Tikutero chifukwa chakuti tiyenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi moyo panopa popanda kuganizira kwambiri za m’tsogolo

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"Ngati chisangalalo nthawi zonse chimadalira zomwe mukuyembekezera m'tsogolomu, mudzatsata utopia yomwe idzakuthawani nthawi zonse, mpaka mtsogolo, ndi inu nokha, mudzasowa kuphompho la imfa", analemba wanthanthi Alan Watts. Komabe n’zovuta kwambiri kuti tikhale ndi moyo panopa popanda kuganizira zam’tsogolo. Chiyembekezo cha mawa sichimatisiya, chimakopa mbali yaikulu ya chisamaliro chathu kutichenjeza za mavuto onse, zosokoneza ndi zopinga zomwe tingakumane nazo kapena kutikumbutsa zonse zomwe sitinachite.


Komabe, "Pokhapokha mutakhala ndi moyo mokwanira panopa, tsogolo ndi chinyengo. Palibe chifukwa chopangira tsogolo lomwe simudzasangalala nalo chifukwa mapulani anu akakhwima mudzakhalabe ndi moyo mtsogolo. Simungathe kumasuka ndi kunena mosangalala kotheratu kuti, 'Tsopano ndimasangalala ndi mphindi yomweyi!' Maphunziro adakulepheretsani kukhala ndi luso chifukwa amakukonzekeretsani tsogolo m'malo mokuwonetsa momwe mungakhalire ndi moyo tsopano ", Watts anachenjeza.

Ndi diso la mtsogolo, timayiwala momwe tingakhalire ndi moyo panopa

"Tikukhala m'chikhalidwe chomwe chimangotengeka ndi chinyengo cha nthawi, pomwe nthawi yomwe timati ndi nthawi ino imangotengedwa ngati nthawi yochepa chabe pakati pa zomwe zidachitika zamphamvu zonse ndi tsogolo lofunika kwambiri. Tilibe panopa. Chikumbumtima chathu chimakhala chotanganidwa ndi kukumbukira komanso zoyembekeza. Sitikuzindikira kuti sipanakhalepo, pali ndipo sipadzakhalanso china chilichonse kuposa chomwe chilipo. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, tasiya kudziŵa zenizeni. Tiyeni tisokoneze dziko lomwe timalankhula, kufotokoza ndi kuyeza ndi dziko lenileni ".

Tsoka ilo, gulu lathu limatiphunzitsa kuti nthawi zonse maso athu ayang'ane zam'tsogolo. Zimatiphunzitsa kukhala ndi zolinga zochulukirachulukira, osatipatsanso nthawi yosangalala ndi zotsatira zathu chifukwa nthawi yomweyo timayamba kuyang'ana kupitirira. Kumizidwa m'chizimezime chosokonekeracho, sizingatheke kuti tipezeke kwathunthu kuti tisangalale "pano ndi pano".

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Tikamayang'ana kwambiri kukwaniritsa zolinga zathu, dziko lathu limachepa, zimakhala ngati talowa mumsewu womwe umatilepheretsa kuwona zomwe zili kunjako chifukwa timathera nthawi yathu yambiri kuyang'ana kuwala / cholinga chomwe chafotokozedwa mu 'chizimezime. . Mwanjira iyi timayiwala kukhala ndi moyo masiku ano, malingaliro athu nthawi zonse amakhala pamalo ena omwe amawoneka ofunikira komanso achangu kuposa pano ndi pano. Chotsatira chake, si zachilendo kuti titha kuchotsedwa ku zenizeni zathu, kuchita zinthu molakwika, zomwe zimatibweretsera mavuto ambiri kuposa momwe zimathetsera.

Watts akufotokoza zimenezo "Ili ndiye vuto la anthu: timalipira mtengo pakuwonjezeka kulikonse kwa chidziwitso. Pokumbukira zakale tikhoza kukonzekera zam’tsogolo. Koma luso lokonzekera zam'tsogolo limathetsedwa ndi 'kukhoza' kuopa ululu ndi zosadziwika. Kuwonjezera apo, kukhala ndi maganizo a m’mbuyo ndi zam’tsogolo kumatithandiza kudziwa zinthu zimene zikuchitika panopa. Mwanjira ina, tikuwoneka kuti tikufika pomwe ubwino wozindikira umaposa zovuta zake, pomwe kukhudzidwa kwambiri kumatipangitsa kukhala olakwika ”.

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Kukhala, chinsinsi chokhala ndi moyo panopa popanda kuganizira mozama za m'tsogolo

Anthu ambiri samakhala ndi zolinga zapamwamba kuti akule, kuwonjezera zawozawo malo otonthoza ndikudzitsutsa okha, koma amazindikira zomwe akwaniritsa ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito ngati "khadi labizinesi" kuti atsimikizire kukhalapo kwawo.

Gulu la anthu ogwira ntchito "amakakamiza" ife, mwanjira ina, kuti tikhululukire kukhalapo kwathu powonetsa zotsatira zomwe tapeza. Sitiyenera zomwe tili, ndife ofunika zomwe timapeza. Maganizo amenewa amatikakamiza kuti tizingoyang’ana zam’tsogolo mosalekeza, n’kumaiwala za masiku ano. Zimatikakamiza kuchita ndi kukonzekera, kutipangitsa kuiwala kuti tili.

Kuti tithawe malingaliro awa, Watts akufotokoza kuti tiyenera kumvetsetsa izi “Tanthauzo la moyo ndi kungokhala ndi moyo. Ndizomveka bwino, zoonekeratu komanso zosavuta. Komabe, aliyense amathamanga mwamantha ngati m'pofunika kuti akwaniritse chinachake choposa iwo eni. " Tiyenera kudziwa zimenezo “Ife tiri nazo tsopano. Sizichokera kulikonse ndipo sizipita kulikonse. Sichikhalire, koma chosatha ", ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti kuti titengerepo mwayi tiyenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi moyo panopo podzikuza tokha ndi zomwe takumana nazo pano.

Koma m’pofunika kukumbukira zimenezi “Pali njira ziwiri zomvetsetsera chochitika. Choyamba ndikuchifanizitsa ndi kukumbukira zochitika zina, ndiyeno lembani ndi kufotokozera. Izi zikutanthauza kutanthauzira molingana ndi zikumbukiro ndi zakale. Chachiŵiri ndicho kuzindikira zimene zimachitika mmene zilili, monga ngati, pamene, tadzazidwa ndi chimwemwe chachikulu, timayiŵala zakale ndi zam’tsogolo, kulola zamasiku ano kudzaza chirichonse, kotero kuti sitiima n’komwe kuganiza kuti: ‘Ndili wokondwa. wokondwa' ".

Choncho, kuti tikhale ndi moyo panopa popanda kuganizira nthawi zonse za m’tsogolo, tiyenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi kukhalabe. Chinsinsi ndi kunyengerera pano ndi pano, podziwa kuti kuwundana uku kwakanthawi kochepa ndizomwe tiyenera kusangalala nazo.

Pakhomo Tikutero chifukwa chakuti tiyenera kuphunzira kukhala ndi moyo panopa popanda kuganizira kwambiri za m’tsogolo idasindikizidwa koyamba mu Pakona ya Psychology.

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