Mwagona ndi anthu angati? Ichi ndichifukwa chake muyenera kuuza mnzanu

Ndife pano. Mukukhala pachibwenzi ndi bambo wokongola kwambiri wazaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu zapitazi, kumva bwino pabedi ndi pabedi, muli pafupi kwambiri kuti mufike pazomvana pakati pa ufulu ndi moyo wa banja koma pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe simunalankhulepo: chiwerengero cha anthu omwe mwagona nawo.

Wokhala chete, mu 2015 (komanso m'badwo wathu) palibe amene amayembekeza kuti mukhale yoyera ngati madzi a kasupe ndipo palibe chifukwa choganiza kuti iyenso ali pamapewa ake (kapena pansi pa lamba wake) zokumana ndi mbalame yachinyamata. Koma nchifukwa ninji nkhaniyi ikuwonekabe kuti ndi yoletsa? Yemwe amakuweruzani pazomwe mwakumana nazo mwina sadzakhala kwenikweni kukhala nanu.

Kugonana ndikusankha, ndipo aliyense ayenera kukhala womasuka kutero - mochuluka kapena pang'ono - osawopa zomwe ena angaganize. Mnzako yemwe anali ndi amuna awiri sabata sabata yatha ku koleji si munthu wabwino? Komanso yemwe wakhala wokondwa mosangalala komanso wokhulupirika kwa mnyamata yemweyo kwazaka khumi.

Chifukwa chiyani, ndiye, simukufuna kumuuza mnzanu za izi? Ndipo musachite chidwi nsanje yobwezeretsa: ngati akuwululira kuti ndi azimayi angati omwe adakhala nawo pachibwenzi pamaso panu (mmodzi, wocheperako) sikuti kumangowonetsa kuwonekera poyera komanso kukhulupilira, komanso kuti iye kugonana amakonda ndipo ndani angadziwe bwanji kukhala wokonda zabwino. Zikuwoneka kwa ine kukhala nkhani yabwino, ndipo zomwezo ndizowonongeka.

Palibe chifukwa chobisa zinsinsi mwa awiriwa, komanso chifukwa posakhalitsa amatha kutuluka, kodi mukukumbukira zithunzi za Jennifer Lawrence zomwe zidabedwa ku iPhone yake? Sindingakhale pachiwopsezo chofotokozera pambuyo pake ...

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