Nkhani yomwe timanena ndi yoona ndipo tidapatsidwa ndi wowerenga yemwe amafuna kuti asadziwike. Imafuna kutipangitsa kulingalira za kuthekera kopusitsa komwe anthuwa amatha kugwiritsa ntchito popanda zoletsa kapena zokhumudwitsa kuti akwaniritse cholinga chomwe akufuna, kaya ndi chiyani.
Chimodzi mwa zida zawo zamphamvu kwambiri komanso zoopsa chimagwiritsidwa ntchito kudzera mchitidwe wogonana mwamphamvu komanso mwachibadwa womwe poyamba ungawonekere kukhala wokhutiritsa koma womwe posakhalitsa umadzakhala wopweteka kupanga "nthawi zonse" mtundu wa zizolowezi zomwe zimabweretsa chinyengo chamatsenga kwa iwo omwe tsoka kukumana nalo osokoneza bongo amuna kapena akazi omwe ali.
Pakadali pano nkhani yayikulu kwambiri ndi mkazi wamiseche ndipo wozunzidwayo ndiwamwamuna wozunzidwa.
Pomwe mwamunayo ndi amene amatenga nawo mbali sizoyenera chifukwa amuna samadziulula poyera chifukwa cha manyazi kapena kunyada akakumana ndi wamankhwala achikazi.
Izi ndi zomwe zidachitika:
》 Madzulo aliwonse nthawi ya 14,30 pm, amabwera kwa ine.
Nthawi yoyenera kulakalaka kwanu:
"Pambuyo pa nkhomaliro tsopano mukudziwa kuti ndimachita misala ndikukhala ndi chilakolako china, ndiyenera kukhala nanu, ndikukufunani kwambiri"
adandiuza monyodola komanso mwankhanza:
Madzulo aliwonse, kupatula Loweruka ndi Lamlungu chifukwa inali nthawi ya okondedwa ake ena, amabwera kwa ine kwa zaka ziwiri.
Anali iye, woyang'anira wanga wamndende, wondisunga.
Palibe chomwe chidasiyidwa mwamwayi, mafuta onunkhira mwachitsanzo. .. "Narciso" wopangidwa ndi Rodriguez, mafuta onunkhira omwe sindidzaiwala, ngakhale chipatso ichi chakukonzekera kwamisala, anandiuza:
"Simusintha mafuta onunkhira, mungasinthe umunthu wanu wapamtima?"
Khomo lolowera pakhomo, ndinatsegula chitseko ndipo kusakanikirana kwanthawi zonse kwa kalasi ndi chilakolako kunali patsogolo panga.
Zovala zokongoletsa bwino nthawi zonse komanso zovala zonyansa, tsitsi lalitali la wavy, utoto wakuda wokhala ndi maloko m'malo opepuka, opanda madzi, ndi tuft yomwe kuchokera mbali imodzi ya nkhope idagwa pamapewa kenako mpaka pansi mawere akulu osonyeza khosi lina koma osachulukirapo.
Mabere amagwa osagwidwa ndi malaya ofiira kapena akuda a silika.
Amakonda dontho lamiyala yamtundu kapena mizere yamizeremizere, malaya ocheperako kapena ochepa omwe sanasiyiretu malingaliro.
Maso okhala ndi odulira pang'ono kum'maŵa komanso ophunzira amdima wakuda omwe amatha kupatsa chidwi, osasunthika, akuyang'anitsitsa kwa inu, osinkhasinkha osati ine ndekha koma ndi aliyense, anali gawo losokoneza komanso losangalatsa kwambiri, loopsa maso, okhoza kusokoneza ndikupatsanso kumvetsetsa kwa mutu.
Thupi lomwe limayimira chilichonse chomwe chimapereka tanthauzo ku mawu oti "kugonana", chiuno cholimba mmaonekedwe osangalatsa a mandolin.
Nthawi zambiri anali kuvala mathalauza opangidwa mwaluso omwe amadutsa pamutu wake wosapeweka wokhala ndi zidendene zazitali.
Atatha kugwira ntchito m'mawa m'mawa m'makalasi amilandu ndipo atatha kusamalira bwino "zomwe banja lake limadzipereka" anali kukonzekera kuti adzalandire mphotho zomwe adzandilandire pa nthawi yachiwerewere, zolakwa, ziwonetsero, zopotoza.
Nthawi imeneyo kumva kulira kwa belu inali chizindikiro chakuyamba kwamasewera olimbikitsa kulingalira komanso oletsedwa.
Sindikupita patali ndikufotokozera momwe ndimamvera za iye komanso kuti sindimafuna kungokhala choseweretsa koma kuti ndimafuna zambiri kufikira nditazindikira umunthu wosokonezeka womwe ndimasewera nawo.
Inde ndikudziwa… ndizodabwitsa kuti bambo akulemba izi koma palinso nkhani ndi omwe atembenuka mtima, ndikhulupirireni!
Nthawi iyi inali nthawi yoti mwamuna alumidwe ndi mzimayi wonyenga ndi kulowa munjira zankhanza komanso zamdima zomwe zandizungulira zanga komanso nkhani za iwo omwe adakumana ndi ziwopsezo zowononga izi.
Kugonana kwa iye kunali kofunikira monga kupuma, kumachita mwanjira yake koposa zonse, kuwongolera, kusankha, kusintha ndikusintha, kuyitanitsa, ndizo zonse zomwe ziwonetsero zake zomveka bwino zimafotokozera.
Kwa iye, kupanga chikondi kunali kosamveka chifukwa kupanga chikondi sikuphatikiza kusinthana komanso kusakanikirana pakati pa omwe akutsutsana ndi ochita zachiwerewere amapanga chikondi ndi iwo okha komanso kugonana ndi omwe amawakonda.
Kwa wamisili pali chikhumbo chokha chodzikhutiritsa, kudabwa, kudabwa ndi kusiririka.
Nthawi iliyonse zinali ngati kuvala chiwonetsero chodabwitsa komanso chosaiwalika.
Sindinadziwe momwe adakwanitsira kukhala ndi malingaliro opatsa chidwi, njirayi yogwira ntchito mwakuthupi komanso mwamaganizidwe.
Sanasangalale ndikunyengerera, kusasamala, zosokoneza posamalira tsatanetsatane, kwa iye tsatanetsatane anali zonse.
Chinyengo chinakhala munthu ndipo anali ndi zosangalatsa zambiri podziwa kuti anali!
Asanabwere kwa ine ndinali nditaphunzitsidwa bwino momwe ndingakonzekere miyambo yosiyanasiyana asanafike.
Zipinda zanyumba yanga zonse zimayenera kukhala ndi fungo labwino lokhala ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana, makandulo achikuda obalalika makamaka mozungulira kama ndi magetsi ofewa, kusowa kapena kuyiwalako chimodzi mwazokonzekera izi kunatanthauza kubwerera kozizira komwe kumaphatikizaponso chilango chopangidwa ndi Kusapezeka kwa mlungu umodzi, kotero sikunali koyenera kulakwitsa kuti ndisadutse nthawi yodziletsa yomwe idakwanitsa kundikwiyitsa.
Zachidziwikire, kusankha malo ndi mphindi zinali zofunikira kuti akhutiritse malingaliro ake komanso anga, ofunikira koposa zonse chisangalalo chake chomwe chimayenera kufikira poti patapita nthawi ndidaphunzira kuzindikira kuti chidakwaniritsidwa.
Cholakwacho chophatikizidwa ndi ngozi yomwe idamupangitsa kuti achite misala, monga kuchita zachiwerewere pamalo opezeka anthu ndikuopa kuti apezedwa kapena ngati usiku womwewo akamabwera kuchokera kukadya ku lesitilanti, mumsewu waukulu womwe amafuna kuchita akuyendetsa popanda ndikuchepetsa pang'ono ndikundifunsa kuti ndikankhe galimoto mpaka 150 km paola.
Mawonekedwe onse amayenera kukhala angwiro nthawi zonse komanso okonzeka kuchita zachiwerewere komanso malingaliro abwinobwino obadwa usiku wathawu.
Nthawi iliyonse pamsonkhano woyamba, msonkhano ndi mlendo wokongola, chochitika chatsopano, sindimadziwa zomwe zidzachitike.
Madzulo aliwonse amakhala oyambitsa omwe amapangidwa ndi kupezeka pang'onopang'ono kwa thupi lokonzedwa bwino, thupi lomwe adagwiritsa ntchito bwino ndipo lomwe limawonetsedwa pang'onopang'ono ndikumavula zovala zomwe zidapangitsa kuti azindikire zovala zamkati zokongola, zolimba mtima komanso zolakwika. anasankha.
Nanga bwanji za nthawi zomwe mosayembekezereka adabwera kunyumba kwanga osachenjeza ndipo atangovala malaya okha ndi nsapato zakuda, adangovala ...
Kugonana koyambirira kumatanthauza kundisandutsa mwa njira yakeyake, kuyambitsa masewera osocheretsa okopa ndi kuzunza pang'ono komwe kumayembekezeredwa komanso kukana mwamanyazi kenako ndikundidabwitsa ndimasewera azitali kapena ochepa omwe amatsogolera nthawi iliyonse kunyamulidwa muzonse zomwe munthu wokonda atha kufuna pansi pamtima, amadziwa bwino, amadziwa momwe angachitire ndi amuna komanso zomwe angapeze kuchokera kwa iwo kuyambira ali wachinyamata.
Amadziwa bwino zomwe malingaliro ndi zokhumba zosaneneka zili za mwamuna.
Amadziwa zomwe munthu amakonda kumva, mafuta onunkhira oti amununkhize, zomwe angawonetse za iye komanso momwe angawonetsere munthawi yoyenera pamisonkhano.
Kuwongolera mayendedwe a thupi lake inali imodzi mwazida zake zodabwitsa, kuwawona akugwira ntchito akuwoneka kuti ndi omwe amatsogolera m'mafilimu omwe amuna timakonda kuwona.
Amadziwa kugwiritsa ntchito maluso onsewa mwanjira yopambana kuphatikiza pazolakalaka zake zowongolera zochitikazo, monga wamakani komanso wotsogolera wabwino amadziwa momwe angachitire pothandiza otsogolera ake.
Kudziyang'anira kunali chisangalalo chake ndipo chisangalalo changa chinali chikhomo chomwe iye adayesa kuti amvetsetse ndikutamanda luso lake, ndiye amene adapereka kapena sanapatse chilolezo kusangalala.
Ndikumvetsetsa bwino kusilira kwa mnyamata wina yemwe akuwerenga pakadali pano, inenso ndikadakhala kuti sindikadadziwa zonse zomwe zidalipo kupatula gawo ili la nkhaniyi.
Atakhala ndi munthu wokhoza kukupangitsani kuti mulipire zowawa pazosangalatsa zonse zomwe adandipatsa zomwe zidanditsogolera kutaya chilichonse.
Iwo omwe amadziwa ma narcissist amadziwa bwino kuti zonse zomwe amachita amatsogoleredwa kuti apange ntchito yayikulu komanso yosamala yodzipembedza mafano kuti adyetse zowonjezereka!
Cholinga chake chinali kusiya chizindikiro chake, kuti asaine chinsalu chomwe adalemba utoto wake:
"Simudzapeza aliyense wonga ine!",
ankakonda kundiuza, tsiku lina ndinalimba mtima kuti ndimuyankhe:
"Ndikukhulupirira choncho chifukwa ndicho cholinga changa!"
Kumbukirani kuti ochita zachiwerewere amadyetsa mphamvu za ena komanso ngati nyama zoyipa zomwe zimadya nyama imodzi mwazinthu zawo zamtengo wapatali zimachokera ku kugonana kuti zithetse mphamvu ya nyama yawo.
Kugonana komwe kumanyenga, kunyenga, kupha, kutengera kukakamiza kuwongolera komanso kuwanyengerera.
Ngati simukuwopa awa akhoza kungokufunirani: zabwino zonse!
Wolemba Loris Old
