Zizindikiro 7 zochenjeza zomwe muyenera kutengera mwana kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo

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Timakonda kuganiza kuti ubwana ndi gawo losasangalatsa, lopanda nkhawa komanso mavuto. Ndipotu, malinga ndi kafukufuku amene anachitika pa yunivesite ya California, makolo ambiri amaona kuti ana awo savutika maganizo komanso amaona kuti ndi osafunika.

N’zosakayikitsa kuti ubwana ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri m’moyo, koma ungakhalenso wovuta kwambiri. Ana akuphunzira kupanga njira zawo padziko lonse lapansi, amakumana ndi zovuta zambiri ndipo amasintha pafupifupi tsiku lililonse.

Chifukwa chake siziyenera kudabwitsa kuti 13 peresenti ya achinyamata azaka zapakati pa 10 ndi 19 amadwala matenda amisala, malinga ndi lipoti la Unicef. Chiwerengerochi chakwera kufika pa 20,8% ku Spain, lomwe ndi dziko la ku Ulaya lomwe lili ndi vuto lalikulu la matenda a maganizo a ana.

Tsoka ilo, 20% yokha ya ana ndi achinyamatawa amalandira chithandizo chokwanira, malinga ndiAmerican Psychological Association, zomwe zimachenjeza kuti tikukumana ndi vuto lenileni la thanzi la ana.

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Tsoka ilo, makolo ambiri amadikirira nthawi yayitali kuti apeze chithandizo chamankhwala. Kuzindikira kuti mwanayo wathyola mkono kapena mwendo ndipo amafunikira chithandizo chamankhwala mwamsanga n'kosavuta, koma zizindikiro zamaganizo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, kotero makolo akhoza kusokoneza ndi "zinthu za msinkhu" kapena kuganiza kuti "Adzamudutsa". Komabe, chithandizo cham'maganizo chikabwera pambuyo pake, ndiye kuti vutoli limakhazikika komanso zovuta zake.

Ndi liti pamene mungatenge mwana kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo?

1. Kubwerera ku magawo oyambirira a chitukuko

Nthawi zambiri, khalidwe la regressive ndilo chizindikiro choyamba chochenjeza kuti mwanayo amafunikira thandizo la katswiri wa zamaganizo. Ana ang'onoang'ono akamapanikizika kwambiri, amabwereranso kumayambiriro kwa chitukuko chawo kuti azidzidalira kwambiri, choncho amataya luso lomwe adapeza. Ndizofala kwa iwo kunyowetsanso bedi, kukumbutsanso nkhawa zopatukana, maloto owopsa amabwerera, kapena kuphulika pafupipafupi komanso kowopsa. Kubwerera ku gawo loyambirira lachitukuko ndi njira yopempha thandizo.

2. Kusintha kwa zizolowezi za ana

Ana onse amakula mofulumira ndipo amadya nthawi zambiri kuposa nthawi zonse kapena kutaya chilakolako chawo. Koma ngati muwona kusintha kwakukulu m’madyedwe anu kapena kachitidwe ka kugona komwe kumatenga nthaŵi yaitali kuposa milungu iŵiri, m’pofunika kuyesa kumvetsa chifukwa chake. Kuvuta kugona, kudzutsidwa usiku pafupipafupi, ndi kulota zoopsa zingasonyeze mavuto ozama a m’maganizo amene akuwonekera kudzera m’machitidwe awo ogona ndi kudya.

3. Kutuluka kwa mantha ndi nkhawa zambiri

Ubwana si nthawi yopanda nkhawa. N’kwachibadwa kuti ana ayambe kuda nkhawa ndi zinthu za m’dzikoli, makamaka akamakula. Masiku ano, ndizofala kuti malingaliro awo amatembenukira ku mliri kapena nkhondo nthawi ndi nthawi ndikuwonetsa mantha ndi kusatetezeka. Koma ngati nkhawa ndi mantha amenewa ali ochuluka, mpaka kusokoneza maganizo awo kapena kuchepetsa zochita zawo zachizolowezi, m'pofunika kupita ndi mwanayo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo kuti ateteze mavuto aakulu kwambiri, monga matenda a nkhawa kapena mantha. .

4. Kudzipatula

Ana ndi achinyamata ena amakonda kukhala omasuka komanso omasuka kuposa ena, choncho amakonda kukhala okha. Mukaona kuti mwana wanu amathera nthawi yambiri ali yekha, n’kumatalikirana ndi anzake ndiponso kukana kucheza ndi anzake, akhoza kukhala kuti akukumana ndi mikangano, akuvutika maganizo kapena kupezerera anzawo. Pankhani ya kupsinjika maganizo, kudzipatula kumeneku kaŵirikaŵiri kumatsagana ndi kusakondweretsedwa kodziŵika m’zochita zimene poyamba anali nazo, monga ngati mwana amene ankakonda kutuluka ndi kukaseŵera, safunanso.

5. Kuchulukitsa kukwiya kapena kukwiya

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Kwa ana ndi achinyamata, kusokonezeka kwamalingaliro kumatha kuwonekera ndi zizindikiro monga kukwiya, kukwiya, komanso kuyankha mopupuluma. Mwa zina, zimenezi zili choncho chifukwa chakuti mbali za ubongo zimene zimaloŵetsedwamo m’kudziletsa sizinakule mokwanira, motero ana amavutika kuletsa zilakolako zawo. Komanso, ana ndi achinyamata amakhumudwanso kwambiri akakumana ndi zopinga, zomwe zingawonekere m'makhalidwe owononga. Nthawi zina amathanso kudzivulaza, vuto lomwe limachulukirachulukira pa nthawi ino ya moyo yomwe amayesa kuthetsa kupsinjika maganizo komwe amakumana nako.

6. Mavuto akusukulu

Ngati mwana kapena wachinyamata ayamba kukhala ndi mavuto kusukulu, chifukwa chake chiyenera kupezeka. Zovuta monga ADHD, dyslexia, dysgraphia kapena zovuta kuphunzira zimazindikirika ana akangoyamba kupita kusukulu. Komanso, ngati ana akukumana ndi zovuta, amavutika kuti azichita bwino m’kalasi, motero kukhoza kwawo kusukulu kumasokonekera. Nthawi zina, mavutowa amatha kuwoneka mwankhanza ndi aphunzitsi kapena anzanu akusukulu. Choncho, m’pofunika kuti muzidziwa zimene ana anu amachita komanso mmene amachitira pa maphunziro awo.

7. Kusintha kwa Somatic

Nthawi zambiri ana samapeza mawu oyenera ofotokozera zomwe akumva kapena nkhawa, motero amatha kusokoneza malingaliro awo. Kupweteka kwamutu pafupipafupi, alopecia areata, mavuto a m'mimba kapena khungu, komanso tic tic mantha ndi zina mwa njira zomwe zovuta zamaganizo zimadziwonetsera.

Ngati mukukayikira, nthawi zonse ndi bwino kufunafuna thandizo la katswiri wa zamaganizo. Ndikofunika kuti makolo apewe maganizo owopsa ndipo samakhulupirira kuti ngati atengera mwana wawo kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo, ena adzamuika chizindikiro choyipa chomwe chimamunyoza.


Kufunafuna thandizo lapadera sikutanthauza kuti mwanayo kapena wachinyamata ayenera kulandira chithandizo chamankhwala kwanthawi yayitali. Nkhani zambiri zitha kuthetsedwa ndi upangiri wocheperako komanso/kapena kulowererapo kwa mabanja. Vuto lenileni sikupempha thandizo chifukwa vutoli likhoza kukulirakulira.

Conco, m’pofunika kuti muzidziŵa bwino nkhawa za ana anu. Athandizeni, asonyezeni chifundo, ndipo adziwitseni kuti akhoza kudalira inu akakhala ndi vuto. Ndipo ngati ana amafuna katswiri wa zamaganizo, kumbukirani zimenezo “Kuchiza si kwa amisala. Ndi za iwo omwe akufuna kuwongolera malingaliro awo ", monga amanenera akatswiri a m'gawoli.

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