Chifukwa chenicheni chimene timagulira zinthu zimene sitifunikira

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Tikayerekeza nyumba yamakono ndi imodzi ya zaka makumi asanu zapitazo, tidzapeza kuti timasonkhanitsa zinthu zamtundu uliwonse, zambiri zomwe zilibe ntchito. M’zaka za m’ma theka chabe, chitaganya chathu chadzigwetsera m’manja mwa kumwa mopanda malire. Zotsatira zake, timagula zinthu zomwe sitifunikira ndipo nthawi zambiri zimatha kuyiwalika pansi pa kabati kapena kukhala m'nyumba.


I zifukwa zomwe zimatipangitsa kugula zinthu zambiri kuposa zomwe timafunikira pali zambiri, kuchokera ku kuthamanga kwa adrenaline komwe kumayambira nthawi yogula koma kumatuluka pambuyo pa maola angapo kapena mkati mwa masiku angapo, ku chikhulupiriro chonyenga chakuti zinthu izi ndizomwe zimakhala zotetezeka komanso zosangalatsa. Komabe, zoyambira pazifukwa zonsezi ndikuzindikirika ndi zinthu. Monga William James adanena, "Umunthu ndiye chiŵerengero cha zinthu zonse zomwe angathe kuzifotokoza kuti ndi zake".

Timazindikira kwambiri zinthu zomwe tili nazo

Mu 1937, Abraham Bredius, m'modzi mwa akatswiri odziwika bwino a mbiri yakale padziko lapansi, yemwe adapereka moyo wake wonse ku situdiyo ya Vermeer, adaganiza kuti adachitapo kanthu. adapeza chojambula cha Vermeer “Khristu ndi ophunzira a ku Emau” amene anafotokoza mmene "Chiwonetsero cha luso lapamwamba". Mtengo wa chithunzicho unali wosawerengeka. Zaka zingapo pambuyo pake zinadziwika kuti kwenikweni inali ntchito ya wonyenga Han van Meegeren ndipo chojambula chodziwika bwino chinatsika kwambiri, kukhala chidwi chabe.

Komabe, ngati chojambulacho chinali chosangalatsa, chofotokozera komanso chanzeru, chimayenera kusunga mtengo wake. Mwachionekere sizili choncho chifukwa zinthu zambiri zilibe phindu lalikulu mwa izo zokha, koma zimaonetsera mtengo umene timawapatsa pocheza nawo. Ubwino wa zinthu umatsimikiziridwa makamaka ndi zikhulupiriro zathu ponena za izo, zimene zimaimira, ndipo, ndithudi, zimene timaganiza kuti zimanena za ife. Kukhala ndi Vermeer ndi chizindikiro cha chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe, komanso kuyamikira mwaluso. Kukhala ndi van Meegeren, osati mochuluka.

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Popanda kuzindikira, zinthu zimakhala mbali ya umunthu wathu, aliyense payekha komanso gulu. Kupyolera mwa iwo timalankhulana za umunthu wathu, zikhulupiriro ndi zokonda, timanena kuti ndife ndani komanso komwe ndife. Izi zikutanthauza kuti tikakhala ndi chinthu, chizindikiritso chimachitika pomwe timatengera chinthu kapena mawonekedwe ofanana. Mwachitsanzo, ogwiritsa ntchito a Apple amatha kuzindikira kuti ali ndi luso laukadaulo, luso komanso luso linalake lomwe limazungulira zinthu zawo.

Ndipo si njira yokha yamaganizo. Mu 2010, a neuroscientists ochokera ku Yale University ankasanthula ubongo wa gulu la anthu pamene ankaika zinthu m’chidebe cholembedwa kuti “changa” kapena pa sekondi cholembedwa dzina la munthu wina. Adazindikira zochitika mu medial prefrontal cortex poyankha kuwona zinthu zawo. Gawo lomwelo linayatsidwa pamene otenga nawo mbali adalongosola umunthu wawo chifukwa umagwirizana ndi malingaliro awo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti timawona chuma chathu ngati chowonjezera cha ife eni. Komabe, zinthu sizimangotilola kufotokoza zomwe tili, komanso zimathandizira kumanga.

Sitigula zomwe tikufuna kugula

Tikagula chinthu, pamakhala kusintha kwa tanthauzo chifukwa sikuti tikungogula chinthu koma chikhalidwe cha anthu chomwe chimamangidwa mozungulira. Tikagula mtundu wapamwamba, mwachitsanzo, timapeza kudzipatula komanso udindo. Koma sikuti nthawi zonse timagula zinthu zomwe timafanana nazo, nthawi zina zinthuzo zimasonyeza zomwe tikufuna kukhala.

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Zoona zake n’zakuti sitigula zinthu. Timagula zomwe zimatipangitsa kumva. Kugula kulikonse kumaphatikizidwa ndi kutengeka. Ngakhale kusankha tebulo sikudalira kokha pa mtundu wake, zakuthupi kapena ntchito, koma pa nthawi zonse zachisangalalo zomwe timaganizira mozungulira. Sitigula ngakhale umembala wa masewera olimbitsa thupi, koma thupi lomwe timalota. Kugula kulikonse kumakhala ndi chinyengo, ngakhale chochepa bwanji.

Chimenecho chikasiya kutidzutsa, timayang'ana china chomwe chimabweretsanso lonjezo lachisangalalo. Ndicho chifukwa chake timatha kutaya zinthu zomwe tingagwiritsebe ntchito ndikugula zomwe sitikuzifuna. Chowonadi ndi chakuti, sitimangogula zinthu, timagula zomwe takumana nazo, zongopeka ndi ma status kuti tiwonetse ena.

Timagula zinthu zimene sitifunikira chifukwa timaganiza kuti n’zofunika. Chifukwa tadzizindikiritsa nawo. Chifukwa timakhulupirira malonjezo amene ali nawo. Chifukwa amatipangitsa kumva kuti ndife amphamvu komanso olamulira moyo wathu. Ngakhale pamapeto pake zonse ndi chinyengo chabe.

Chitsime:

Kim, K. & Johnson, MK (2014) Kudzikulitsa: kuyambitsa modzidzimutsa kwa medial prefrontal cortex ndi zinthu zomwe ndi 'zanga'. Soc Cogn Zimakhudza Neurosci; 9 (7): 1006-1012.

Rucker, DD & Galinsky, AD (2008) Kufuna Kupeza: Kupanda Mphamvu ndi Kugwiritsa Ntchito Malipiro. Zolemba za Kafukufuku Wogula; 35 (2): 257-267.

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