Sinthani nthawi, konzani nthawi, pangani nthawi kuti ichitike bwino: abwenzi, kodi nthawi ndiyofunika motani?
Zambiri, ndimagwiritsa ntchito zida zogwiritsira ntchito kukhathamiritsa, zochita zokha ndi kasamalidwe ka nthawi, KOMA pali chinthu chimodzi chomwe ndichofunika kwambiri kuposa nthawi ndipo sichimaganiziridwa koma chimapanga kusiyana kwakukulu.
Ndikulankhula chiyani?
Ndikufotokozera nthawi yomweyo ndimachita masewera olimbitsa thupi:
Ingoganizirani kuti moyo wanu ndi keke, wopangidwa ndi magawo 5. Gawo lililonse limayimira gawo limodzi mwamagawo asanu amoyo wanu: gawo lanu, la ntchito, banja, thanzi komanso gawo lauzimu.
Chabwino, tsopano funso nlakuti: monga waluso waluso, atapatsidwa nthawi 100 yomwe muli nayo, mungaigawire bwanji pakati pa madera 5wa kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino komanso wokwaniritsa?
Tsopano, lamulo la 100 limatiuza kuti anthu ambiri amayankha kuti, "Chabwino, banja lofunika… inenso ndimagwira ntchito. Gawo lauzimu? Zikumveka zabwino! Koma ngakhale payekha ndiyeno zonse zimayambira pa thanzi…. Mukufuna kunyalanyaza? Tiyeni tichite 20-20-20-20 ndi 20.
Mfundo ndiyakuti kulinganiza nthawi yomwe ikupezeka m'malo onse asanu mofanana sikungapangitse kuti mukule mofanana m'malo onsewa. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa mutha kusunganso nthawi mwaluso, koma sikuti kuyika maola 5 pantchito, ndiye kuti kukubwezeretsani omwe akukana 20.
Mfundo yoti abwenzi ndikuti vuto si kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito njira imodzi, koma mtundu wa mphamvu zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito.
Tiyenera kulingalira zochepa potengera kuchuluka ndi zambiri potengera khalidwe. Pang'ono pokhudzana ndi nthawi komanso mphamvu.
Kukhathamiritsa kasamalidwe ka nthawi ndi hering'i ofiira ngati sitiganizira za kasamalidwe ka mphamvu, kuwonjezera, kusunga ndikugwiritsa ntchito mwanzeru mphamvu zomwe muli nazo.
Mwachitsanzo, tengani MindLab, gulu langa lachinsinsi lomwe sabata iliyonse ndimakhala ndi ola limodzi momwe ndimayankhira mafunso a omwe adalembedwera kapena mulimonse momwe ndimayankhulira zama psychology ndikukula kwamunthu mwanjira inayake. Nthawiyo siyambiri, koma omwe amatenga nawo gawo mu mphindi 1zo amadziwa kuti ndimagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanga zonse zomwe zilipo.
Sabata iliyonse ndimapereka 100% ndipo ndimapatsidwa mindlabi 100% yakuthokoza kwawo. Sindiwapatsa nthawi yanga 100%, koma mphamvu yanga 100%. Sindikulankhula za kuchuluka, ndikulankhula za mtundu.
Anthu okwatirana amatha kukhala limodzi madzulo onse osasinthana. Nthawi yodzipereka ya 100, ziro mphamvu yayikidwa. Kodi chimawabwezera chiyani kuyambira madzulo amenewo? Zero.
Kapenanso mumangomva amayi anu pafoni kwa mphindi 10, koma munthawiyo ndinu odzipereka kwathunthu. Bwino monga chonchi m'malo mokhala naye 24/24 koma osalankhulana chilichonse, sichoncho?
Kapena ndikudziwa chiyani, muli kutchuthi ndi ana anu koma mumakhala pafoni yanu nthawi zonse: simukuwapatsa mphamvu ndipo simungabwezeretse ubale wanu.
Kudzipereka mphamvu kuntchito kumatanthauza kumverera mokwanira pantchitoyi. Mukhala mukukumana ndi khungu lanu kuti mutha kugwira ntchito molimbika kwa maola 6, kapena kugwira ntchito "pang'onopang'ono" kwa maola 6: koyamba muli pachibwenzi ndipo mumapereka nyonga panjira, chachiwiri simukusangalatsidwa ndikuimwetsa.
Chifukwa chake abwenzi, ndikukusiyirani zolimbitsa thupi, m'malingaliro mwanga sitepe yoyamba yofunikira kuti muzindikire zomwe zachitikazo ndikusintha zomwe mukuwona kuti ndizoyenera.
Tiyeni tibwerere ku keke yathu yoyamba, yogawidwa m'magawo asanu. Gwirani tsiku ndi tsiku sabata yomwe mumalemba momwe mumawonongera nthawi yocheza.
Ndiye kuti, masana, mumathera nthawi yochuluka bwanji mukuwerenga kapena kusinkhasinkha kapena kukulitsa kukula kwanu? Kapena, mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochuluka motani? Mumakhala nthawi yayitali bwanji ndi banja lanu? Zochuluka motani kuti musinthe thanzi lanu? Zochuluka bwanji zolumikizana ndi gawo lauzimu?
Mukamapanga tsikuli mumaganiziranso momwe mumagawira mphamvu zanu mgawo lililonse la magawo asanuwa. Osati momwe mungafune kuigwiritsa ntchito, musadandaule, koma kuchuluka kwa momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito.
Pambuyo pa sabata yoyamba yesani kuyankha mafunso awa:
Kodi mungasunge bwanji mphamvu zanu? Kugwiritsa ntchito foni yanu pang'ono? Kupewa kuyankhula ndi woyendetsa taxi yemwe ali pantchito ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawiyo kudzipezanso mphamvu pang'ono? Kupumula kuntchito kwanu nthawi ndi nthawi? Kapena mukuwona kuti kusinkhasinkha kumakuthandizani kuti mupatsenso mphamvu muzitsulo? Kuyenda wapansi? Kukhala pafupi ndi anthu omwe amapereka mphamvu? Kapena yesetsani kukumbukira chifukwa chomwe chimakukakamizani kuti mugwire ntchitoyo?
Ngati mukufuna kutengapo gawo pazowonetsa za MindLab, dinani apa: https://www.lucamazzucchelli.com/mindlab/
Ngati mukufuna kulankhula ndi anthu ena pankhaniyi ndi nkhani zina, lowani nawo pagulu la "PsyWay: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231102253669273/
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