Wopambana pa Mphotho ziwiri za Academy za Best Actress, ma Golden Globe anayi, ma BAFTA awiri ndi Emmy, Jane Fonda ndi nthano kale pazamasewera achisanu ndi chiwiri. Wolemba bwino komanso wolimbikira, moyo wake ukhoza kuwoneka ngati nthano kwa ife, koma posachedwa wochita masewerowa adalankhula za kuopsa kwa matenda amisala omwe adakumana nawo, vuto lomwe likukulirakulira pakati pa achinyamata chifukwa cha zovuta zamagulu ndi miyezo yosagwirizana ndi kukongola ndi ungwiro. matupi.
Chinyengo cha ulamuliro
Wosewera wazaka 85 adauza wolandila Alex Cooper kuti anali "wachisoni" ali mwana, makamaka popeza kwa nthawi yayitali adakakamizika kusewera msungwana wabwino kwambiri pantchito zake zambiri. Zinkamuvuta kwambiri kuti azisamalira bwino maonekedwe ake, makamaka chifukwa cha maonekedwe ake.
"Ndinali ndi bulimic, anorexia, ndipo mwadzidzidzi ndinakhala nyenyezi, kotero kugogomezera maonekedwe a thupi kunakhala magwero a nthawi zonse kwa ine," adavomereza. “Ndili ndi zaka 20, ndinayamba kukhala katswiri wa zisudzo. Ndinadwala bulimia kwambiri. Ndinkakhala moyo wachinsinsi. Ndinali wosasangalala kwambiri. Ndinaganiza kuti sindikhala ndi zaka 30. "
Mofanana ndi anthu ena ambiri omwe ali ndi bulimia, nkhawa za thupi ndi zipsyinjo za chikhalidwe cha anthu kupyolera mu malingaliro omwe amagawana nawo za kukongola - nthawi zambiri zomwe zimakhala zosayembekezereka komanso zosatheka - zimayambitsa ndi kukulitsa vutoli.
La bulimia nervosa Ndi vuto la kudya lomwe limadziwika ndi zochitika mobwerezabwereza za kudya mopitirira muyeso mu nthawi yochepa kwambiri. Kuwonjezera pa zimenezi ndi kudera nkhaŵa mopambanitsa pa kuletsa kuwonda, kumene nthaŵi zambiri kumapangitsa anthu kugwiritsira ntchito njira zosayenera kuti apeŵe kuwonda, monga kusonkhezera kusanza kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala otsekemera.
Munthu wa bulimia amadziona kuti ndi wonenepa chifukwa ali ndi malingaliro olakwika a thupi lake. Ngakhale kuti ali wonenepa bwino, amaona kuti sakukhutira komanso amaopa kunenepa, koma amalephera kudziletsa kuti adye, moti pamapeto pake amavutika ndi vuto la kudya mopambanitsa.
Fonda anafotokoza kuti atayamba kudya kwambiri komanso kumwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ankaganiza kuti vuto lake la kudya linali "lopanda mlandu." “N’chifukwa chiyani sindingathe kudya ayisikilimu ndi keke n’kungotaya?” anadabwa. "Kodi simukudziwa kuti chimakhala chizoloŵezi choyipa chomwe chimatenga moyo wanu." Ndipotu, anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi bulimia amaganiza kuti ali ndi mphamvu, koma zoona zake zatha. Izi zimawapangitsa kuti atenge nthawi kuti azindikire kuti ali ndi vuto ndipo akufunikira thandizo.
Bulimia imapita kupitirira chakudya
Jane Fonda wakhala akudwala bulimia kwa zaka 35, matenda omwe amaposa chakudya. Ndithudi, iye anavomereza kuti mkhalidwe wachinsinsi wa vuto lake "Zinapangitsanso kuti zikhale zosatheka kuti akhalebe ndi ubale weniweni."
"Tsiku lanu lakonzedwa kuti mupeze chakudya ndikudya, ndiye muyenera kukhala nokha ndipo palibe amene angadziwe zomwe mukuchita". wafotokoza. “Ndi vuto losungulumwa kwambiri ndipo umayamba kuzolowera. Ndikutanthauza kuti ukangodya chinachake, umafuna kuchichotsa.
Fonda adafotokozanso kuti nthawi yayitali ya moyo wake adayenera kutero "Ntchito yogonjetsa chiweruzo, kutsutsa ndi kutsutsa, mfundo yakuti mosasamala inandipangitsa kumva kuti sindinali wokongola ngati sindinali wochepa thupi."
Wochita masewerowa adavomereza kuti zidamutengera zaka zambiri kuti amvetsetse momwe matenda ake amakhudzira thupi lake komanso moyo wake. “Pamene udakali wamng’ono umaganiza kuti sunakhalepo chifukwa thupi lako ndi laling’ono. Pamene mukukula, mtengo umawonjezeka. Choyamba zimatenga masiku kenako kwa sabata kuti mungoledzera kamodzi. Ndipo sikuti ndi kutopa kokha, koma mumakwiya ndi kudana. Mavuto onse amene ndadziloŵetsamo ndi chifukwa cha mkwiyo ndi udani umenewo.”
M'malo mwake, bulimia sikuti imatsagana ndi njala yamalingaliro ndi malingaliro opitilira muyeso okhudzana ndi kulemera ndi mawonekedwe a thupi, komanso imabweretsa kudziimba mlandu komwe kumachepetsa kudzidalira, kumayambitsa kudzipatula komanso nthawi zambiri kumakulitsa nkhawa. Anthu ena amatha kufika mpaka kukasangalala ndi malingaliro ngati "Sindikufunanso kukhala ndi moyo” chifukwa sakupeza njira yopulumukira.
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Jane Fonda atadwala bulimia kwa zaka 35 anati: “Ndinafika pamene ndinali ndi zaka 40 pamene ndinaganiza kuti, 'Ndikapitiriza kuchita zimenezi, ndifa.' Ndinali ndi moyo wathunthu. Ndinali ndi ana, mwamuna, ndinali mu ndale… ndinali nazo zinthu zonsezo. Ndipo moyo wanga unali wofunika. Koma ndinalephera kupitiriza, choncho ndinasiya zonse mwadzidzidzi”.
Jane Fonda anali yekha panthawi yochira. “Sindinkadziwa kuti pali magulu omwe mungalowe nawo. Palibe amene anandiuza za izo. Sindinadziwe kuti pali mawu ofotokoza zomwe zinkandichitikira, choncho ndinangosiya, ngakhale kuti zinali zovuta kwambiri.
Pomalizira pake, wojambulayo anapereka malangizo omwe, mwa iye, adamuthandiza kuthana ndi bulimia: "Mukatalikirapo mtunda pakati panu ndi kumwa komaliza, kumakhala bwinoko. Zimakhala zosavuta nthawi zonse. " Jane Fonda adanenanso kuti paulendo wake wochira adayenera kupitako mankhwala a nkhawa, zomwe zinamuthandiza kuti asiye kudya kwambiri.
Nkhani yake imadziwika ndi kuzunzika, monga miyoyo ya anthu ambiri omwe akudwala bulimia, koma kulimba mtima kwake pofalitsa nkhani zapamtima zotere kumathandiza kuwonetsetsa kuti matenda omwe pafupifupi 1% ya anthu amavutika komanso omwe samakhudza kwambiri chitsime chawo. -kukhala komanso pa thanzi lawo ngakhalenso moyo wawo. Mlandu wake ndi wofunikira chifukwa ukuwonetsa kuti pali njira yotulukira: ndizotheka kuthana ndi bulimia.
Pakhomo Jane Fonda amalankhula za vuto lamalingaliro lomwe latenga moyo wake: 'Ndikapitiriza chonchi, ndifa' idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.
