Mukakhala "osokoneza"

Mvula yamkuntho iwiri ya Harvey inagunda US munthawi yochepa. Yemwe ku Texas adawononga anthu 89 ndi $ 70 biliyoni kuwonongeka kumapeto kwa Ogasiti. Hurricane Yina Harvey ndiomwe amapanga zaka 65 Harvey Weinstein, yemwe adagundika ku Hollywood akuwulula mlandu wa azimayi ambiri omwe adamuimba mwadzidzidzi kuti amamuchitira zachipongwe, atawerenga nkhani ya Okutobala 5 yolembedwa ku New York Times ndi Jodi Kantor ndi Megan Twohey.

Chifukwa chake patatha zaka makumi awiri kuchokera pazowona, ochita zisudzo Ashley judd e Rose McGowanAnasuma Weinstein chifukwa chakuzunza. Amayi oposa 50 adawatsatira. Tsopano Harvey Weinstein Inde muli kuchotseratu zachiwerewere nella Chipatala cha Meadows ya Wickenbug (Arizona) ya $ 37 pamwezi.

Inde, chifukwa chizolowezi chogonana zili - monga zizolowezi zonse - zina zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi chikhumbo, ngakhale zomwe zimawonekera munjira yovutitsa komanso yamwano.

Mwachidule, amene amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito chiwerewere sikuti amakhalanso wovutitsa anzawo komanso sikuti nkhumba ndiyomwe imachita zachiwerewere. Pali kukakamiza pomwe kulipo udindo wokhudzidwa kufunafuna zokopa ngakhale mukudziwa zovuta zake. Munthuyo samakhala wosangalala (monga kutchova juga mokakamiza, mwachitsanzo). Ndi kapolo wake, ngati mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Apo nymphomania chachikazi ndi kunyengerera wamwamuna amagwera pankhaniyi. Kukwezedwa kwamtundu wina wakukhumba komwe kumabweretsa kusaka kosalekeza kwa abwenzi atsopano (osasangalala), koma zomwe zimathandiza kuchepetsa kusokonezeka kwamkati kwamisala. Ndizovuta ndipo zimasokoneza kwambiri moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Wosewera kapena "mkazi wosavuta" alibe matendawa. Zolankhula zawo zitha kusinthana ndi malingaliro awo, pomwe psychology sikhala pamalo.

Kugonana kumatha kuchiritsidwa. Komanso ku Italy. pa Malo a San Nicola, pafupi ndi Senigallia, komwe amafotokoza kuti "zomwe zimayambitsa chizolowezi chogonana ndizomwe zimayambitsanso zizolowezi zina, kaya ndi zinthu kapena kutchova juga. Nthawi zambiri, amatha kufunidwa pamavuto omwe adakumana nawo ali mwana kapena m'moyo waposachedwa kwambiri wa nkhaniyi, zomwe zimayambitsa zovuta zazikulu kapena kupsinjika, zomwe "zimalipidwa" kudzera mu chiwerewere ". Amathandizanso kuchipatala. Kapena kwa Siipac waku Bolzano, kumene amafotokoza kuti “dzina lodziwika bwino la odwala matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi la amuna azaka zapakati pa 30 ndi 40, omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala okwatiwa, omwe ali ndi dipuloma ya sekondale kapena digiri. Pa fayilo ya chiwerewere chonse ku Italy, pafupifupi anthu miliyoni ndi thekaiye 70-80% ndi amuna, 20-30% ndi akazi". Ku Siipac amachiza zizolowezi zokwana 22, kuphatikiza zizolowezi za Selfie ("selfie") komanso kusuta kwa dzuwa (tanorexia).

Kugonana ndi chizolowezi chogonana chomwe chimasokoneza moyo watsiku ndi tsiku womwe umayambitsa kupsinjika kwakukulu m'banja, abwenzi komanso malo antchito. Amadziwika ndi kufunafuna kosalekeza kukhutiritsa chilakolako chogonana mosasamala kanthu za zotulukapo zake kapena chitetezo chake. Akuyerekeza kuti 6 mpaka 8% (16-21,5 miliyoni) ya anthu aku America ndi omwe amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito zachiwerewere. Kugonana nthawi zambiri kumafaniziridwa ndi mitundu ina yakumwa. Ndikofunikira kudziwa kuti kulibe palibe khalidwe lomwe limatanthauzira zakugonana, yomwe imadziwika kuti imakhudza kwambiri malingaliro amunthu, momwe akumvera, thanzi lake, machitidwe ake onse ndi magwiridwe ake. Chizoloŵezicho chimapitirira pang'onopang'ono mpaka nthawi yomwe chizoloŵezi chogonana chimasokonezeka kwambiri ndi abwenzi, banja komanso dziko lenileni. Pamapeto pake, chizolowezi chomwa mowa mwauchidakwa chimatha ndi zotsatirapo zoyipa, monga kuvutika mwalamulo, pachuma komanso / kapena kuvutika.

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Palibe njira imodzi yothandizira yomwe yawonetsedwa kuti ndi yothandiza kuposa ina. Nthawi zambiri, njira yothandizira imagwiritsidwa ntchito pogwira ntchito ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi vuto logonana. Ena mwa mankhwala amisala atha kuthandiza pakuchepetsa kuyendetsa zachiwerewere kapena kuchepetsa malingaliro olowerera. Mankhwalawa amathanso kulola munthu kuti aganizire zotsatirapo zake asanayambe kugonana kapena kuchitapo kanthu. Kuphatikiza pa mankhwala, nthawi zambiri pamakhala chithandizo chanthawi zonse kapena upangiri.

Malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwa, motsogozedwa ndi Dr. Franco Avenia, Purezidenti waNDEGE, Kugonana ku Italy ndi 5,8%. Mwa amuna ndi 10% ndipo mwa akazi 2%. THE Makhalidwe abwino kwambiri amapezeka pazaka 36 mpaka 50 ndi 6,8%.Gulu la omwe ali pachiwopsezo chachikulu chomwa mowa mwauchidakwa ndi lomwe limayamba kuchokera pa 18 mpaka 35, pomwe avareji ya 10,8%, yomwe imatsikira ku 5-6% kuyambira 35 mpaka 50. Zovuta zachiwerewere zimadziwika kwambiri kwa omwe ali ndi sekondale wotsika diploma ya sukulu (9,9%), ndipo yagwera ku 4,7% kwa omaliza maphunziro. Mu fayilo yaOsakwatira amapezeka kwambiri (8%) ndipo makamaka pakati pa omwe adakwatirana (23% olekanitsidwa ndi amasiye) poyerekeza ndi m'modzi (7%). Kugonana kumadziwika kwambiri kumpoto (39%) kuposa ku Center (32,5%) kapena kumwera (31,5%)

Zingapo Anthu otchuka - mdera la Harvey Weinstein - anena - sitikudziwa ngati molondola kapena molakwika -wokhala kapena wokhalabe ndi chizolowezi chogonana. Kanye West, Scott Disick, John Mayer, Lindsay Iohan, Denise Welch, Spencer Matthews, Calum Best, Charlie Sheen, Colin Farrell, Luisa Zissman, Jodie Marsh, David Duchowny (X-Files) ndi Michael Duglas omwe mu 1992 adasiya kugonana mu Chipatala cha Sierra ku Tucson. Komabe, palibe mayi yemwe adanenapo zachipongwe ndi anthuwa, opatsidwa chisangalalo chachikulu ku Hollywood komanso mphamvu. Koma mukudziwa - palibe amene amakonda mphepo yamkuntho ndipo Harvey siwonso.

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