"Aliyense amene sadziwa kudzilamula yekha ayenera kumvera", analemba Nietzsche. Ndipo adaonjeza "Oposa m'modzi amadziwa kudziwuza yekha, koma akadali kutali kwambiri ndi kudziwa kumvera yekha". Thecholetsa, podziwa momwe tingadzilamulire tokha, ndizomwe zimatilola kuwongolera moyo wathu. Popanda kudziletsa timakhala pachiwopsezo cha njira ziwiri zoyeserera ndi kuwalamulira: imodzi imachitika pansi pazomwe timazindikira ndipo inayo imawonekera bwino.
Aliyense amene amakukwiyitsani amakulamulirani
Kudziletsa ndi komwe kumatilola ife kuyankha m'malo mochitapo kanthu. Pamene titha kuwongolera malingaliro athu ndi malingaliro athu, titha kusankha momwe tingachitire ndi zochitika. Titha kusankha ngati kuli koyenera kumenya nkhondo kapena ngati, m'malo mwake, ndibwino kuisiya.
Tikalephera kuugwira mtima ndi zilakolako zathu, timangochitapo kanthu. Popanda kudziletsa, palibe nthawi yoganizira ndikupeza yankho labwino kwambiri. Tinangodzilola tokha kumapita. Ndipo nthawi zambiri izi zimangotanthauza kuti wina angatipusitse.
Zowonadi, zamphamvu zakhala zamphamvu kwambiri zomwe zimasintha machitidwe athu. Mkwiyo, makamaka, ndi malingaliro omwe amatipangitsa kuti tichitepo kanthu ndipo amatipatsa mpata woti tilingalire. Sayansi imatiuza kuti mkwiyo ndikumverera komwe timazindikira mwachangu komanso molondola pamaso pa anthu ena. Zikuwunikiranso kuti mkwiyo umasintha malingaliro athu, umakhudza zisankho zathu ndikuwongolera machitidwe athu, kupitirira momwe zidayambira.
Potsatira kuukira kwa 11/XNUMX, mwachitsanzo, pomwe ofufuza ochokera ku University of Carnegie Mellon poyesa kuyambitsa mkwiyo mwa anthu, adawona kuti sizinakhudze malingaliro awo owopsa pokhudzana ndi uchigawenga, komanso malingaliro awo azomwe zikuchitika tsiku ndi tsiku monga kutenga mphamvu ndi malingaliro andale.
Tikakwiya, mayankho athu amakhala osadalirika, chifukwa chake sizomwe zimangochitika mwangozi kuti zambiri zomwe timakumana nazo zimakhazikika pamalingaliro amtundu wa mkwiyo ndi mayiko omwe amakhala nawo nthawi zambiri, monga mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo. M'malo mwake, zomwe zili ndi kuthekera kokulira kutsegulidwa pa intaneti ndizomwe zimapangitsa mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo. Ofufuza a University of Beihang adapeza kuti mkwiyo ndimikhalidwe yotchuka kwambiri m'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndipo umakhala ndi mphamvu zomwe zitha kubweretsa kufalitsa komwe kumadzaza mkwiyo mpaka madigiri atatu opatukana ndi uthenga wapachiyambi.
Tikamayendetsedwa ndi mkwiyo kapena zina, osazisefa mwakudziletsa, timakhala osavuta kuyankha. Zachidziwikire, makina olamulira nthawi zambiri amapezeka pansi pamlingo wazidziwitso, chifukwa chake sitikudziwa kuti ulipo. Kuti muchimitse izi, ndikwanira kuti muyime kaye pang'ono musanayankhe kuti mupezenso ulamuliro womwe Nietzsche adachita.
Ngati mulibe chidziwitso chodziwika bwino chanjira yanu, wina adzakusankhirani
“Sikuti aliyense amafuna kunyamula katundu wa zomwe sanalamulire; koma amachita zinthu zovuta kwambiri mukawalamula ", Nietzsche adati akunena za chizolowezi chofala chofuna kuthawa maudindo athu ndikulola ena kutisankhira zochita.
Kukulitsa kudziletsa kumatanthauzanso kuzindikira kuti tili ndi udindo pazomwe timachita. Komabe, pamene anthu sakufuna kutenga udindowu, amasankha kusiya m'manja mwa ena kuti asankhe.
Kuzenga mlandu komwe kunayamba pa Epulo 11, 1961 ku Yerusalemu motsutsana ndi Adolf Eichmann, wamkulu wa asitikali a Nazi SS komanso wamkulu wotsogolera anthu ambiri omwe adathetsa miyoyo ya Ayuda opitilira 6 miliyoni, ndichitsanzo chabwino kwambiri chokana ulamuliro.
A Hannah Arendt, wafilosofi wachiyuda wobadwira ku Germany yemwe adathawira ku United States, adalemba atakumana ndi Eichmann: "Ngakhale woyeserera amayesetsa, aliyense amatha kuwona kuti mwamunayo sanali chilombo [...] wopepuka [...] ndizomwe zidamupangitsa kuti akhale chigawenga chachikulu m'nthawi yake [...] Sikunali kupusa, koma chidwi chodziwika komanso cholephera kuganiza ".
Munthuyu amadziona ngati "zida zosavuta zamakina oyang'anira ". Iye anali atalola ena kumusankhira iye, kumufufuza ndi kumuuza choti achite. Arendt anazindikira izi. Amamvetsetsa kuti anthu abwinobwino amatha kuchita zoyipa akalola kuti ena awasankhire.
Iwo omwe athawa maudindo awo ndipo safuna kudzilamulira moyo wawo amalola kuti ena agwire ntchitoyi. Kupatula apo, ngati zinthu zikuyenda molakwika, ndikosavuta kuimba mlandu ena ndikufunafuna azachinyengo m'malo mongoyesa chikumbumtima, mea culpa ndipo yesetsani kukonza zolakwika zomwe mwachita.
Lingaliro la Bermensch wa Nietszche amapita kwina. Cholinga chake cha superman ndi munthu yemwe samayankha kwa wina aliyense koma iyemwini. Munthu amene amasankha molingana ndi machitidwe ake, amakhala ndi chifuniro chachitsulo ndipo koposa zonse, amatenga udindo pa moyo wake. Munthu wodziyimira payekha salola kuti azilamuliridwa ndi mphamvu zakunja, makamaka salola kuti ena amuuze momwe ayenera kukhalira.
Iwo omwe sanayambitse locus of control mkati ndi kusowa kwa mphamvu adzafunika malamulo omveka bwino ochokera kunja ndikuwathandiza kuwongolera moyo wawo. Chifukwa chake malingaliro akunja amatenga malo azokonda. Zosankha za ena zimawongolera zisankho zawo. Ndipo pamapeto pake amakhala moyo womwe wina wawasankhira.
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Pakhomo Iwo omwe sangathe kudziletsa amayenera kumvera, malinga ndi Nietzsche idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.
