Funso lomwe muyenera kudzifunsa musanadzipereke kwa ena

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Nanga bwanji ngati tipereka nsembe?

nell 'Oresteia, Aeschylus akunena kuti Agamemnon, kuti apeze chiyanjo cha milungu asanapite kunkhondo, anaganiza zopereka mwana wake wamkazi, Iphigenia nsembe. Ngakhale kuti Iphigenia anapulumutsidwa m’malo ochita zinthu monyanyira ndi Artemi, amene anam’patsa udindo wa unsembe wamkazi mu akachisi ake, cholinga chopereka nsembe chidakalipo.

Zoonadi, zaka mazana ambiri zapitazo m’zikhalidwe monga Igupto Wakale sizinali zachilendo kupereka atumiki ndi akuluakulu nsembe kuti akaikidwe ndi farao yemwe anamwalira posachedwapa, kuti am’tumikire pambuyo pa imfa. Zochita izi ndi zonyansa kwa ife masiku ano, koma lingaliro loyambira la nsembe lakhalabe lofunika kwambiri m'madera ambiri amakono. Chipwe chocho, chili chilemu kunyingika ngwo yuma yino yinasolola ngwo yuma yino yinasolola ngwo, twatamba kunyingika ngwo yuma yeswe yinasoloka kuli yetu.

Msampha wansembe: Kudzipatulira tokha osafunsa kalikonse

Mawu akuti nsembe amachokera ku Chilatini, kuchokera ku mgwirizano wa wansembe e facio; ndiko kuti, “kuyeretsa” chinachake mwa kuchilemekeza ndi kuchilemekeza. Vuto ndilakuti chinthu chikakhala chopatulika, timasiya kuchifunsa. Popanda kukayikira, zimakhala ngati lamulo losamveka kapena loletsa.

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Sizongochitika mwangozi, kwenikweni, kuti adjective sacrum amachokera ku mneni wachilatini chilango, kuchokera kumene, modabwitsa, liwu loti chilango limachokera, ndipo limatanthauza kuyeretsa ndi kuvomereza, kupanga chinthu chosawonongeka kapena chosawonongeka kapena kuchipanga kukhala chopatulika. Chifukwa chake, anthu apereka kwa ife kuti lingaliro lomwe la nsembe siliyenera kufunsidwa. Ndi zonyansa.

Mwina malingaliro athu oganiza bwino samadziwa matanthauzo amenewo, koma mwanjira ina kusazindikira kwathu kumamvetsetsa kuti nsembe imakhala yopatulika ndipo, motero, siyenera kukambidwa. Ngati sitikufuna kudzipereka, mosakayikira tidzasankhidwa. Amadziwika kuti ndi odzikonda, osamvetsetseka komanso otayidwa. M’malo mwake, ngati tidzipeleka nsembe, tidzatamandidwa. Tidzalandira kulandiridwa ndi udindo pagulu ngati mphotho.

Zowonadi, zikhalidwe zathu zikupitilizabe kulemekeza nsembe, monganso zikhalidwe zakale, zambiri zomwe timaziwona ngati zakale komanso zankhanza. Gulu lathu likupitirizabe kusunga dongosolo loperekera nsembe ndi njira zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti ndife okonzeka kudzipereka tokha nthawi ikafika, popanda kuganiza mozama kapena kukayikira.

Ndikokwanira kunena kuti iwo omwe adadzipereka okha chifukwa cha dziko lawo amakhala ngwazi yomwe imakhala chitsanzo kwa ana kusukulu ndi Yesu pamtanda, ndendende panthawi yomwe amadziperekera yekha chifukwa cha anthu, ndiye chizindikiro cha anthu 2,4 biliyoni dziko lapansi.

Kunena zoona, kudzimana kumaoneka ngati chinthu chabwino. Mukadzipereka nokha, mumathandiza ena. Aliyense amakuonani kukhala wokoma mtima, wowolowa manja, komanso wopanda dyera. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, anthu ambiri zimawavuta kumvetsa kuti kudzipereka si kwabwino nthawi zonse.

Ngakhale kuti palibe cholakwika ndi kukhala owolowa manja ndi kuthandiza omwe timawakonda kapena ngakhale alendo, pali malire pachilichonse. Malire awa amawoloka tikadzipereka tokha kwambiri kwa ena, ndiye kuti tikhoza kugwerakudzimana kosatha.


Kudzikana kosatha, kutaya kosalekeza

Mu chikhalidwe cha Azungu tagwirizanitsa nsembe ndi imfa ndi zowawa. Timadzipereka tokha, koma pafupifupi osati mofunitsitsa, m'malo monyinyirika, chifukwa ndi zomwe zimatikhudza. Ngakhale kuti pali ena amene amati munthu akamakondana, sikovuta kudzimana chifukwa cha winawake.

Mosakayikira, chikondi ndi injini yamphamvu yoperekera nsembe. Koma chilichonse chili ndi malire. Ndipo pamene mbali imodzi yokha ipereka nsembe, kusalandira kalikonse pobwezera kapena kusawona mlingo wofanana wa kunyengerera, mtima umayaka.

Jung anatero "Ntchito yopereka nsembe imakhala popereka chinthu chomwe ndi chathu". Ngati nsembe ili yoona, tiyenera kusiya zonena zamtsogolo. Zomwe timapereka, tiyenera kupereka zotayika.

Freud nayenso anali ndi lingaliro ili la nsembe. Ndithudi, liwu limene anagwiritsa ntchito ponena za kuchita zimenezi linali "ndipo", mneni wa mneni "zonse", kutanthauza kutaya kapena kutaya.

Pamene mupereka ndi kuyembekezera kubweza kalikonse, n’kovuta kuti musamve kuti mwataya, makamaka zikakhala zachizoloŵezi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake anthu ambiri amakumana ndi kudzipereka ngati kutayika, komwe kumatha kupanga malo abwino omvera chisoni, kunyozedwa ndi kukhumudwa.

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Kudziletsa kosatha kumachitika pamene tisiya zokonda zathu, zolinga zathu, ndi maloto athu chifukwa cha munthu wina, ndikuyika zosowa zawo patsogolo pa zathu. Ndi kupereka chimwemwe chanu kwa ena.

Mumadzikana nokha kukhutitsidwa kwa zosowa zanu ndi zilakolako, kupondereza malingaliro anu kapena kunyalanyaza malingaliro anu, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mukutsitsa gawo lofunika la inu kumbuyo. Nsembe imeneyo imadza chifukwa cha thanzi lanu lakuthupi ndi lamaganizo, kotero kuti pamapeto pake idzakuwonongerani inu.

Kudziletsa kosalekeza kumatha kukhala mtundu wonyanyira wachifundo. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale zitadziwika bwino ndi anthu, zikakhala zosagwira ntchito kapena zosokoneza, sizili bwino.

Kaŵirikaŵiri, anthu amene ali ndi chizoloŵezi chodzimana chifukwa cha ena amatsatira “mchitidwe wodzimana” umene sufuna chifukwa choika ena patsogolo. Amachita izi chifukwa amadzichepetsera okha, motero amagwera munjira yoyankhira ma pathological.

Munthu ameneyo amaona kuti sali oyenerera kukhala chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndipo amasiya kudzisamalira n’cholinga chofuna kukhutiritsa ena. Zotsatira zake, sapeza zosowa zake zokha ndipo amadzikana zomwe zingamusangalatse ndi kukhutitsidwa.

Pachifukwa ichi, sizodabwitsa kuti anthu omwe amadzipereka nthawi zonse chifukwa cha ena amakhala otanganidwa komanso otanganidwa, akukhala pansi pa nkhawa nthawi zonse. Chifukwa chake, amatha kulimbana ndi nkhawa, kupsinjika maganizo, ndi mkwiyo.

Nsembe yozindikira, njira yopewera chisoni

Ofufuza pa Free University of Amsterdam anapeza kuti cholinga chathu choyamba ndi kudzipereka chifukwa cha anthu omwe timawakonda. Mu kafukufuku wina, adafunsa ophunzira kuti asankhe mafunso ovuta omwe iwo ndi okondedwa awo ayenera kufunsa kwa alendo. Komabe, anthu omwe anali ndi mlingo wochepa wodziletsa chifukwa chakuti anali atatopa ndi ntchito yapitayi anatenga oposa theka la "ntchito yonyansa." M’malo mwake, enawo anagawana ntchitoyo mofanana.

Lingaliro lakuti kudziletsa kumapangitsa munthu kukhala wofunitsitsa kudzimana lingawonekere kukhala lodabwitsa, koma liri lomveka. Pamene tatopa, timakhala ndi mwayi wosankha njira zodziwikiratu zomwe timakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mu ubale wathu wapamtima, kulola kutengeka ndi zikhumbo zoyamba, zomwe zakhazikitsidwa mwa ife kuyambira paubwana, popanda kuganizira kwambiri. kuthekera kwawo kapena zotsatira zake.

Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, tikakhala odziletsa tingaime kwa kamphindi kuti tiganizire zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kapena zachangu pazochitikazo. M’mikhalidwe yoteroyo sitilola kutengeka ndi zilakolako zathu zachizoloŵezi kapena ndi zinthu zooneka ngati zofunika kwambiri, koma timayesa zilakolako za ena motsutsana ndi zathu. Tiyeni tiwunike bwino momwe zinthu zilili ndikusankha chochita.

Titha kusankha njira yoperekera nsembe kapena tingasankhe kuti ndiyosayenera. Nthawi zina, kudzipereka nokha chifukwa cha ena si njira yanzeru kwambiri yopitira, ndipo nthawi zambiri sikupindulitsa ena, chifukwa kumatha kuyambitsa kusayenda bwino kwa ubale kapena kuchotsera mwayi wakule. Zikatero, kudziika patsogolo sikudzikonda, ndi nzeru chabe.

Malire:

Righetti, F. et. Al. (2013) Kudziletsa Pang'onopang'ono Kumalimbikitsa Kufunitsitsa Kudzipereka mu Ubale Wapamtima. Psychological Science; 24 (8): 10.1177.

Impett, EA & Gordon, AM (2008) Zothandiza ena: Kufikira ku psychology yodzipereka. Mu SJ Lopez (Mkonzi.), Psychology yabwino: Kufufuza zabwino mwa anthu, Vol. 2. Kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri zokumana nazo zamalingaliro (79-100). Praeger Publishers/Greenwood Publishing Group.

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