Sitimaziwona, nthawi zina timaziyerekeza, nthawi zambiri timazilingalira ... ndikudziwa kuti kulipo nthawi zambiri kumawonjezera kudzidalira kwathu e kudzidalira kwathu. Kodi tikukamba za chiyani? Mwa zovala zamkati. Komabe, pitani opanda zovala zamkati ikusintha, makamaka pakati pa maanja ogwirizana kwambiri: chimodzimodzi monga izi 5 zogonana, otchedwa omasuka o kupita commando kumathandiza kuonjezera chikhumbo ndi libido!
Kutuluka kapena wopanda zovala zamkati?
Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa83% za akazi amakhulupirira zawo zovala zamkati khalani weniweni kudzidalira, chifukwa zimawapangitsa kumva bwino, okongola komanso achigololo. M'malo mwake, malaya amkati omwe amatitsogolera tsiku lililonse ndiwowonadi mfuti, nthawi zambiri zachinsinsi koma zakupha.
Kuchokera kumbali inayo, komabe, kusowa zovala zamkati zikuwoneka chimodzimodzi ogwira. Pambuyo pa ma 80, pomwe bra inali njira, yathu ikuwoneka kuti ikuyang'ana madera… otsika. Pomwe azimayi ena samayerekeza ngakhale kupita kopita ndi zovala zamkati, azimayi ena onse ayesapo kale. Pulogalamu ya 42% azimayi adavomereza kuti adachitapo kamodzi. Izi zili choncho, anthu otchuka amachita izi kawirikawiri, ngakhale pamakapeti ofiira otchuka ku Hollywood: kuchokera Christina Aguilera a Kate Moss, onetsani bizinesi sichitha kudabwitsa!
Kodi fayilo ya omasuka ndi kupita commando?
Mchitidwe wotuluka wopanda zovala zamkati watenga kale dzina lenileni, kapena awiri. Izi ndi omasuka - zomwe zimakhudza, monga momwe mungaganizire kuchokera m'dzina, gli uomini, ndi tanthauzo la kupita commando pa akazi. Yemwe samakumbukira Sharon Stone mu kanema Basic Instinct pamene adadutsa miyendo yake kutsogolo kwa Michael Douglas kutanthauza - ndikuwonanso - kuti kunalibe chilichonse pansi pa diresi loyerali? Apa, izo kutentha kwambiri ndizofanana ndi zomwe amuna ndi akazi amasankha kutuluka opanda zovala zamkati. Icho kuwopa kupezeka ndikudziwa kuzichita china chake "choletsedwa" komanso choyambitsa chilakolako chimawonjezera libido, makamaka ngati ndi Gio kuyika pakati pa awiriwo mozindikira.
Malinga ndi akatswiri, mchitidwewu ungakhale kupewa ngati mwavala china chake Jeans kapena milungu zovala zazifupi kwambiri, zomwe sizingateteze ziwalo zobisika kuchokera kumalumikizidwe akunja konse. M'malo mwake, akatswiri angapo amati izi osavala kabudula wamkati usiku umodzi. Zowonadi, kugona wopanda nsalu kumaloleza kumaliseche kuti apume: ngati amasungidwa m'nyumba pafupipafupi, pamakhala chiopsezo kuti chinyezi chiwapangitsa kukula kwambiri mabakiteriya.
Maumboni anu
Laura, wazaka 34, wokongoletsa
Tili patchuthi ndi chibwenzi changa ku Marrakech, tinali ndi anzathu omwe adaganiza zopita nafe kumalo opambana kuti tikakhale madzulo. Yambani gawo lokonzekera ndi funso lachikale: ndidzavala chiyani? Pomaliza, mnzanga amandithandiza ndipo ndimasankha diresi lakuda lalitali lopanda nsalu kumbuyo. Komabe, Ndikuganiza zomudabwitsa ... sindiyika chilichonse pansi pake. Anamverera pafupifupi nthawi yomweyo pamene adayendetsa dzanja lake pamwamba pa nsalu ndikuikonda kwambiri. Sindinkamva bwino, makamaka m'dziko lomwe linali ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana ndi changa! Chifukwa chake ndidamupempha kuti akhale pafupi ndi ine kuti andilimbikitse ... kumapeto kwamadzulo, ndidapeza zomwe ndikufuna!
Miriam, 25, mphunzitsi
Ndinapangana ndi Francesco, mnyamata yemwe ndinali naye pachibwenzi. Pulogalamuyo: pikisikondi yachikondi yolowera pakatikati pa mzindawo kenako ndikuyenda mwachikondi. Ndikamakonzekera, ndimasankha siketi yanga yayitali komanso chovala chokwanira chomwe chimalola kuti mbali zoyenera ziwoneke. Kuyang'ana komaliza pagalasi ndikukonzekera kutuluka. Kumeneko, monga chikhumbo, ndimaganiza zovula zovala zanga zamkati. Lingaliro limandisangalatsa. Ndiwosaoneka ndipo ndine ndekha amene ndikudziwa. Ndizo zonse zomwe ndimaganiza nthawi yachakudya: mumuuze kapena mudikire? Ndili mkati moyenda, Francesco ali ndi manja akuyendayenda mthupi langa ndipo amamvetsetsa mwachangu… Tonse tili achisangalalo, tinasintha nthawi yomweyo kubwerera kwathu. Madzulo odzaza ndi adrenaline ndi malingaliro omwe sindidzawaiwala.
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