timasiya kuyang'ana kuti tiwone mbiri ya moyo wathu. Timaganizira poyambira komanso zinthu zomwe tinali nazo kuti tipange ulendo wathu.

Lingaliro la oubaitors ingathenso kuchita ngati mphamvu yoyendetsa galimoto. Imatilimbikitsa kuti tichite bwino tsiku lililonse kutengera njira yokhayo yomwe tingathe: tokha.

Njira 5 zochitira luso laoubaitors

1. Dziwani zanu zokambirana zamkati. kuchita zaoubaitors choyamba muyenera kusiya chizoloŵezi chodziyerekezera ndi ena. Choncho, muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa malingaliro anu, makamaka kutsutsa kowononga komwe kumabwera ndi kufananitsa.

2. Dzichitireni chifundo. Oubaitori sizikutanthauza kungosiya kuyerekeza, komanso kuzindikira kuti munthu ndi wapadera. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kuphunzira kudzichitira nokha mokoma mtima, kudzikumbutsa za mphamvu zanu, luso lanu, ndi zomwe mwakwaniritsa m'malo momangodzilanga nokha chifukwa cha zolakwa zanu.

3. Khalani ndi chizolowezi choyamikira. Kusunga buku loyamikira kapena kukumbukira zinthu zitatu zomwe mumayamikira tsiku lililonse kudzakuthandizani kusintha maganizo anu ndikudziganizira nokha ndi zonse zomwe moyo wakupatsani kapena kupindula, m'malo moyang'ana mosalekeza kwa ena ndi zina zonse. Mwanjira iyi mutha kukhala otsimikiza kwambiri ndipo simudzadziweruza nokha mwankhanza.

4. Muziganizira kwambiri zimene mungathe kuchita. M'malo modandaula ndi zomwe mukusowa, muyenera kuphunzira kusewera ndi mphamvu zanu. Zili ndi inu kugwiritsa ntchito maluso amenewo kuti mugwiritse ntchito mwayi womwe moyo umakupatsani. Kusintha kwa kawonedwe kotereku kudzakupatsani chilimbikitso chowonjezereka kuti mupite patsogolo ndi kukwaniritsa maloto anu.


5. Gwiritsani ntchito kupambana kwa ena monga mphamvu yoyendetsera galimoto. Ngati angathe, bwanji osatero? Zachidziwikire mudzakumana ndi zopinga, zopinga ndi zovuta panjira, koma mutha kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe ena akwaniritsa ngati mphamvu yoyendetsera. Osafanizira kupambana kwawo ndi kwanu, ingogwiritsani ntchito ngati olimbikitsa kuti muyesetse kwambiri ndikudzikhulupirira nokha.

Landirani lingaliro la filosofi ya oubaitorsPamapeto pake, zimatithandiza kukhala ndi maganizo abwino, zimatithandiza kukhala osangalala komanso zimatsegula chitseko cha kukula kwathu. Ndiko kusintha koyenera.

Pakhomo Oubaitori, lingaliro la filosofi ya ku Japan louziridwa ndi maluwa idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.

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