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Kodi mudakhalapo ndi munthu yemwe akuwoneka kuti akuwala komwe kumapangitsa aliyense kukhala wosangalala?
Ndipo momwemonso: kodi mudakhalapo ndi munthu wosasangalala kwambiri, yemwe akuwoneka kuti akupereka mayiyu olakwika, mpaka kuyamwa chisangalalo cha aliyense womuzungulira?
Ma Vampire kapena omwe amapereka mphamvu?
Kuphatikiza pa mizukwa yamphamvu, palinso opatsa mphamvu zabwino; aliyense wa ife, ngakhale atakhala wosazindikira, amatulutsa mphamvu, yomwe ikhoza kukhala yabwino kapena yoyipa: kulumikizana ndi munthu wina kumapanga ngati mitengo iwiri yomwe imatha kukopa kapena kuchotsedwa.
Sikoyenera kukhala ndi mphamvu zowoneka kuti muzindikire mphamvu zabwino kapena zoipa zomwe anthu ena amapereka, ndi mphamvu zenizeni zenizeni.
Kuti mumve zambiri, ndikupangira kuwerenga nkhaniyi Mbala za mphamvu: "Mazi yoyipa yodziwika bwino komanso mzukwa wosadziwa"
Kodi china chake chachitika chomwe chakupatsani chimwemwe, chiyembekezo, kupanga bwino komanso kukhala wathanzi? Muyenera kuti mwapatsidwapo mphamvu ndi wopereka mphamvu.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti mphamvu yabwino yamagetsi imathandizanso osati kungopatsa malingaliro komanso kuchiritsa kwakuthupi. Anthu amalimbikitsidwa kuti apange zisankho zabwino akawona anzawo owazungulira akuchita zomwezo
Ndani omwe amapereka mphamvu zabwino?
Ndiwo anthu omwe, ngakhale ali ndi chilichonse, amakhalabe osangalala, achimwemwe, otakataka. Sikuti anthuwa samva kuwawa kapena kumva chisoni, samachita dzanzi, komanso alibe moyo wovutikira, wopanda mavuto. "Mwachidule", samatha kuthana ndi malingaliro olakwika ndikusangalala ndi zinthu zabwino m'moyo.
Nazi zina mwamakhalidwe amtunduwu wa anthu; zizolowezi zomwe titha kuzisintha ndikupanga zomwezonso kuti tizikhala bwino, osangalala kwambiri.
Amayamikira moyo
Ndiwo anthu omwe aphunzira kukhala ndi chidwi chodalira za moyo poyang'ana kukongola kwa chilichonse. Amayamika chifukwa chodzuka m'mawa uliwonse; amatenga zabwino kwambiri tsiku lililonse pamoyo wawo, samatenga chilichonse mopepuka ndipo amaphunzira kuyamikira kukongola komwe kumawazungulira, muzinthu zambiri, kuyambira zazing'ono mpaka zazikulu kwambiri, monga ana.
Amaseka kwambiri
Nthawi zonse amaseka, amadziwa kuti kumwetulira kuli ndi maubwino osawerengeka pa iwo. Samadziona kuti ndi ofunika kwambiri kapena samangodziona ngati ofunika kwambiri; Amagwiritsa ntchito mpata uliwonse kuseka. Bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito mwayi? Zingakuchitireni zabwino zokha.
Amakhala ndi chiyembekezo
Amayesa kuwona mbali yowala yamtundu uliwonse. Ngakhale mikhalidwe yomwe imawoneka ngati yoyipa, amatha kuzindikira mbali imodzi yabwino: itha kukhala nkhani yophunzira china chake kuchokera pakulakwitsa, mwayi wopitilira mayeso osapitilira, ndi zina zambiri. Kungakhale kovuta kupeza, koma malinga ndi iwo, mbali yowala nthawi zonse imakhalapo. Bwanji osayesetsa kuti mupeze nokha ndikukhala m'malo mwa malingaliro olakwika ndi abwino?
Ndi okoma mtima
Nthawi zonse amalemekeza anthu ena, mosasamala kanthu kuti ndi ndani, amachita chiyani, amakhala kuti ndi ena otani. Akakwanitsa, amathandizira ena, osafuna kubwezeredwa chilichonse. Ndiowolowa manja komanso okoma mtima. Bwanji osayesa ndi kukoma mtima kwanu kusintha tsiku la omwe ali patsogolo panu, kukhala bwino?
Sasiya kuphunzira
Nthawi zonse amakhala okonzekera zinthu zomwe zimakhudza ntchito komanso zokhumba za ena. Bwanji osayesa zinthu zatsopano zomwe zimakupangitsani chidwi kapena zinthu zomwe mwakhala mukufuna kuchita nthawi zonse?
Amakonda zomwe amachita
Amamvetsetsa kuti chisangalalo sichimachita zomwe mumakonda, koma kukonda zomwe mumachita. Ngati moyo wanu ukufuna kungopeza chuma ndikukhala wamphamvu tsiku lililonse, ndikukutsimikizirani kuti simudzapeza chimwemwe.
Amasangalala ndi moyo
Amadziwa kupatula nthawi kuti asangalale ndi zokongola zowazungulira. Sapanga ntchito kukhala gawo lofunikira pamoyo wawo, amadziwa kuti pali zina zambiri. Aphunzira kukhala pano komanso kuyamikira malo omwe ali. Sanakodwe m'mbuyomu kapena kutsekeredwa ndi malingaliro awo nthawi zonse mtsogolo. Amakhala tsiku ndi tsiku, mphindi ndi mphindi. Bwanji osayesa kuthera nthawi yambiri ndi anthu omwe mumawakonda kapena mwina kukwera pakati pazachilengedwe?
Amasankha mabwenzi mwanzeru
Amangodzizungulira okha ndi anthu abwino, omwe ali ndi malingaliro ofanana ndi awo ndipo amagawana zolinga zawo. Bwanji osayesanso kusankha ndi anzanu?
Amakhululuka
Opereka magetsi amadziwa kuti kusunga chakukhosi kumangodzivulaza, sikutipezera chilichonse. Amadziwanso momwe angadzikhululukire akalakwitsa, chifukwa amamvetsetsa kuti pophunzira pazolakwitsa ndizotheka kupewa kubwereza. Bwanji osayamba pano kuti musamadzipanikizire nokha komanso anzanu?
Ali ndi malingaliro oyamikira
Aphunzira kuyamikira pazonse ali nazo. Amasanthula moyo wawo, poganizira zinthu zambiri zomwe ayenera kuyamika: kuchokera kunyumba kukagwira ntchito, kuchokera kwa abwenzi mpaka mabanja, ndi zina zotero, ngakhale kudutsa zinthu wamba. Bwanji osayang'ana pa zabwino m'malo moyang'ana zoyipa?
Amakhala ndi ubale wabwino
Amakhala maubale mdzina la kulemekezana, kudalirana, chisangalalo komanso moyo wabwino wa banjali. Mumakhala bwanji pachibwenzi?
Iwo saweruza anzawo
Samangoganizira za miyoyo ya ena, pa zomwe amachita kapena kunena. Iwo samaweruza. Amadziwa bwino kuti aliyense ali ndi ufulu wokhala moyo momwe angafunire, kuphatikiza zawo.
Sanataye mtima
Ngati akufuna kukwaniritsa china chake, chaching'ono kapena chachikulu, amayesetsa kuti akwaniritse; sataya mtima. Amapanga dongosolo lochitapo kanthu ndikuchitapo kanthu .... ndipo ngati alephera, amayesanso. Amadziwa kuti akagwa akhoza kudzukanso. Bwanji osayesa kudzipangira cholinga chaching'ono?
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